My girl said I was mad about something last night and I wasn't?
Every time I go visit some friend of mind I come home upset she say and I told her I was find.
But last night she wanted just, me and her to go out last night. No friends just me and her so I said ok that what we would do so I left my friends house and came home so we can get ready to go out
she said what's the problem I said everything is fine she said you lie something is wrong. So when i started getting my cloths ready to go out she turns around and said IM NOT GOING OUT WITH YOU T'ILL YOU TELL ME WHAT'S WRONG. And again nothing is wrong by then I got mad and I went to bed so now just don't have anything to say to her. Oh she said I wasn't happy to see her when I walk in the door ... How should I deal with this. It has happen more then once before... I am just getting tired
2006-08-06 02:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by CL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
next time make something up that is wrong with you. at least then she will shut up.
2006-08-06 02:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's insecure. Not to stereotype, but you women often mistake mens' looks for signs of trouble when there isn't anything going on. And men, on the other hand, think women should understand that they don't have to smile all the time to show how happy or content they are.
You're tired, and that's understandable. Don't change who you are, but maybe start with, "Hey, I'm glad to see you," and a kiss next time you walk in the door.
After that, this becomes her problem. If she insists on accusing you of being angry when you aren't, tell her YOU won't go out with HER until she stops reading too much into every look you make.
2006-08-06 09:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by deutschegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, is your facial expression giving her a false impression? If you have a worried, tired, or preoccupied look on your face, she may be reading an emotion into it that isn't there.
Or is she just looking for a way to let you know that she's unhappy herself?
Do you give her little hugs or touch her when you come in so that she knows you are happy to see her?
Not sure if this has given you any help!
2006-08-06 09:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex use to do that to me if i was tired she would accuse me of being mad until i was mad then say see i knew you were mad
you need to try to explain to her that if your tired her actions will make you mad and you will be mad at her and apologize for your tired face looking like your mad face
good luck all the explaining i did never worked she had to always be right now she is alone and I'm happy
2006-08-06 09:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens sumtime that v r tired and do not respond well 2 others but v ouselves dont realise it till sum1 else complains about our behaviour.both of u just sit down together b4 u loose everythng and tel her. i thnk she was sumwhere in her heart feeling that since u hav excused ur frends for her so u might b tensed on that and she wantd to hear what she was feeling.make her feel loved and tel her that she is far above ur frends so that she dont feel insecure
2006-08-06 09:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this relationship is not working and has not worked for a long time. Your girlfriend is just smarter than you......she picks a fight with you so she would not have to go out with her. Stop wasting your time on a miserable relationship. If you don't dump this and move on......stop whining and complaining!
2006-08-06 09:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is the one who is not happy. Maybe something is going on with her, that you should know about. If it really bothers you , it could be you both need some time apart. I would be tired of it too.
2006-08-06 11:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away......... from that friend that upsets you for awhile. Are you sure that that person is really your friend? He makes you mad every time you see him.
This has happened so much that your girl has it programmed in her mind that you are mad when you see this person. Start doing more things with her.
Have fun....
2006-08-06 09:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, Next time, after this has blown over,
Ask her:
whats wrong?
No, somethings wrong?
What is it?
You know, do what she does to you, but make sure you start with the questions before she can start with you, act serious,
Whats wrong, you don't want to be with me, do you and so on........see how she handles it
2006-08-06 09:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you spend to much time away from home,try inviting them to your house sometimes.If your always leaving and she's home when you get back,your taking her for granted and soon she'll leave you if you don't fix it now.Stop running off without her,At lease ask her to go with you sometimes.When you do go by yourself don't stay away so long.I think she's trying to tell you that you go to much and stay away too long.good luck.
2006-08-06 10:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you walk through the door be happy to see her hug her and tell her that you didint feel good and you didnt want to spoil your night together since it ment a lot to her
2006-08-06 09:48:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋