wife left from a fight that originated over a notebook that she still don't know i read.about her and Dex B. he lives down theroad from her mothers house and she thinks i'm cheating my soul has been crushed. i love my wife and will protect her but she didn't think what i came to talk to her about was that important. we fell out now she want a divorce its been rocky at times like most marriages but why run out if yall have accomplished so much in so little time.
2006-08-06 04:12:30 · 6 answers · asked by kenyard x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the woman will not listen, then it is time to move on with your life.
2006-08-06 04:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a long way from being clear about this. Sounds like you talked to your wife about a man down the road from her mothers that she talked about in her notebook. You argued and she accused you of cheating.
Why would she think you are cheating? With who?
Is she cheating with Dex B?
If she is asking for a divorce, carrying it that far, then there is little you can do to get her back. There is more going on here than you have said. The cheating thing may be her excuse for getting the divorce she really wanted anyway.
Women have the ability to rip our hearts out and smile as they walk out the door. What seems like a good, or acceptable, marriage to you may be bad for her. And this will be your first clue.
If you didn't cheat there is nothing to prove. You can't make her see what she doesn't want to see.
I was in a marriage for 37 years before my wife walked out that door. Only difference was she was the one cheating. Found someone else on the Internet. I had never ever cheated on her in all that time but it mattered little. I had my own part to play in it but it was just as unexpected as what happened to you. So don't think there is anything you can do to change things.
Give her the gift of missing you. Get busy. Do not be available to her. You may see a change in her. Don't count on it. Move on and find your own life without her. I did at age 60, so can you.
2006-08-06 11:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats hard to answer, but alot of the times if someone accuses you of something it is becuase they are the ones doing it. Sounds more like you have reason for suspicion.
Good luck
God Bless
2006-08-06 11:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Gemini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE THE RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN IN TROUBLE FOR AWHILE COULD BE TIME TO MOVE ON.
2006-08-06 11:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to rewrite you question. but from what i gather she is full of shi t
2006-08-06 11:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur doing all that u can, if that's what she wants then let it go.
2006-08-06 11:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋