2006-07-24 08:34:11 · 29 answers · asked by Rachel B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is completely OK to want it – I have had sex with multiple men before, and LOVE it – it is an experience every girl should have at least once.
Of course – I am not married... so it is a bit different... I might feel odd about it if I were, and my husband wanted me to have sex with other guys – but some guys get really turned on by that.
You need to be clear, and honest about what you expect, and what you want, and what the rules are BEFORE you get started. And stick to it AFTER WORDS. A good idea would be to talk with him about WHY he wants this... Some guys are VERY turned on by it – or perhaps he is concerned with promiscuity as others have suggested.
And yes – it is totally OK to want to do it – it IS FUN...
2006-07-24 09:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by ***** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Husband Wants To Share Me
2016-12-12 17:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man who has shared my wife I can tell you that most of these answers are completely off base.
We discussed having a MFM for over a year before we did it. Initially she had many questions, including why would I want another man to have sex with her (I wanted her to experience more sexual pleasure and something new), would I want another woman afterwards (no), would I get jealous (probably, but also turned on), and would I resent her afterwards (no way).
Once she was comfortable with my answers we started looking. It took another 6 months before me best friend from college came to town to visit his folks. She was attracted to him, and visa versa. It was a little awkward getting started, but once we did she was in heaven. It was awesome seeing her letting herself go sexually. She enjoyed it so much that SHE asked if we could do it again the following night. We did, and then about 6 months later when I had a business trip to his town.
I'm not "whoring" her out. I don't think any less of her. In fact, it has brought us closer and our marriage is strong. I love her enough to let her have some fun outside the bounds of a conventional marriage. I'm living in a porn flick, and my wife is the star!
2015-06-22 01:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I did that a few times and it was fun at the time but after wards it was a little awkward. We have been married for a very long time and I think our relationship is strong enough to handle things like that. Is yours? Make sure this is something the two of you really want and discuss how you might feel when it's over. Be careful because this could ruin everything.
2006-07-24 08:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes after talking about if for 7 years he went through with it!! We picked up a hot guy in a bar went back to our hotel, then i enjoyed some of the best orgasms in years. Hubby just watched he enjoyed every min of it!! The next 9 weeks we had the best sex ever, it put spice into our sex life. Also it made me feel more confident in my self! My husband likes the idea of a womens sexual liberation!! Sharing me made him feel good about trusting me with my sexual freedome. You do have to have a very solid emotional love bond to enjoy this.
2016-12-17 14:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a sad relationship. Your husband is basically whoring you out to another man - he doesn't respect you at all. I would not allow this. Thank God my husband is one of the great ones!
2006-07-24 09:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It would be a really bad thing if you didn't want it. The real question becomes what if you end up liking this other guy more than your husband or your husband gets jealous.
2006-07-24 08:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is for a 3some ya man might be a lil colorful. Cuz dont no str8 dude wanna have a 3some wit another dude. If its not 4 a 3some then ya man might be cheatin cuz no dude wanna share his woman unless its wit another woman!
2006-07-24 08:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by 2SexC2Bstr8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It will wreck your relationship with your husband. He says it is okay now but the reality is he probably won't be able to accept it if you do it. He will get jealous and resentful. And you will find yourself hurting from his pushing you away. It is too emotional a thing to do and expect things to remain the way it was.
2006-07-24 08:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Share you with another man? what! is he bisexual? why would he want to share you with another man? in my opinion i would straight up slap for wanting to share me then slap him again for wanting to share me with a MAN then slap him again for not wanting to be normal and share me with a girl then one more time for even thinking it. i wouldnt do it.
2006-07-24 08:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by Icys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋