I am getting married in a few weeks and I have heard so many horror stories lately. Most people tell me when you get married everything you loved and did before stops. They say you must enjoy what you have now it only gets worse. We have one child together and he has a child from a previous relationship and we have made it through the children. Children sometimes keep you from doing all the things you once did together, but you find new things to do as a family that you could not do before. How would I prevent our relationship from becoming just an sad situation?
2006-07-24 03:13:22 · 6 answers · asked by missgoodgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ALWAYS FIND TIME FOR EACH OTHER IS THE BEST WAY.....
2006-07-24 03:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Phyllis W. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Arrange for a babysitter every so often so you can go out together. If no sitter put the kids to bed and have a late romantic dinnner even if it's simple, he will be truly touched. Or surprise with a recreation of a milestone date(first kiss, first time, or when he asked you to marry him.
Tip for him:
Do some house work; it is a big turn on to see my guy doing house chores cause it leaves me less to worry about. One time he surprised me by picking up our children, making a pitcher of tea and had dinner ready and on the table. That was better than any expensive dinner or gift. The less a woman has on her mind the easier it is to get her to be intimate
Good luck.
2006-07-24 10:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by JenKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is only what you make it. It is a job, no doubt. But anything worth having is worth working for, so strap on your boots, my friend. IF you want a good marriage, the two of you must BOTH be willing to work at it. Sure, there will be times when you feel like you are doing all the work, but there will be times your partner will feel that way as well...that's what is known as a team effort...carrying the load on your own every now and then.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-24 10:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make time for each other! Even if that means less sleep, you still have to do it! Any relationship takes effort! If either of you are not willing to exert that effort, then don't get married. Putting the effort into the relationship is what assures each other that you are indeed wanted and loved!
2006-07-24 10:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ken'sBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to treat a marriage like a date. Think of new things to keep it fresh. Do new family things. All marriage is, is dating the perfect person every day of your life. Congratulations!
2006-07-24 10:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is important. Talk to one another and spend alone time together. Have sex often...it puts both of you in a great mood. Don't let arguments go unresolved. Don't go to bed mad at each other.
2006-07-24 10:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋