My Wife Looks at others (Eye to Eye Contacts) For so Long Time, What should I do?

Question

I feel ashamed & Burning when I found her looking & keeping on staring (Eye to Eye Contact) Passing smiles, etc., to other males regardless their age / Looks etc, if its male its enough for her & she has a habbit of doing so.
I am reasonably handsome & much better in the Bed & she always says I am satisfied from you..
I love her a lot & told her that It will ruin the relation between us but all in vain.... I give her time attention & reasonable expenses as she desires means everything..
Currently She is Pregnant & in the 9th Month, Even Now?
I am unable to Teach her or Stop her or understand the reason for this so poor Lust.
I accept that when some one Good Looking Come before we loose our Control & start seeing to her. But If a Lady can dare to have eye to Eye Contact with man over her father's Age... Pass on Smiles...
Whenever she comes to my office she applies the same with lower level staff also. So I feel very Bad the day she comes.

Please Advise me what should I do?

Answer 1

Sounds like maybe you are a little insecure. Baby if she married you and is pregant with you child then think about it. You are the one she wants to be with. I smile at a lot of people.Sometimes someone may be feeling down and it helps them through the day if someone smiles at them.I am 54 and I smile and sometimes say hi to men in their 20's, 60's ect you get what I am saying? Maybe it is just her nature to smile at people. Be glad honey that she is not a sour puss.Think about it..Happy? Sour puss? Get what I am saying? Good Luck and I am sure when the baby comes the baby will take up alot of her time.I am sure everything will fall into place....God Bless you and yours.

Answer 2

First, she may just be being nice. I was taught in a psychology class to always look at a person's eyes when speaking to them or acknowledging them. It is the polite thing to do. It sounds like you are "assuming" she is lusting when she could just be a genuinely nice person. I'll bet a lot of people respect her. What exactly is up with your "lower level staff" comment anyway? I think you may be on some high horse or something -- where if you are not the one getting all the attention all the time, you have an issue with it. I'll bet the "lower level staff" respect her --- gee......should I think you are speaking of scum or something? That statement left me a little bitter.

Answer 3

Some Women are just born to flirt. It could be harmless. It also could be that loving her is not enough. Do you Lust for her. Give her that look in your eye ,that your imagining her nakid, or if you could be in bed with her now you would. Theres alot to be said about a look. Your wife may have the need to know shes still got it, yes even in her 9th month. Most Women dont try to flirt passing construction sites, but if no one whistles some of us are like why not? Tell her how sexy she is. Good luck

Answer 4

You'll probably see this advice time and again. Counseling.

It sounds to me like it is a self-esteem issue. She craves attention because she loves the ego boost it provides. I'm not sure if there is a cure for this (sorry for the lame answer) but that's what I think it is. A self-esteem issue.

It sounds like you're doing the right things, too . . . this is going to be her decision whether she wants to keep hurting you like this or not. You've been very open with her, communicating your disappointment and she continues. She needs to get to the root cause of why she her esteem is shattered . . .


I wish you luck.

Answer 5

I would imagine she is just being friendly, to give her the benefit of the doubt. You express that she is aware that you don' t like it so she might be doing it intentionally because it bothers you. Has she expressed something that you do that bothers her and you keep doing it. Could be a tit for tat type of thing. Just try ignoring what she does and not saying anything about it and over time she will probably quit doing it, especially with a baby to keep her attention.

Answer 6

I am pretty sure the smiles are not lusting smiles she is just being friendly. and you need to step back and look in the mirror hun. you are being a very jealous hubby. with being that jealous cause she smiles and looks into someone eyes does not mean she wants to take them to bed and bang the crap out of them. she is married to you and pregant if she was not happy with you she would of left you a long time ago. so dont worry so much. love your wife and your relationship you have before its gone. have more faith

Answer 7

She's trying to get your attention.....she has your words....why not take her home and ravage her after you've been out and she's done that? Or maybe she's just friendly? I smile and make eye contact with other men...it actually excites my man when I do that....because he KNOWS I'm going home with him....so he's thinking...."enjoy the smile while u can, man.....she's MINE".....makes our s*x life that much better.......

Answer 8

i do no longer see why you need to exchange, with the aid of fact she is conscious approximately your ailments and that it can be a undertaking for you. My husband and that i purely stare upon one yet another if we are offended, lol, so I see what you advise approximately agression. perchance issues could develop in case you commence listening to one yet another and perchance the attention touch element could fall into place. i'm thinking if the undertaking is a loss of listening. we've that situation right here too.

Answer 9

I am in the exact same boat, kinda. My boyfriend stares at other girls and it hurts. I told my man that it hurts my feelings so I would get back at him. (Doing the same thing) Which didnt work. I told him that it hurt, and then he said he didnt realise that he was "checking out other girls"

I hope you feel better

Answer 10

Simple answer, poke her eyes out. Better answer, stop being such a jealous moron and be glad that you have her. Looks mean nothing, actions, everything.