I am pretty good with secrets.
2006-07-24 08:04:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmm spreading it over the net is 1 way he might know , you better erase all your history and stuff on your computer now
2006-07-24 08:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 6 · 11⤊ 8⤋
Several, first off this very question (not too bright of you to post your infedelity on the web). Second, you. YES you. Your actions, words and smell... The person you were with, someone who may have noticed this person and you. Perhaps hubby has a friend "keeping an eye on you" while he is away. STDS, pregnancy...the list goes on and on....
I am a military wife, my husband is going to be gone to school for a year three months after I give birth to our second child. After that he has to go to sea duty, there is another year...I would NEVER dram of having anafair while he is gone or while he is here.... You must be one of those sad stories of affairs while overseas he gets told by brokenhearted sailors and marines... Granted wives aren't always the guilty parties...
Free your concience...be honest with him...it will make you feel better.
2006-07-24 17:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by neonate_mistress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to tell him your self & not while he is there but when he gets back and stop cheating on him now, He is risking his life for this whole country not for you to have your sexual desires with someone else, you should be sorry for what you done instead of being proud of being good at being secretive and decietful , You need some help girl, your only going to be hurting yourself the most in the long run, So you need to be honest with your husband when he gets back & I repeat you dont tell him while he's over there, he dont need the deppression to set in and get himselfed killed over a cheating wife, you should really be ashamed of yourself and get yourself a toy to satisfy yourself and I dont mean toyboy.
2006-07-24 15:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by dugbug63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infidelity changes the person who committed it. He will know, trust me! He may not figure it out right away but he WILL be aware that something is different and it is only a matter of time before he figures out what. Odds are it will be something so minute that you totally over look it. Nothing you say or do is mundane and inconsiquencial if you have done something wrong. Eventually he is gonna find out of figure it out. Trust me when I say your odds are better if it comes from you rather than any outside way or person. You need to tell him yourself. If you don't the conciquences will be much worse for you.
2006-07-24 15:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, someone might have seen you. The other person might tell. You might let it slip. Can you be pregnant or have caught a disease?
These things have a way of coming out, eventually.
I think it is shameful, that while he was risking his life you were cheating on him. He deserves better.
2006-07-24 15:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kyawoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband served in Iraq for 15 months. That's very low of you as a woman and a wife to cheat. You need to know God's word on marriage. I hope he divorces you for that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-24 16:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by foxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're so good with secrets, why ask? Sounds like you're feeling a wee guilty and think you might give yourself away. Personally I think you're gonna slip up - I feel sorry for your husband.
2006-07-24 15:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You are a colossal scumbag! I think the real question you should be asking is "how do I stay cool in the bowels of hell?" In the mean time, enjoy being an unfaithful loser who doesn't deserve any happiness in your life whatsoever.
What a waste of protein.
2006-07-24 15:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by PriMord-001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will know. He will be able to sense it. You are going to be busted in a day. You should just come right out and tell him. Be fair to him, it's his life you are ruining as well as your own. think about what he would want.
2006-07-24 15:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth always have a way of coming out.And it's better to hear it from you than someone else.
2006-07-24 15:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant wait to tell him. and you know generally this aint my business but you brought it on your self. i told you my sister needs a good man. i see you at the family get together when he gets home. i'll be the one to tap you on the shoulder when you least expect it. c u then
2006-07-24 15:09:24 · answer #11 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋