I am very sexual but my boyfriend has different needs( I like it dirty and experimental) what should i do?

Question

I satisfy him all the time and tell him what i do and don't like.

I have discussed what i like and don't like over and over but nothing changes.

In answer to stickman, i could ask him what i like?????

Answer 1

keep with your boy friend and meet me for all the dirty sex

Answer 2

Well, I would say that you two need to talk about your sexual fears and desires. Have an open discussion and ask him why he doesn't like certain things ( it could be because he is scared of rejection, or personal smell or hygeine, and maybe even how you will react to certain things he does. He could also not be used to those things because he may think that it is degrading to women). If this is the case, let him know that you like trying new things with him and that he has nothing to worry about. Compromise and don't always do things that you desire to do. It's all about communication and satisfying your man. So whatever you have to do to let him know this do it. It will be all worth it in the end.

Answer 3

you need to find a new boyfriend who would like to do dirty and experimental new things.

My wife like to do dirty and experimental and I enjoy it alot and we try new things and still have even if we have 2 small children.

I think that you should find a guy who would do the same thing. I am a male and I wouldn't want to be with a woman who not do anything new thing.

Hope this answer your questions.

Answer 4

Sometimes it's hard to talk to the one you love about sex if your not sure how they will take it. Rent a soft core porn movie and watch it with him. Or read any of the books by Joan Elizabeth Lloyd. All her books are very erotic and might give him some ideas. Better yet, read them together ! My girlfriend wanted to try different things but was scared to tell me because she thought I would think less of her. So she started dropping HINTS and leaving things around like a book of Kama Sutra positions. Once I knew she was game......well, life and sex has never been better !!

Answer 5

Stop pushing him. You're probably making things worse by making him feel self-conscious. He's acting within his comfort limits, and you have to realize that they're not likely to get much wider in the near future, if ever. Either accept it - or find someone whose limits are closer to yours; there are plenty of them out there.

Answer 6

You sound like my ex. She wanted it 3x/day. There was NO HOPE for us, she was a can of mixed nuts for sure.

Your b/f doesn't sound like the experimental type. Talk about it, work it out, but if you get all pissy about it, say goodbye to your b/f cuz that's what happened to me, I took off and left her crazy azz by herself.

Answer 7

That is exactly how I feel. My husband is not as sexual as I am and it is disappointing. I would love to have sex with him 2 times a day but it is really only every couple days.

Answer 8

Man, wish I could find someone like you! I'm 50 and still want it all the time. My wife is happy with quickies on Saturday and Sunday mornings.

Answer 9

One of the biggest keys to a healthy relationship is compromise, so u both need to sit down and discuss that on some nights ur willing to do things his way and on other nights he needs to want to do things your way.. that way your both getting ur need met..

Answer 10

read your paragraph again!

"i tell him what i like" "i'm experimental"

start to see the problem yet you are completly obsesed with your own sexuallity that you are not taking the time and thinking about his!!!

hope this helps,
Nick
"Think i'm wrong IM me!"

Answer 11

If your boyfriend and you aren't sexually compatable, the relationship will not have "legs" (in other words, it won't last "forever"). If he's not willing to experiment with you, you should break up and find someone who will.