Marriage & Divorce - 24 July 2006

As a male im curious if all men have the innate tendancy to stray? (even if they dont physically 'cheat', and everythign is going well, including sex life, in thier current relationship) are some men more temped to stray than others? - and those that are tempted - how do they deal with thier temptation in regards to this area? How do you approach your mate with this issue (temptation).


for instance:

Im a male (never cheated) and am in a really happy relationship (at least to my conscious knowledge) with my GF, but I get these terrible urges sometimes. Am hoping to find out how to address them, and how to tell my GF i have these urges to be with other women without making her feel like it was something she did wrong. I feel like i was just meant to be with more than 1 person. I dont know what I should do, I love my GF, and am seeking advice, and curious if others feel the same way (male or female). What do I do?

2006-07-24 10:11:57 · 15 answers · asked by jonnyboy3273 1

I feel he is getting bored, no not bored just used to it. Ideas for something fun and new?

2006-07-24 10:06:11 · 15 answers · asked by sarah 1

2006-07-24 09:54:29 · 13 answers · asked by ☆Dana☆ 3

It seems like everyones well wishes the bride and groom include happy healthy children. What if a couple opts not to have kids? From my experience, most people think it's odd if a couple does not want kids.

2006-07-24 09:54:05 · 19 answers · asked by Jen 1

Recently i got to know that my friend ,whose ex had left him unannounced and suddenly,has made so lasting impression about women,that he is literally frightened to allow his heart to break again,by fully trusting any woman.She began by telling she wanted to shift and made excuses to give her details of contact and suddenly went away from his life(they were in a live in relationship for two yrs and knew eachother frm many yrs before they decided to live together) without even leaving any parting note or msg,or phone number.The frnd searched her madly for many months,and at last immersed himself in work and became workohol.This happened 6 yrs back,but he still cant come out of his past.I feel sad abt whateer he went thru,but i m not able to convince him abt lasting relationships.How to help him come out of the hurtful past?

2006-07-24 09:48:36 · 6 answers · asked by aquarian 4

2006-07-24 09:47:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i separated february of this year.we had an arrangement that my son will be with him during weekdays because he does not have a job and would have the time to bring the child to and from the school. but i also go to school everyday to make sure that all my son's homeworks get done.

then my husband and i recently had a fight. he told me i should take care of the child, to get back at me. he knows i would have difficulties since i am working full-time and we don't have a househelp. but then, i agreed, thinking that it would give me more time to be with my son...regardless of how taxing that would be for me.

then yesterday, he said the child does not want to stay with me. i insisted. he said that i am selfish because i am only thinking of myself and not what the child wants. AM I REALLY SELFISH?

2006-07-24 09:44:41 · 14 answers · asked by travlin soul 2

My father gifted me with his wedding band from marriage to my mother in hopes that my fiance will wear it as a token of my father's blessings for our marriage. My parents separated after 26 years recently and while I don't want to use his wedding band as my fiance's wedding band, I thought perhaps I could have it cut down and engraved and have my fiance wear it on his right ring finger. Any suggestions?

2006-07-24 09:43:12 · 13 answers · asked by Kitten 4

Ok I am a mature married man. I'm not trying to be a pervert here. Yes, men seem to be probably unnecessarily concerned about the size of their penis..or at least curious. I am 5.5" long and of medium thickness. My question is are there any other women out their whose husband is about this size..which I'm gathering is pretty average. And if so, do you secretly wish or have a desire for it to be larger, but you don't say anything? Do you ever want to buy a large dildo of some kind to see what more size is like?

2006-07-24 09:41:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found numerous pieces of paper that had numbers on them from girls. These numbers were hidden outside my door on top of the ledge. Now one of them is on a receipt from a gas station my husband and I had went to a couple of days before I found them, and another is a number I know he's dialed be4 and told me that it was a three-way call for his brother. When I confront him about them, he says that they aren't his, I mean I showed him the one with the receipt that was just in the car the night b4 that and he says that the number on that receipt was for something he was supposed to buy, so when I asked him, well, why was it hidden up there with the rest of them, he tells me he doesn't know, he didn't put them up there. And when I call the girl to ask her if she sells what he was supposed to be buying, she doesn't and of course she denies knowing my husband. He just brushed off the whole situation like it's nothing and it's just too much to be a coincidence. What do you think?

2006-07-24 09:39:58 · 11 answers · asked by WinterRaine 2

My hub and this other common friend who is also married, they kissed a year and half ago at the woman Jenny's place. I found out they had kissed and made out that one time, and then afterwards refrained from doing anything further. But they have expressed interest in liking each other still and when they are in public parties, they still dance closely, hug a lot, stare in each others eyes, and flirt around still. Well the woman is very persistent in writing emails to my hub and my hub may reply like 3 mails in one day and at other times, he will reply 1 email within 5 days of receiving her email. Anyways they mostly write about each others activities and plans and work and how things are going like good friends. I want to ask this: Last Sunday jenny wrote my hub an email in myspace about her week and her work and her studies and asked about my hubby. She mentioned her weekend plan and asked my hub what we were doing. Then on Wednesday she asked my hub in another email if one of their

2006-07-24 09:39:18 · 11 answers · asked by katezambelli 1

I end it with him tonight?

2006-07-24 09:33:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START,I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR A LONG TIME AND WE HAVE KIDS, HE HAS BEEN SEVERELY EMOTIONALLY AND VERBALLY AND SEXUALLY ABUSIVE SINCE ABOUT 6 MONTHS INTO OUR RELATIONSHIP.THE PSYCIATRIST DIAGNOSED HIM AS A SOCIOPATH.THAT MIXED WITH ME HAVING MAJOR WEIGHT LOSS HAS SOMEHOW MADE HIM "CHANGE".THIS IS A MAN WHO IS SO GOOD AT FOOLING ME THAT HE USED TO COME HOME WITH HICKIES AND HE WOULD CONVINCE ME THAT I WAS JUST MENTALLY ILL AND I AM IMAGINING THEY ARE HICKIES.ODDLY ENOUGH WHEN HE LOST THAT JOB THE HICKIES STOPPED. ALSO HE FORBIDS ME TO GO TO WORK. HE HAS PATTERNS AND ALMOST EVERY SINGLE SIGN OF CHEATING THERE IS, BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO CATCH HIM WITH "SOLID PROOF".HIS JEALOUSY TOWARD ME IS MORE THAN EXTREME EVEN WHEN I AM NEAR MALE FAMILY MEMBERS.THE DR SAID I AM NOT MENTALLY ILL BUT DEPRESSED FROM MY RELATIONSHIP.I HAD BEN TRYIN 2 FEEL BETTER BUT I FOUND NAILPOLISH ON HIS PANTS.NOT A COLOR I OWN.HE SAYS I AM MAKING HIM MISERABLE CUZ I WON'T TRUST HIM.

2006-07-24 09:28:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

on two separate occasions during arguments that maybe we should just break it off. how screwed am i? what are my chances of winding up in divorce court? does this type of talk always mean you are headed to divorce court?

2006-07-24 09:23:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 09:22:20 · 19 answers · asked by Gypsie 5

same as above

2006-07-24 09:12:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find that very few Adults still have there original or should I say Biological Parents still together. Mine are not they are both married to different people. Forgive me if your Parents are Deceased.

2006-07-24 09:08:07 · 32 answers · asked by Prayerwarrior 3

2006-07-24 09:03:42 · 32 answers · asked by trash_talkin_troll 1

It is his hope that my fiancee will wear it. My parents just separated after 26 years. Is it appropriate to use my father's wedding ring?

2006-07-24 08:49:50 · 10 answers · asked by Kitten 4

Actually, it's my sister's ex-husband. LIES about everything. Said he had straight As through college, more like C-s. Worked for himself, in which he was a lazy employee, and even lazier boss. Didn't pay any bills, gambled whatever money he had. Didn't help raise his kids. Just went fishing all day etc. Marriage is a crock, and divorce is even worse. Why do ppl act like this? Why do they think bullsh*tting themselves and other people a good idea?

2006-07-24 08:47:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 08:45:54 · 44 answers · asked by evalistinho 2

Is this a good idea? He said he has something to tell me too. I wonder what it is? I hope he's not hurt.

2006-07-24 08:45:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ten points to the person that sells me on their idea. Must give great ideas and suggestions.

2006-07-24 08:45:47 · 14 answers · asked by kishoti 5

in my lifetime. i always figured when they do this they are closing their eyes so they can imagine they are riding brad pitt or something like that. am i way off base?

2006-07-24 08:45:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband because he was chearing on me with prostitutes. I fled the state we lived in with our two minor children and he got custody of them because i could not afford to go back to that state and fight. Now he has moved to alabama with one of the prostitutes and she is pregnate. He is planning on marrying her when our divorece is finalised. Is her history grounds to have my children removed

2006-07-24 08:43:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 08:40:59 · 67 answers · asked by funkymonkey 3

2006-07-24 08:38:25 · 10 answers · asked by bdmrplemons 2

I found out my husband had an affair, well he has never admitted that there was a sexual relationship at one point he said it hadn't got that far. Since I found out we have had sex everyday up to 3x's a day. He asked why this turn around I explained it scared me how close I was to loosing him. I told him I know sex couldn't keep him here if the affair was serious, or just about sex. Do you think all the sex we are having could scare him off or be just what he was needing, he isn't complaining and I haven't noticed him fooling around or making phone calls. How can I tell if he is being true to the relaionship

2006-07-24 08:36:26 · 10 answers · asked by tryme 1

Be honest, ladies.... Can you be friends with a black guy without wondering about the size of his dick?

2006-07-24 08:35:47 · 32 answers · asked by yofreshbreeze 1

ok, i want especially the male's opinion on this...this weekend my fiancee was working out of town and staying at hotel...well i drive 2 and half hrs to see him... get this, I took him an entire home cooked dinner, complete with candlelight and massage oil, then romance later, we had a nice evening, then last night he tells me the only reason I did that was to cover up something i'm lying about, which is totally false, he came home last night and once again I had a nice dinner fixed, and all he did was treat me like crap, called me liar and said me things to me then today talked about breaking up then told me i deserve better than tells me he loves me, yea right, same ole same old, why do men get so suspicious when you do something nice..i guess i just need to be a witch from hades.

2006-07-24 08:34:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous