i am bored with my marriage life which is 7 years old what should i do ?

Answer 1

You know what they say about boring people being the ones who are bored don't you? If your marriage has gotten boring its because you have allowed it to get boring and what you should do is treat it with the respect and concern it deserves and do something to change it. Hopefully you didn't think you were marrying a jester or something whose job it was to keep you entertained throughout eternity. Make sure you have realistic expectations then realize that you are a grown up and should be able to entertain yourself and take some responsibility for the fact that its fallen in to a rut, after all you are half of this partnership too. Try planning something to spice it up a little. It's good to see you asking though, women are always here saying we need to spice things up a little any suggestions? but rarely do you ever see men doing it so its great that you asked! Good luck, be creative, think back to the things you loved to do before it got in a rut and do them again, or find some new adventures to go on.

Answer 2

If you have kids,give it a lot of thought,it will complicate your life and your children's life.Body makeover,you and spouse,loose weight together,invent things to do together.If you have somebody else in mind that is very bad,usually that can finish a marriage very fast.Please remember the grass is not always greener on the other side,I know I was bored too,sense then 4 marriages later it has left me with a lot of regrets and sadness think about it.

Answer 3

ask yourself a question why did you get married? For what? I wonder how can you get bored already? Me I am married 9 years and have 2 small children and never never think bored. why shoudl I be becasue I made the choice to get married and you writing this quesiton you are bored. You need to talk to your wife and tell her how you feel and find out how to fix the plm. If nothing then I don't know what to say.

If you do get divorce, if you thinking about remarried and I think you should think twice before you get married.

Answer 4

If you are bored, it is your own fault...there are so many games to play, so many roles...be glad you have a person to play them with. The best sex organ is the brain...start using it. You need to have a serious talk..your wife probably feels the same way. Games and role playing freshen up the scene, getting away to a sleezy motel, pick her up in a bar...play it to the hilt. Be a phone repair guy she puts the make on...you name it, if you can think it, you can do it. Good luck

Answer 5

Think and do new things with your wife. Some ideas are like
1- Going out to dinner, movies, etc... on weekends
2- Get away week-ends
3- enroll in classes that both find interesting and discuss
4-See new places as much as possible

Answer 6

Have a good talk w/ your wife.She should respect your honesty.Good or bad,you need to get things off your chest.No problems will solve themselves,especially is your wife has no idea what's bother you.

Answer 7

change it up a bit. maybe your life is too routine and you're getting bored. go out to eat at a nice restaurant. or go on vacation :D

be spontaneous!

Answer 8

marriage..there no boring bout marriage,,,cherish the gd time together....hang out togther...bet truth to each other,,it helps
play sports together...mayb u shud try gardening

Answer 9

YOU GOT THE 7 YEAR ITCH. HANG IN THERE, DON'T GIVE UP ON YOUR MARRIAGE. REMEMBER ITS FOR BETTER OR WORSE. YOU PROMISED HER FOREVER, SO KEEP THAT PROMISE. BRING SOME ROMANCE INTO YOUR MARRIAGE. YOU LET YOURSELF GET TOO COMFORTABLE IN YOUR MARRIAGE.

Answer 10

Have an affair! It is time to spice it up. Your spouse should not be neglecting you. That will get his/her attention.