2006-07-24 08:40:59 · 67 answers · asked by funkymonkey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
XXXXXXXX you see the man in the photo with me, he is my spouse. He's got everything a woman needs and more. We have been married 13 years, I have never thought about cheating on him and never will. He gives me 1000% of himself, physically, mentally and emotionally. SGT..A. ROCKS!!!!!!!XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-24 08:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have just gotten married four months ago and i can tell you this much, being married is hard work. But i think couples go through a hard time and instead of talking it out with each other they feel they should turn to the other person. For me i do not care how bad a situation gets that is not an excuse for cheating. When you stood there before god and the preacher or judge you made a promise to love for better or worse until death do us part. If you feel like you have to cheat then get out of the relationship.
2006-07-24 08:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Newlywed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently going threw a divorce. I left him because in 8 years of marriage he cheated constantly. I left him once and I had a relationship with another man for a few months. I broke it off with the man and got back together with my husband. He tortured me every day for the following three years Evan though he was still doing it. In fact he wasn't paying the bills because all his money was going to the hookers. No power one week, no water the next. It was terrible. I think if your spouse is cheating than you should be able to and if you do not want your spouse to cheat then you should not cheat. And if all else fails and your partner and your self can not come to an agreement and stick with it than you should not be together.
To further comment on this matter, I am currently in a relationship with a man who respects me and treats me well. I would NEVER cheat on him. And I believe he will not cheat on me.
2006-07-24 08:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married. I think that if you are in a relationship where the other party requires monogamy, then that is the standard you should follow. If you didn't want that, you shouldn't have signed up for the long haul. If you want to be married, and want sex with others, then you should find a partner that feels the same way you do. Then you can love, honor, and cherish your spouse and still get your "strange" every now and then. It's about respecting the bond you have established with your partner, whatever that bond may be.
2006-07-24 08:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by volition_relinquished 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vows read "forsaking all others" now if that means nothing to you then you have no call for being married. One of the reason I feel marriage age limit should be 21 is because many people find Divorce too simple. Marriage doesn't mean what it use to. Young people need to "feel their oats" so to speak before marriage! The question itself is really silly why get married if you would cheat on your spouse?
2006-07-24 08:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am technically still married. I am separated. My ex left me for another woman. The only reason that I haven't filed for a divorce is money issues. So, technically I do cheat on my husband. But under any other circumstance, there is absolutely no way that I would cheat on even a boyfriend.
2006-07-24 08:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not plan on cheating on my spouse. I doubt very few people actually ever plan on cheating on their spouse. The best thing to do is not put yourself in the situation where cheating could occur.
2006-07-24 08:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by mrjwm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have but not in a while. And I can't say that I wouldn't do it again. It's just the excitment and has nothing to do with the way you feel about your spouse.
2006-07-24 08:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by todayillsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good heavens NO!! I waited for the perfect man to marry, he didn't have alot of 'things that we will work on'. I had been preposed to many times by other men, but I knew that I just could not be happy with them for the rest of my life, But in the end, I found my perfect man, he is everything I always wanted..I would never throw his love in the trash .
2006-07-24 09:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by noahsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, the answer is resoundingly yes. If you can get away with it, and if you're not getting what you want at home, you will get it elsewhere. Or if you are embarrassed by a personal kink that you cant or wont share with your spouse (ie. Bisexuality), you will act it out eventually on the sly.
2006-07-24 08:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by ChiDJ003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋