Marriage & Divorce - 24 July 2006

if a married cuple have sex, then get divorced......than 9 months later the wife has the baby, dose the baby stay w/ the mom or dose it go into joint custody w/ the dad?....but what about infant care?

2006-07-24 03:19:18 · 7 answers · asked by luvmylpniko 2

I am getting married in a few weeks and I have heard so many horror stories lately. Most people tell me when you get married everything you loved and did before stops. They say you must enjoy what you have now it only gets worse. We have one child together and he has a child from a previous relationship and we have made it through the children. Children sometimes keep you from doing all the things you once did together, but you find new things to do as a family that you could not do before. How would I prevent our relationship from becoming just an sad situation?

2006-07-24 03:13:22 · 6 answers · asked by missgoodgirl 2

explain how. i am not talking about the kids you might have as a result of the marriage but the actual marriage itself.

my wife gives me nothing but constant aggravation. is this just my bad luck or is this just the way it is all the time?

2006-07-24 03:11:06 · 7 answers · asked by jeremy k 1

The father to my children had had secret relationships with several other women much younger than I am. Finally, I made the decision to divorce him but now he begged me to give him the very last chance. He even agreed to go for counselling/therapy and to enter a legal deed of agreement that states if he were to ever default any of my terms stated in the deed, then he would have no choice but agree to sign the divorce papers. He declares the onus is on him and that he would do anything to win my trust back.

I am in a great dilemma here. Doomed if I do, doomed if I dont. Just need your views here.

2006-07-24 03:10:28 · 29 answers · asked by DiL 3

I'm recently married (3 months). My wife and I have lived together for five years, just married 3 months ago. Last time we had sex was on the honeymoon. We've had a pretty rocky relationship over our lifetime together but we always managed to keep a semi-active sex life. We have NEVER gone this long without sex. We're both attractive people and she has voiced some concerns about our past that she just can't seem to overcome. I've heard women tend to throw things in your face when they are trying to justify something they may be doing wrong. Thing is, my wife is home every night, she's very active with our 4 year old daughter, but there is zero intimacy between the two of us. I generally have to iniate any physical contact and it doesn't go beyond a kiss. She says she misses me, loves me, but she generally just isn't happy with us. She won't go to counseling with me. She's mentioned going on her own as I am doing right now. Can women really go this long? Or is something up?

2006-07-24 03:10:26 · 14 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1

if your BF was to call you and say that he has taken the AIDS test
and that the hospital has called him back inorder to either recheck the result or because they have lost his blood sample.
how would you react if you had cheated on him?
would you tell him if you cheated at this point?
or
tell him to go ahead and take the test?
please note, if the result comes out positive, he can be deported from country!!
so serious issue

2006-07-24 03:08:34 · 17 answers · asked by ali k 1

2006-07-24 02:59:36 · 6 answers · asked by Shondell J 1

2006-07-24 02:56:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all, if you are a negative person who was in a bad relationship and have come to the conclusion that conflict between two people means to "give up", Please do not try to give me advice. My partner and I are interested in working things out.

I'm looking for a better and much more healthier relationship with my fiancee. Things aren't so bad between us. Just lack of understanding eachother. We act like any other cupple does in conflict, playing the "Blame Game" and insisting on who's right and who's wrong. We have the same nasty nature in us to verbally and emotionally abuse eachother just as common in most relationships.
Do you know of any good programs that teach on better communication skills to help put "the spark" back in our relationship and show us how to get along much better?

2006-07-24 02:54:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to the store to pick some stuff up for our honeymoon. What are some extra romantic things I can add to my cart??????

2006-07-24 02:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by **What??** 4

she wants. spending my paycheck on things like big screen televisions, fishing trips, a sports car, etc. i also imagine myself doing things that single guys do like going out whenever you want, not having to answer to anyone, watching tons of sports and not getting grief over it. do other guys think like this as well? just seems like the life of a single bachelor is really a beautiful one.

2006-07-24 02:41:37 · 19 answers · asked by jeremy k 1

If I could turn back the clocks I would, but I have since moved forward and my husband and I have been separated since that time. He has put me through emotional hell for 2 years. My problem is now he wants no more responsibilities for our children. His philosophy.... if this is what I wanted, then he's through with everyone. I am freaking out because my kids need their dad emotionally and financially. How can a parent completely shut the door on their responsibilities? I know he's very hurt by my actions, but will i forever live in pergatory for the horrible mistakes that i created???

2006-07-24 02:36:43 · 14 answers · asked by pinebarrons1 2

2006-07-24 02:27:37 · 18 answers · asked by centeredangel 1

2006-07-24 02:25:58 · 13 answers · asked by peanut 1

have been with my guy for sometime (6 years), and I am ready to get married and he isn't. He has given me various excuses; first it was "I just got out of school, let me get a job and then once I save up some $ then..." That was about 3 years ago. Now his excuse is that he has saved up enough, and is worried he won't be able to buy a house. I understand a man's need to be stable in his life before he adds on another...but still..

Also, for the past year or so he kept bugging me to move in with him and stay with him and I kept saying no...and then I finally said I am willing to move in, all he has to do is marry me, and then a few weeks later he stopped bugging me...So, when I recently brought up the marriage thing again he was like what's the rush? He said that people who are ready for marriage are people who are ready to move in together and be with each other all the time and stuff, and he thinks we are still young and not settled enough.I am 25 and he is 27 & he has a good job

2006-07-24 02:22:25 · 17 answers · asked by Strawberry 3

2006-07-24 02:17:45 · 12 answers · asked by crazyinlove 2

I am going in to the Marine corp, and I need to know Cause I want the best for Joyce.

2006-07-24 02:11:09 · 16 answers · asked by usmc2209 1

But here is the thing!! He wants to get married right away, and have kids as soon as we are married andthats not what I want. He kept saying yesterday, "well if you say you want to spend the rest of you life with me then why not go on and marry me"? I do want to spend the rest of my life with him, im just not ready to get married yet...Really I feel like we are already married I have dated him for almost 4 years, and I have to ask "permisson" be4 I go out with my friends, b4 I buy something, be4 I go somewhere (I had to actually ask him if it would be okay if I went on vacation with my family1) I love him, I really do, but im not ready to be married! Im not going to be able to have time for a married life when I start college, because im going full-time, and im playing basketball so were going to have practice every night and nights that we dont have practice im going to have a game and Im also going to try to keep a job in between that!! Please help what do I do????????

2006-07-24 01:45:02 · 24 answers · asked by Samantha Wright 1

This maybe a really stupid question, and if I offend any one with my stupidity im sorry. to the point me and my husband have been together 5 years I trust him fully and we are loyal to each other we have never cheated on each other. hes always here when he should be. Its just that recently after we have sex his private stings and so does mine does that mean i have a STD please help me I no i should go to the doctores but id like to hear from any one who has had the same problem so that I can put my mind to rest. please help

2006-07-24 01:36:51 · 18 answers · asked by sweetlikehoney_73 5

2006-07-24 01:35:05 · 26 answers · asked by eservices t 1

Just say no to support without visitation, saying no to support when you're not the father but have the most money saying no to support when you have no rights at all as for as the child is concerned.

2006-07-24 01:32:15 · 6 answers · asked by James S 1

I found these pictures of really obese women in a mens special mens magazine he buys and now I think about it with all the takeaways and extra food he buys me I've been slowley piling on the pounds. He says he finds it attractive but I'm fast getting past the point of no return and I'm worried this is an obsession. I'm afraid to stop in case I lose him.

2006-07-24 01:32:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My marriage is great now.
I have not spoken to that person in two years.

2006-07-24 01:26:47 · 14 answers · asked by Looped 1

my hubby can't answer my question now? :)

2006-07-24 01:18:42 · 9 answers · asked by balot_22F 1

my hubby and i like to cuddle, go shopping and cook.

2006-07-24 01:16:45 · 12 answers · asked by balot_22F 1

I feel ashamed & Burning when I found her looking & keeping on staring (Eye to Eye Contact) Passing smiles, etc., to other males regardless their age / Looks etc, if its male its enough for her & she has a habbit of doing so.
I am reasonably handsome & much better in the Bed & she always says I am satisfied from you..
I love her a lot & told her that It will ruin the relation between us but all in vain.... I give her time attention & reasonable expenses as she desires means everything..
Currently She is Pregnant & in the 9th Month, Even Now?
I am unable to Teach her or Stop her or understand the reason for this so poor Lust.
I accept that when some one Good Looking Come before we loose our Control & start seeing to her. But If a Lady can dare to have eye to Eye Contact with man over her father's Age... Pass on Smiles...
Whenever she comes to my office she applies the same with lower level staff also. So I feel very Bad the day she comes.

Please Advise me what should I do?

2006-07-24 01:04:07 · 13 answers · asked by Beware_I'm_Here 3

i m 25 years .i remain in touch with a who is at the age of 31 now for the 1 and a half month.i met him only once in the last one and a half year.he did not touch but we continued talking on phone late nights..In our conversation we talk espasially verble S..*. but we never met.we both love each other.now last week before we met again then he touched me 1st time as he kissed me for the 1st time ever and touched me for the 1st time ever... we met 6 times...but we did not do the sex..as we talked about it daily.now in last meeting he insisted me two time to do sex..and force me but i stoped him... we met last time on Thursday....when he went after meeting me then he always call me but he did not kall me that day nor he talked to me on net..today is Monday..and till this day he did not connect me.i send him many msgs..but he did not reply.and i know he is online but he doid not talk to me.. Plz help me i want to know form u people that whether he loves my BODY.so some other problem.

2006-07-24 00:58:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together 10 years, married 4. Since we got married he puts our RELATIONSHIP as second priority, always spends all his time on sports - every spare minute he gets so there is no time to do things for our relationship eg we havent done our garden or front wall for 4 years bc there is no time. We fight all the time bc he wants to do his own stuff - we dont seem to agree on values or priorties anymore. I have tried and tried but we fight 80% of the time. If i try to talk to him, he shuts down and wont communicate. I feel like we have grown apart but am too scared and dont know how to start on my own. We started dating at 20 and now we are 32 so life has always been together. There are a lot more complicated issues like he lost his job bc he got depression and this lead to no job for 2 years which placed a great deal of pressure on us. I stood by him but i feel like he takes me for granted and its all about him. Do i leave or continue? i do i make the break. I am cofussed.

2006-07-24 00:45:25 · 16 answers · asked by eservices t 1

If so How is it working out ?

2006-07-24 00:37:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What single act could he do that would drive you passionately insane? The flowers and gift things only go so far. If you had one choice, what would you want him to do that makes you know you're the one person he loves the most? Serious answers please, but smartas*es welcome too. Grrrrrrrr.

2006-07-24 00:32:34 · 14 answers · asked by wudbiser 4