Marriage & Divorce - 24 July 2006

2006-07-24 08:34:11 · 29 answers · asked by Rachel B 1

2006-07-24 08:28:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you've reached the point where the only thing you have to live for is your children, and you've already done ten years of the therapy bull****... When you have spent years at home taking care of your kids so you'll have a great family bond, instead of getting an education and working, and no one will hire you because you've been out of the real world so long... when you find out the man you love couldn't give a rat's a** about you and you've nowhere to go and no money and no car and no place to stay...

How do you go on?

Seriously, because I'm about to get in the cabinet and take every pill we have on hand... put myself to sleep, so to speak. I can't provide a better life for my kids, no one will hire me to allow me to do it. I can't even get a minimum wage job!!!! and I can't go to school to get a degree and a good job if I don't have money. They'd be better off without me and I'm about to crack. I need help.

2006-07-24 08:23:10 · 14 answers · asked by AnaGameela 4

Short for Samuel Botnikov. Can somebody help me?

2006-07-24 08:21:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love with my ex still and he is now saying he wanteds me back and i dont know what to do.......

2006-07-24 08:17:00 · 9 answers · asked by alw8205 1

I walked in on a conversation, ever had the distinct feeling you were intruding? Well then on the way back on the boat she was pushing her boyfriend away and eye balling us, why? Did she fancy me or the guy I was with. He works with her and has sworn there's nothing going on but I can't forget the ugly feeling I had earlier in the evening.He says I am being paronoid, but to me the look of astonishment on his face at her grabbing at straws was classic who dunnit for me. Hope someone has an answer for me.

2006-07-24 08:14:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex recently married his girlfreind. she has five kids from 2 previous marrieges. when my kids go to thier home for visitation he is very cruel to them. but he behaves like a father to his stepkids. this hurts my kids.

2006-07-24 08:11:36 · 15 answers · asked by CF35 1

2006-07-24 08:07:44 · 10 answers · asked by cynthia0767 2

I have notice the my wife is upset more than usuall, she only sees what i didnt do or did bad, she tells me all the wrongs i have but yet she says she loves me we dont see eye to eye on must stuff yet i know we do love one another. what can it be???

2006-07-24 08:05:35 · 9 answers · asked by Zaurel 3

Would you marry someone who already has kids? Why or Why not?

2006-07-24 08:05:29 · 18 answers · asked by Coco 5

i have been with this man for 6 years today . but i no longer love him . I stay because thats all i know. i still care for him and always will but i want something else.; have been looking though never acted on my feelings

2006-07-24 08:05:26 · 7 answers · asked by cynthia0767 2

I am pretty good with secrets.

2006-07-24 08:04:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

why or why not?

2006-07-24 08:02:40 · 10 answers · asked by kevin m 2

2006-07-24 08:00:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 6 1/2 years, married for 3yrs. We just celebrated our 3rd anniversary. He has a friend he plays poker with online. At first I didnt think much of it. But he started spending more time with her than he does with me and the kids. I tried to say something but he said I was being rediculous. Well, they decided to set up messenger so they could chat easier. I know how to read the message archive, he doesn't. Last night I noticed he said he was going to give her his cell number and wanted her to call him at work. I'm not allowed to call him at work unless it's an emergency. I read the archive today because of this. He asked for a pic of her, told her she was beautiful. He said if he had the money he'd be on a bus now. They said they couldn't wait for the time they could meet in person. I've noticed they are making jokes about me and things like that. Obviously they've said more, but I don't have room here to list it all. What do I do?

2006-07-24 07:55:14 · 27 answers · asked by busymom4_2003 2

8 years, 3 kids, split very good reasons to wont deny that.been split 6 mths.
what is she thinking? ----
she says she still likes me, she says she cares about me alot.
i as a man can see in her eyes when we laugh and joke she still likes me so it is not false.
she knows i am a good father, she has seen a big change in me since the split. (i needed it)
we talk occasionally do things together now but just as friends.
she says she does not want anyone else she just wants to be single with the kids.
then she reminds me we wont be getting back together again.
(in my opinion this is just to tone it back down a touch)
she even has admitted that she does not want us to be to good friends because we will end up getting back together again.
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my question -
if all of this is true, i still love her 100% and HAVE changed all my wrongs, we both dont want anyone else. we will both soon have our own places. we both still manage the kids.

2006-07-24 07:54:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 07:54:16 · 2 answers · asked by NIKKI 2

He left..moved in with someone else then 3 months later he came back a completly different person..he is more of a husband than he ever was we have 2 boys together 2 years and 7 months..they need us together should i let this be water under the bridge?

2006-07-24 07:52:08 · 8 answers · asked by terrysgirl0206 3

2006-07-24 07:46:04 · 6 answers · asked by NIKKI 2

My husband and I have been married for 13 years almost 14. And he recently told me he doesn't love me anymore but yet he worries about me all of the time. He says he doesn't want us to break up because he doesn't want to put the kids through a divorce. But my thing is, I want to move on if it is over. I love him so much but I am extremely confused.

2006-07-24 07:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 07:41:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is everyone's opinion on cheating or having an affair? Right or wrong and why?

2006-07-24 07:39:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother died tragically in my teen years

2006-07-24 07:38:47 · 41 answers · asked by aducksler 2

It was hot in in the nineties but I think families are sticking together despite hardship.

2006-07-24 07:38:31 · 8 answers · asked by Guillardo 2

I am not the first person to cheat and I won't be the last. Some of you need to really get a grip and stop judging others. I have needs you know, we all do. I just choose to acknowledge mine.

2006-07-24 07:38:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is my worst fear, me and my ex broke up 6 mth ago i still love her but also accept she does not feel the same way about me although she does still like me , we have kids together and i feel obviously i have lost my family even though i still see all of them.
she said she wants to be single until the kids grow up but i know it is inevitable that if we never get back together she will meet someone else.
i love her and wouldnt cause any trouble and want her to be happy but the thought of someone else making love to her and been around my kids and enjoying the times with them that i want just makes me feel gut wrenchingly sick!
just wondered do you get used to the idea if you still love that person or is it going to hurt like a mother ffer? and hurt all the time
i know this will be a while off but i cant help the way i feel.

2006-07-24 07:35:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 07:30:11 · 15 answers · asked by CRAZYFAN 1

2006-07-24 07:23:50 · 21 answers · asked by Gypsie 5

My husband claims to not think about sex... I do, and thought all men did. He never makes any moves towards sex, I always initiate it. More than half the time however he rejects me. We used to have great sex, he says it's becuase he didn't work as much then. Anyway, I feel totally worthless, and to top it off I have seen in the computer's history that he has been looking at porn... now how does a person not think of sex and look at porn? Anyway, I need to know how I can get him to open up. Everyone tells me to talk to him, but I have and he just says that he is just looking and nothing else.... but I'm still being rejected and he's still looking. I feel like he must not love me. I really need to know why men look at porn if they say that they love their wife? What could a wife do? He says he doesn't have fantasies so I can't try to fulfill any. Anyway, what can I do?

2006-07-24 07:21:44 · 25 answers · asked by colorist 6

My wife have been in a new life style(swinging) for a year now it started out with me asking her to have a three some with My best friend(no I am not gay) just wanted to give her the best sexual experance she could have. Well this led us in to swinging wich we both enjoy, but We havent had the three some again and my best friend is not available for that any more... So how do I go about finding anothe guy for her for her b-day

2006-07-24 07:15:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous