Ok I am a mature married man. I'm not trying to be a pervert here. Yes, men seem to be probably unnecessarily concerned about the size of their penis..or at least curious. I am 5.5" long and of medium thickness. My question is are there any other women out their whose husband is about this size..which I'm gathering is pretty average. And if so, do you secretly wish or have a desire for it to be larger, but you don't say anything? Do you ever want to buy a large dildo of some kind to see what more size is like?
2006-07-24 09:41:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My gosh, why are people so sensitive? It was an honest question about human sexuality. Isn't that one purpose of this site..to ask questions in anonymity ?
2006-07-24 09:46:44 · update #1
I ask out of total curiosity..just interested to hear other people's viewpoints. My wife is satisfied, I know she is, she tells me she is. We fit together perfectly. thanks for the serious answers.
2006-07-24 09:49:54 · update #2
uhm nasty
2006-07-24 09:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since this seems to be an honest question I will put in my two cents here. I have been married for 10 years to a wonderful man. Now his penis is a bit larger then yours, but let me tell you, I wish it were shorter. As matter of fact most women I know all say the same thing. Most women prefer girth, rather then length. I don't see any reason a women should have a problem with your size, but in my opinion, it's not the size, it's what you do with it. And hey if your women wants to experiment with a dildo it may not be just because you are inadequate, it be just because she wants to feel something different. I think it takes alot more then size to satisfy a women in the bed.
2006-07-24 09:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not want to even look at people's answers because there is a real tendency to critize others unnecessarily on this site.
I do not think that it is a main issue in women's mind, honestly. Having said that, I have no clue what would be an average size (I do not even understand inches). (Nobody takes two men next to each other to compare these things...)
So, I believe what is important is what happens between the two individuals.
And then it is a matter of taste: some men love large breasts, other do not care. Same thing here I suppose.
There is, I am sure, some differences in what women feel physically but I am not sure that would make them wish their husband would be different.
Forget those silly answers from immature people. (sorry folks)
2006-07-24 09:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the length, and it's not the size, it's how many times you can make it rise.
And I really believe that, but since he can't seem to make it rise as often as he used to, I would like it bigger. Honestly, my husband is about the same length, but he is pretty thick,and that's what I like. Before I married him, I had bigger, but he's still me husband, because he knew how to work it. And I do every once in a while have the urge to be filled up, so I have went out and bought me a couple of dildos in varying sizes to satisfy my every whim.
2006-07-24 10:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by WinterRaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if this is a serious question......no. Im a married woman and my husband;s size is perfect! Thats why I married him!! hahah Hes average but big in width. Thats where it counts anyway. Not the length. So if you think your wife is unsatisfied then try new things. Try anal, toys, oral....ya know. Dont get hung up on one thing
2006-07-24 09:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by DesertGirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes actually. It's nothing to do with my husband (who is 7 and slender) or that he doesn't satisfy me. Sometimes I just prefer the 'full' feeling. But I am very careful to never mention this to him. The question is, why did you ask this question in the first place? Do you think your wife is unsatisfied?
2006-07-24 09:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 10 years and yes, my husband is about your size, maybe a bit smaller. We do use various sized dildos from time to time. He has no issue with it.
2006-07-24 09:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not being a pervert what are you being you are a married man you need to be pleasing your wife and not worried about the next couple there are young peoples on here and they dont need to hear about your SHORT COMMINGS bend over for your dildo
2006-07-24 09:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, my hubby's penis is perfect in size and thickness. I do not wish him to be larger. Larger does not necessarily mean better you know, it could be rather uncomfortable. He satisfies me in every way and I come at least 2-3 times every time we have sex.
2006-07-24 09:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by stickan8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a common myth that bigger is better! Size doesnt matter! The porn industry and movies jokes etc have brought on this myth that bigger is better its not! Its not the size but what you do with it!
2006-07-24 09:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. I had bigger before and picked my husband for many reasons none of which were the size of his penis.
2006-07-24 09:54:48 · answer #11 · answered by sutra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋