I don't know what to do... I love him and he loves me too ( i guess).. I'm willing to wait till it gets legalize. is he worth it? aM I GONNA GO FOR IT? How will i know that he's willing to offer the world for me?
2006-07-24 18:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me and that is the word LOVE itself holds the answer.......
(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-07-27 12:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SLOW down!!
There's a reason he is getting a divorce. Take it as a sign...really examine his personality. No one can offer you the world...they don't own it...You need to find your own happiness another person cannot be responsible for your existence.
He should seriously wait a long time before getting in a relationship and YOU should too.
2006-07-25 02:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Chef Susy--Cookin it up! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to be blunt a man that is going to get a divorce isn't someone you want to be with..........with divorce comes all of his insecurities and faults.... he needs time to heal and deal with why his marriage didn't work out.... and I hate to say it but by being with someone new will get his mind off his problems for now... the only advice I can say is if you really like him let him sort out his life on his own.. it's the only way he'll grow.....
2006-07-25 02:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very foolish. This guy got married and then could not stay committed and cheated (with you) on his wife. He will cheat on you someday! Get smart. Get away while you can.
In addition...if he has kids he needs to be a father to those kids and not be distracted by a new girlfriend. His kids do not need the complexity of a dads new girlfriend. You need to care about that as well.
2006-07-25 01:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least go into this with your eyes wide open. It isn't romantic to take some one else's husband. You are part of the break-up of a marriage. Of course he loves you now. You are new and different from his wife. It excites him. What will happen if you marry this man and he cheats on you? Take a good look at how he treats his wife. He isn't going to change his behavior when he gets with you.
2006-07-25 01:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probally the same thing he offered his wife cheating and a trip to divorce court move on why would you want someone else's trash
2006-07-25 01:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth the wait. He's a cheater and probably has baggage as well. Don't get yourself caught up with someone who is married. You're convenient to him and he'll most likely cheat on you as well.
2006-07-25 02:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first was he having an affair with you if so if he cheated on his wife to be with you doesnt that send a red flag up? Is he going to be dependent on a woman before leaving another woman will you be his next victim. ask yourself is he just settling for you until he is actually free then what?
2006-07-25 01:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by splashnfun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the third party (vixen) in his marriage, then you will not going to have a happy marriage. Because of what both of you had done to his wife, both of you will have the retributions....
If you are not the reason he divorced his wife, then I wish you luck...
2006-07-25 03:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is such which cannot be answered actually.... What goes in ones brains cannot be known.... Its pure luck.......... One can know oneself fully not others......
2006-07-25 02:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋