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I was an A$$ to my baby's momma and we broke up twice on the count I was being an A$$ to her. I have told her I'm sorry and I wanna change but she doesn't believe me, I don't blame her but I"m real about ...I love her to death and I want her back. HOW CAN I CONVINCE HER TO TAKE ME BACK FOR THE 3rd time...??? I wanna marry her!!!

2006-07-24 20:00:05 · 14 answers · asked by jojo_jujojd 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

14 answers

Fool, you aren't heartbroken you just want what you can't have. I guarantee that as soon as you get back together you're going to go back to your old ways.

Here's advice on what to do if you want her back. Get an education, find a good paying job and start taking responsibility for your life and those lives around you. BE A MAN!!!

2006-07-24 20:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Swift Ninja 2 · 0 0

Maybe this might help....
1) tell her how you feel you messed up the relationship, and why things turned out as they did, and what the break-up has taught you about love and long-term commitment;

2) tell her how you plan to be a good role model for your son/daughter, and what lessons and values you would like to teach him or her if you had the chance;

3) explain to your love that you want your child to see two people who love each other together, and how this will help your child understand what love is -- a bond, for better or worse;

4) tell her you are willing to prove your love, and ask her if there is any way she could trust you again.

Best wishes, and my prayers are with you.

2006-07-25 03:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Honeybee 3 · 0 0

How about by not being a dick to her? Obviously it was bad enough to where she couldn't take it anymore, and honestly, if I was her, I would not take you back. You really should have thought about the consequences of your action and words, instead of taking advantage of your girl. But anywho, actions speak louder than words. Prove to her that you will not hurt her again by being better than you were before. Surprise her with something original that only you would do...maybe something romantic, like a date. Then, when you're together, talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Apologise. Be honest with her. If you're lucky, she'd go back to you. And if she does, do NOT screw up again and treat her badly. If she doesn't...then move on. Maybe next time you'll be more caring and loving, instead of mean.

2006-07-25 03:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Maico 3 · 0 0

Instead of telling her words of promises she cant see, start focusing on showing her that your a changed man.. start doing what she has been wanting from u , from a far, prove to her, earn her trust back, that u can be the man she needs u to be for her and the baby.. She needs proof that these arent just words again..

2006-07-25 04:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0 0

marry her and beat her up and control her and use her as a hooker, you are sick in your head. you dont want to change, you lie and lie.how many time you have to say sorry, you are sorry because cannot do what you want to do to her anymore. i would love to hear what she said about you axxhole. and i hope some of the experts who give you advices should use their heads more than their mounths

2006-07-25 03:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by ubon 4 · 0 0

SOME GUY DID THAT TO ME EXCEPT IM NOT A MOMA. YOU MIGHT HAVE TO ACT LIKE YOU DONT REALLY CARE ONE OR THE OTHER FOR A WHILE AND SEE IF SHE'LL COME AROUND. IF NOT WRITE HER A LETTER TO APOLOGIZE. TELL HER YOU SEE YOUR MISTAKES AND ARE WILLING TO FIX THEM. DONT DO THIS IF YOURE JUST GONNA SCREW HER OVER AGAIN. IT MAY LEAVE YOUR BABY WITH NO DADDY FOR LIFE!!!!

2006-07-25 03:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by cowboyskid 2 · 0 0

well you could and should go to counseling for yourself first then if she is willing with her there must be some problem you haven't resolved with her or you wouldn't be in the situation your in now with her you need outside help if you are to stand a chance with this lady but you must start with yourself and get yourself straightened out first

2006-07-25 03:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by wil_t52 6 · 0 0

Seek help so that you can learn to stop being an @$$.
You dont deserve her til you fix your ways. Words arent gonna do it. You need to prove yourself to her.........IF you care as much as you say you do.
How can you hurt someone you claim to love???
Not once, but THREE times! :(

2006-07-25 03:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0 0

Actions speak louder than words....

2006-07-25 07:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0 0

well, you shouldn't have messed up the first two times, now she probably won't take you back and make you pay for the kid too

2006-07-25 03:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0 0

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