i m 25 years .i remain in touch with a who is at the age of 31 now for the 1 and a half month.i met him only once in the last one and a half year.he did not touch but we continued talking on phone late nights..In our conversation we talk espasially verble S..*. but we never met.we both love each other.now last week before we met again then he touched me 1st time as he kissed me for the 1st time ever and touched me for the 1st time ever... we met 6 times...but we did not do the sex..as we talked about it daily.now in last meeting he insisted me two time to do sex..and force me but i stoped him... we met last time on Thursday....when he went after meeting me then he always call me but he did not kall me that day nor he talked to me on net..today is Monday..and till this day he did not connect me.i send him many msgs..but he did not reply.and i know he is online but he doid not talk to me.. Plz help me i want to know form u people that whether he loves my BODY.so some other problem.
2006-07-24 00:58:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sure he loves your body and your personality. It sounds like he loves to talk to you as is evidenced by your late night conversations. I believe he thought that you wanted to have sex with him due to the nature of your conversations. He probably felt closer to you both physically and perhaps emotionally based on these conversations . When you met again face-to-face he thought that you two had a connection that would be consumated physically, you were not ready for such a move (which is fine) and is something he needs to respect. He now sounds like he is confused and upset that nothing happened . . . try again to connect with him telling him that you love talking erotically but it is way too soon for you to consumate any physical relationship, but you feel that you would like to move in that direction as your feelings grow stronger.
Good luck!
2006-07-24 01:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you, but it sounds like you're what we call a "tease". You talk about sex, but you're not putting out. What do you expect the guy to do??
He played the game for a reasonable amount of time, you lead him on, then you say no and now he's gone. Quite frankly, I'd have dumped you too.
2006-07-24 08:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he like u and of u guys had know each other for a year he may be thinking about taking it to the next step and it all up to u
2006-07-24 08:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by gggheo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry deary havnt u read the book "he's just not that into me"
Mayb get yourself the book, I highly recomend it. It will help you see past,present and to see future realtionships for what they really are.
GET THE BOOK ! :)
2006-07-24 08:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by cinnaamon_kiss_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this is AMERICA learn to WRITE in ENGLISH before you attempt another long post..
2006-07-24 08:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Heather b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's all he wanted to begin with and since he didn't get it from you and sees you're not going to give it to him he decided to move on and get it from someone else.
2006-07-24 08:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi BshPi!!!!
c this indicates dat he luvs ur bodyyyyyy not uuuuuu dear...... only in 6 meetings u gave urself 2 him.....howcome????....i don understand.....i wannna say u sumthin but don feel bad cuz its harsh but ya dis iz wat de whole world will say 2 u.....u r a USEd **** now!!!!!u allowed him n now u r only regrettin.....u don know ...cheap n local men like ur so-called bf r like dis....don mind plz but dis iz de fact....they 1st use u as a disposable glass n after there work iz finished they throw u.....or u can say dey dump u.....use n throw...u c....now ur work iz 2 dump him n 4get him 4 everrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr......he was never urs.....dis iz de way i think now its upto u.....
*****HOpe U lIKeD My AnS...*****
2006-07-24 08:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by $@LLu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grammar is horrible. work on it.
then work on your relationship. He probably doesn't want to be with you anymore or he would have called you. Why would you want to be with someone who "forced you to have sex with him?". Let it go.
2006-07-24 08:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by MissT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all try to learn grammars well as English then ask
2006-07-24 08:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by paras m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he likes sex with you can help him with it if at all you really loves or like him or else dump him and forget forever.
2006-07-24 08:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Cool !!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋