i have been with this man for 6 years today . but i no longer love him . I stay because thats all i know. i still care for him and always will but i want something else.; have been looking though never acted on my feelings
2006-07-24 08:05:26 · 7 answers · asked by cynthia0767 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
o yea I am only 21 , and my spouse is not able to have kids . ( Which i want )
2006-07-24 08:10:46 · update #1
have been unhappy for 3 years .
2006-07-24 08:49:59 · update #2
You're only 21, you've already changed a lot since you were 15, and you'll change a lot more in the next five years. If you don't love him, it's time to move on. Especially if you have different opinions on something as huge as wanting children. You had some good years together, but you're not a life-match. It's scary to change, but you both deserve the chance to have someone who really suits you for life.
2006-07-24 08:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, seriously consider staying. Not because that's all you know, but because 6 years is a long time to just throw away. But, if you're not feeling it anymore, honey, don't live in misery. Do what your heart tells you to do. Maybe you can fix your doubts about the relationship, somehow. Good luck.
2006-07-24 15:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to life than staying with someone you don't love. Never limit yourself that way. You're cheating yourself out of happiness and peace of mind.
2006-07-24 15:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to get on with your life now, than to continue on pretending, because eventuially it will all come out anyway. Both of you have plenty of time to find "the one". He will be hurt, but he'll get over it with time. If you want to have kids, this is not something you want to miss out on.
2006-07-24 15:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely wrong. If you don't love him why stay? Never jeoperdize your heart just for consistancy. Do what you think is right.
2006-07-24 15:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him how u feel about him and move on with your life .
2006-07-24 15:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
2006-07-24 15:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ednat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋