ok, i want especially the male's opinion on this...this weekend my fiancee was working out of town and staying at hotel...well i drive 2 and half hrs to see him... get this, I took him an entire home cooked dinner, complete with candlelight and massage oil, then romance later, we had a nice evening, then last night he tells me the only reason I did that was to cover up something i'm lying about, which is totally false, he came home last night and once again I had a nice dinner fixed, and all he did was treat me like crap, called me liar and said me things to me then today talked about breaking up then told me i deserve better than tells me he loves me, yea right, same ole same old, why do men get so suspicious when you do something nice..i guess i just need to be a witch from hades.
2006-07-24 08:34:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have always did nice things for him, i dont get much in return...last night i even had his clothes laid out for him and a clean towel in the shower, all he had to do was eat and shower, he didnt even have to pack his clothes for his work, i did all of it, didnt get a thank you or nothing, just griped at and made to feel an inch tall, i even fix it plate at dinner, give him massages, send him text messages telling him I'm thinking of him, made him a birthday cake and other gifts for his birthday 2 weeks ago, i even purchased a truck and had it put in my name cuz he can't but i'm told i need to grow up and i'm nothing but a liar and this morning he said i was trying to argue and he said to me"I'll knock you in your %^&*($# face and last night I told him he shouldnt talk to me like that and he said "I'll talk to you anyway I want." why are men so mean and cruel?
2006-07-24 08:50:04 · update #1
Honey, He is a f*****g fool. Tell the jerk to get a life. Stop doing that and see how long he can go without. I WISH A WOMAN WOULD DO THAT FOR ME.
2006-07-24 08:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe your hubby was going to meet w/someone else when he was out of town, but you showed up. That ruined his plans & that could be a reason why he was so upset w/you. He has probably been cheating on you and he feels guilty, that is why he told you that you deserve better, he feels guilty about what he has done or is doing. I think you need to sit down and talk to him about what is going on. Maybe he feels like you deserve better, or he is starting to fall for this other person he is cheating on, and wants you to break up w/him, he figures he has already hurt you so it would make it better for him if it is you the one to break-up the relationship. I wish you the best, talk to him and do it as peacefully as you possibly can, try not to cry and not to yell, this will help him be more honest to you. Good luck:)
2006-07-24 17:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by ange!s26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just suspicious because you all of a sudden have this spark and interest in him that has been lacking. I have read a few articles that tell you signs someone is cheating on you and thats one of them. Not saying you are cheating! Just let him know why you decided to do all of this for him... saying I dont know I just felt like it may not convince him. Let him know how much you love him and want to make him happy. He will feel bad and if he still doesnt believe you...lose him!
2006-07-24 15:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is doing something behind your back and needs to accuse you so he feels good about himself.Dump him before you get in too deep.
2006-07-24 15:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by jpcbbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is accusing you, and you have done nothing. Then there's probably something he's done that he feels guilty about and he's transferring his anger at himself to you.
2006-07-24 15:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. No questions asked. Get away from him. A real man would reciprocate the love that you are giving. Please get rid of that boy. That sure isn't a man.
2006-07-24 16:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something wrong with him I would love someone to do that for me...
2006-07-24 15:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by poisondragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry me!
2006-07-24 15:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by vruggiero718 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got a maid-what more could he want?
2006-07-24 23:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by reignydey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just crazy.
2006-07-24 15:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by mrkitties420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋