if your BF was to call you and say that he has taken the AIDS test
and that the hospital has called him back inorder to either recheck the result or because they have lost his blood sample.
how would you react if you had cheated on him?
would you tell him if you cheated at this point?
or
tell him to go ahead and take the test?
please note, if the result comes out positive, he can be deported from country!!
so serious issue
2006-07-24 03:08:34 · 17 answers · asked by ali k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should be honest no matter what the result. you can not have a realtionship without honesty.
2006-07-24 03:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by burrowthroughanelephant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you cheated on your immigrated boyfriend and you could have possibly given him HIV that's cute...but i would wait to get the results before i said anything...think about it this way if it's positive he'll be deported so you can tell him as they are taking him away. tell him to keep in touch. but on the other hand if it comes out negative why would you want to tell him and break the relationship if it wasn't necessary? and in the future if you are going to cheat use some protection
2006-07-24 03:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's kissing a relative, no. If it fairly is a %. on the cheek jointly as greeting a chum, no. If it particularly is on the lips ... cheating (till it fairly is a woman buddy i comprehend and believe). If it fairly is an prolonged kiss, truthfully cheating. If the girl kisses yet another lady? nicely, i don't kiss my acquaintances, and not a good sort of ladies might - possibly on the cheek yet truthfully not on the lips.
2016-11-02 21:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) if there is a chance you are HIV positive you need to get somewhere and get checked and QUIT having unprotected sex as it is a crime to give it to someone else knowingly 2) the saying you play you pay goes here. You had the fun of being with someone else and maybe at your boyfriends expense so yes you need to come clean and tell him the truth. If it comes out he is HIV positive and you are the one that spread it to him you have to live with that knowledge but he has the right to know why.
2006-07-24 04:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been tested? If you cheated and have not been tested then you need to get your A$$ to the hospital and get tested.
You also need to sit him down and tell him the truth. He has a right to know!! You are playing with his life and he has a right to know about it!!
Get off your A$$ and get tested and tell him!
2006-07-24 03:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We;; i probably wouldn't say anything until the results were back ion the mean time I would be checked as well,and if I wasn't infected with the aids virus I would know that it had to be him..
2006-07-24 03:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by crazyinlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even with him if you cheated on him? Seriously, yes, tell him you cheated and then let him go because you're obviously not mature enough for a relationship and he deserves someone faithful.
2006-07-24 03:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you think, it depends on weather you cheated or not. If you have cheated and you love him, don't tell unless you know for sure,If you haven't cheated, wait also, then if he's positive , you can drop him first and accuse him of being the whore!
2006-07-24 03:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to take the test if he is possitive then you need to know so you can also tell the person you cheated with
2006-07-24 03:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by kcgrl27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have HIV/AIDS? Have you been tested yourself?
You are playing with someone's life, so fess up now!
2006-07-24 03:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋