Marriage & Divorce - 24 July 2006

I've been married for almost five years and everthing I seem to do is to cheat on her sence before we got married. I've cybersexed with other women and asked for photos of them, told them that i wasn't married or that I didn't get married because she was cheating on me ( but she wasn't) , also I joined a few dating sites....I know that i messed up...she wants to leave and get divorced.... why did I do this to her, and how can I fix this mess ?

2006-07-24 20:25:06 · 13 answers · asked by chi_cubs_lover 4

I've been married for 5 years, as soon as my a** got married we did a automatic significant drop in our sex life as soon as I got married. I felt trapped and betrayed. I know a lot of other guys who are married told me this too. They feel they're wife doesn't love them anymore because their sex life dropped as soon as they got married. I think sometimes it's best to be single...at least I was more sexually active as a single man than I am as a married man! I was cleaning up the house all the time, pampering, babying her, doing everything and still no progress in intimacy what so ever. I was beginning to hate my marriage. I felt betrayed and a lot of other guys told me they felt the same way, some of them are divorced now. Why do you stop giving it up as soon as you get married?

2006-07-24 20:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

for help i take the baby and kept the kids out of the house. My wife is like saying its the hushand job. I dont know. My mom is a nurse and i think that y she comes to me. Last nite she saw me and my mom and came two us start to crying. What in hell i suppose to do help.

2006-07-24 20:12:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 20:10:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm going to start planning my wedding soon.. but i'm also dreaming about my ex nearly every night.. is that normal, before serius decisions?

2006-07-24 20:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was an A$$ to my baby's momma and we broke up twice on the count I was being an A$$ to her. I have told her I'm sorry and I wanna change but she doesn't believe me, I don't blame her but I"m real about ...I love her to death and I want her back. HOW CAN I CONVINCE HER TO TAKE ME BACK FOR THE 3rd time...??? I wanna marry her!!!

2006-07-24 20:00:05 · 14 answers · asked by jojo_jujojd 1

What does it mean when hes says that he's looking for a girl to "rock his world "?

2006-07-24 19:36:24 · 8 answers · asked by blue moon lady 5

2006-07-24 19:36:18 · 7 answers · asked by maskedlady2004 1

2006-07-24 19:27:27 · 5 answers · asked by PISHIA 1

My husband left me for another woman and a very bad drug habit and now that I am trying to get a divorce from him he won't just accept it and let it go. He is sending me text messages on my cell phone and having people watch me. He is with someone else but won't leave me alone. What do I do??

2006-07-24 19:08:56 · 37 answers · asked by mitzi vowels with mr starkey 1

why?

2006-07-24 19:06:49 · 14 answers · asked by lil dog 2

The problem is I want to be 100% sure and not overreact. What are simple ways I can track her activities w/out bringing unnecessary attention? I was coinsidering hiring a detective but I don't have that kind of money. I've already hacked her Myspace and Gmail account but so far she has no idea. I only read her sent and inbox mail. Problem is I have no idea what is going on "outside" of the house.

2006-07-24 19:04:09 · 12 answers · asked by kimchee_boi 3

I don't know what to do... I love him and he loves me too ( i guess).. I'm willing to wait till it gets legalize. is he worth it? aM I GONNA GO FOR IT? How will i know that he's willing to offer the world for me?

2006-07-24 18:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have seen him looking at some females i a particular way and that hurts me cos I stay loyal to him. He has told me not to look at people and I have complied..why does he do this? I get so hurt even being married to him for years. I told him particularly things of this nature hurts me but he is heed less Why?

2006-07-24 18:40:20 · 19 answers · asked by hekshi 1

2006-07-24 18:35:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 7yrs has a relationship with another women for about a year now. My marriage has never had any problems, we don't fight and we are always with each other. He had tried leaving that women twice but ended going back to her. I'm always there for him and I've never turn my back against him. He said he still loves me but he can't forget her. I don't want to end my marriage cos I don't want my son to suffer. But how long more can I take it?

2006-07-24 18:26:10 · 31 answers · asked by hmh 1

dating sucks. when you really like someone, all you can do is think about them. then when they don't call u, it is sad, ........ok, i guess i'm just talking from my own experience. I started dating this guy (i'm in my late twenties) and now when i can't see him i feel so sad, and start figuring out what i did wrong. I am so careful to not be annoying of anything, and act needy, I always can play it so cool, until i fall for them, then I'm an idiot. what is my problem?

2006-07-24 18:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend just told me a few hours ago she would have to start living in 2 houses because her parents are getting divorced. Even though she was a little rude implying that she expected my parents to get divorced because they fight alot, and saying she would rather talk to my friend who was at camp(because her parents never gotten into a fight..?)I want to help her, but i don't know what to say. I kind of feel like I am making the situation worse by not saying anything usefull at all. someone who has been thru this please help me?

2006-07-24 18:25:29 · 4 answers · asked by because7_8_9 2

I expect this will never go to court, however mediation is a distinct possibility. I just hope she is willing to settle. Given the "pre-nup" she is the one who will be writing me a check.

2006-07-24 18:15:24 · 4 answers · asked by Curious Joel 1

any ladies fancy a chat with down to earth irish guy???....35

2006-07-24 18:09:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 18:07:06 · 28 answers · asked by Lupe O 1

My husband is a very committed person and loves me a lot. But he has had 2 relations before me. But he is now completetly over them and has nothign to do with them anymore. we have known each other for 4 years now and have been married for a year now and he has had nothing to do with any girl. But whenever any girl talks to him or calls him even though it is completely work related i get jealous and start doubting him..... i for sure knows he is completely committed and loves me a lot...but i just cant stop doubting him for anything and everything...i am very insecure about him....how can i get over this. please help me i dont want my stupidity to ruin my marriage.

2006-07-24 18:05:35 · 18 answers · asked by MK 1

My grand parents are like 75 and married over 50 years with 6 grown children. Do they still do it?

2006-07-24 18:03:08 · 13 answers · asked by finkksta 3

(BTW:I needed serious answers that y i said 25 & over)
Im in a situation thats starting 2 get serious. My husband has been in the army for 6 years & when i met him, he was in the reserves. On our first date, i told him i dont like when guys r in the army cause itll make me nervous. Not yet knowing that he was. he decided 2 tell me 3 months later. Then when it was time for him to re up, the war in Iraq came about. I told him i was too nervous for him if he stayed in the reserves, but id stick with him. So he decided NOT to. Now, he wants to go in the national guards. I dont want him 2. We decided 4 some time that i would be pregnant by september. I am just too nervous for him. I dont like that kind of stuff because, naturally,it scares me. People say im being stubborn. thats not it at all. Im a worried wife. But he really wants 2 go. ONLY because he says itll pay for his school. Im too scared. I know he'll balame me if we dont succeed in life because of no college. Am i being unfair?

2006-07-24 17:53:58 · 24 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

It was my birthday today mon 7/24/1970, I've been married 3yrs, My husband and I rarely get to do anything together work, or money is always an issue. This past weekend we finally get a weekend together, it was by birthday we had something to celebrate and lucky us we had money. I asked him if we could do something he agreed. Yet on saturday he called the office to ask for overtime sat & sunday. I have been sleeping on the coach since saturday when he informed me he was heading to work. We had not argued he said he loves me and on his merry way he went to work just because. I dont get it. Oh by the way he bought me flowers & a cake on friday with my money. The last time I went to a movie was on our first date. why would anyone do this?

2006-07-24 17:52:19 · 22 answers · asked by kellie m 1

I love my wife with all my heart, please don't get me wrong but I am never satisfied sexually. I think she loves me equally too. I am now beginning to questioning the opinnion "one woman may never be enough for a man". I don't want to cheat on her. I don't think I need sex therapy because this problem happens only after having sex with my wife, it's like "where is the beef" you know what I mean.

2006-07-24 17:47:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 17:25:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 17:09:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 16:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by F E D UP 1

do you think that my guy is trying to see what i am doing all the time? he is getting me a cell phone. Hmm i am not sure what to think about this one. we have been together for 13 months and we never talked about me getting a phone.

2006-07-24 16:50:53 · 47 answers · asked by suepooh23 3