Marriage & Divorce - 20 July 2006

Next month Aug 4-5. I am kind of scared, nervous, let me tell you why. At our ten year reunion. I had it going on, married, new home, new car, 15 years of marriage. Since then I have pretty much lost everything. My husband and I are divorce. I lost the house, I don't have a car. I am single because I am just basically scared of a relationship. I am scared of what my classmate may think of me. I had so much, and not have anything now. I am on my own, my kids are with their father. I told them that I would come. but I am really scared. My divorce was so bad, it lead to 5 years of drinking and druggin. I am now 3 yrs. clean, I work and attend meetings, and I know it will be plenty of acohol at the party. It taking time to build my life back, I couldn't have gotten this far without God in my life. What can I do?

2006-07-20 05:16:55 · 13 answers · asked by Ms. Good P. 2

2006-07-20 05:04:55 · 30 answers · asked by m.girl 1

2006-07-20 05:04:52 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley V 1

My friend asked for suggestions for songs for the 1st dance at her upcoming wedding for the bride and groom. I suggested If you don't know me by now by Simply Red - she wasn't amused. What do you think?

2006-07-20 05:03:30 · 14 answers · asked by missieclass 4

I have been divorced about 3 years. I hope to find a man before I turn 44 in April.

2006-07-20 04:58:32 · 21 answers · asked by debraj622000 2

I have been with my bf for 2 years. Do you think he could be tired of sex?

2006-07-20 04:57:57 · 24 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

I was married for the second time in 1998. Only lived with him for 8 months. No children invovled. Divorce was final Jan. 2000. I would like to remove this marriage from my record. Is that possible?

2006-07-20 04:56:39 · 5 answers · asked by buttercup_texas 1

I got married last October. Everything was great, he was wonderful, loving, caring, etc. I moved in with him, he had bough a house a year before and had purchased 10 acres. Only 2 acres is tied into the mortgage. I sold some of my stuff, gave other things away to my family, his family, etc. Pretty much gave up everything, soon after he switched jobs from a welder to a car salesman and our financial struggle began. He was not making any money and I began supporting him and us, months later-he quit and went unemployed for a while (not even putting forth an effort to try to find a job) I continued to support us, working over-etc. Then he got another job at another dealership and the same thing happened again- he quit and was unemployed again In the past month everything has fell apart-he'sbeen distant and hateful, and admitted to cheating on me with a customer at the 2nd dealership. He says he doesn't care about me, or anyone but himself-now he

2006-07-20 04:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by jackiep13084 1

My husband takes one week off to go fishing with the guys in Sept. One to two days per ice fishing derby. One week for hunting. And one week he is suppose to spend with his family. We are going on holidays for 5 days now he want to ride his bike there and me take the van with the kids which is fine but I have to come back coz I have to work and he doesn't but he want to stay and me bring the kids back and than I have to pay for a sitter. I don't go anywhere now do you guys find that unfair or not is he being selfish? Honest oppions Please.

2006-07-20 04:40:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been married 15 years now. When I married her I knew she had genital herpes
Month into are marriage we found out she also had genital warts. Now living with someone with these std’s you just can’t be spontaneous in love making. I’m 48 y/o and so far I don’t have any of these std’s but, are love making been very little in are 15 years. I just don’t know how much longer I can live like this.
1.Should I just tell her its over? I really don’t want to break her heart, but I also have to think about myself.
2.Do you live with this, if so how do you cope with it?
Please don’t tell me to use a condom if you do you better educate yourself on these std’s, this is a skin to skin std and it can pop up anywhere anytime down there, and don’t tell me there’s more to a marriage and love than sex I know I have been living it for 15 years. PS I’m not fix it, I’m just using his laptop.

2006-07-20 04:27:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife is very unhappy, as she puts it with her life right now. she wants nothing to do with me but still says she has feelings for me and cares for me. it has been tough, but i am able to deal with it. our daughter was gone for the summer and we seperated for 5 weeks and now she is back and i am back home. my problem now is my wife is ignoring her as well. i point blank asked her if she wants to leave us both for a while for a little soul searching and she will not give me a straight answer. the only thing she does is talk on the phone with friends and stay on the computer all night. we agreed that if divorce is the outcome she would have full custody, but now if this is how she is going to continue to act I think i should take custody. she is taking our daughter to her parents for the weekend and i have thought about calling her folks to let them know whats going on hoping they will help snap her out of this funk. please give me any advise you think might help. thanks

2006-07-20 04:22:42 · 14 answers · asked by vader1779 1

This is for the laddies only please. If your man said you could have sex with other guys cause he cant do it anymore would you? I am having that problem and it even turns me on thinking about it. I have had group sex with her and a friend before and it was fun, I didnt mind at all. Now if this made your man happier would you do it?

2006-07-20 04:20:46 · 39 answers · asked by Nick j 1

Divorcing, and so many people have said the best thing to do is have a purely physical, no emotion sex fling. I have never done anything like that, I get too attached and think I would only end up feeling bad about myself, has anyone ever benefited from a sex fling?

2006-07-20 04:19:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

have plan to marry.

2006-07-20 04:16:45 · 3 answers · asked by amniss 1

2006-07-20 04:15:35 · 26 answers · asked by sivakumar a 1

i am to be best man for my sister and brother in law who are renewing vows after 3 years marriage as they could not afford big doo at first. can somebody outline what i should say as im petrified and do not know any stories about bro in law have only known him short time would like it to be about 1 minute long
t.i.a

2006-07-20 04:08:18 · 3 answers · asked by james.nicholson11@btinternet.com 2

My husband has just resentaly started school. I understand that he needs time to work on his school work, but its like i am invisible to him now. I have no one to talk to. He never talks to me, he doesnt touch me anymore. and he always brings his friend over after school to help him, but this kid doesnt leave until midnight(most nights) and that doesnt leave much time for us. Its like we are living tow different lives. I guess my question is, is this normal? Should this be happening?

2006-07-20 04:08:09 · 17 answers · asked by JOJO 2

Why not the other way round?

2006-07-20 04:06:58 · 45 answers · asked by Stammerman! 5

My husband and I recently got in a huge fight where some things came out that he was lying about. Only for me to find out that he has been confiding in a woman co-worker about these things, not to mention plenty of other things that he didn't talk to me about, and things that I thought were just between me and him. He says they are only really good friends, and I believe him at this point. However I don't appreciate our deepest feelings to be discussed with this other woman, not to mention him not coming to his own wife to discuss things that involve me. I feel like this other woman is his best friend more than I am. We've talked and come to an understanding that we need to communicate more, however I can not trust that he won't just continue to talk to this other woman about things. I also worry if their friendship continues as it has been that it will turn into something more.

2006-07-20 03:54:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has never made love to me. I always make love to her. I feel she is emotionally detached from me. I have become bitter towards her, because I want to be loved by her emotionally as well as physically. She rarely initiates intimacy and I feel bad for having urges for her. I feel it is wrong for me to be bitter towards her, but I am frustrated. Am I wrong? Opinions needed.

2006-07-20 03:46:40 · 33 answers · asked by maf20057 1

I mean can he achieve personal satisfaction without taking the drug

2006-07-20 03:32:57 · 2 answers · asked by del-d 2

Iam a divorcee & i met him when he had spoken abt divorce to his wife & he also has a kid from that marriage, he planned divorce not bcos of our love .Now i feel guilty & confused that our love had fueled his thought abt divorcing his wife.

2006-07-20 03:31:26 · 16 answers · asked by Zahirr M 1

2006-07-20 03:29:01 · 7 answers · asked by bighead25 1

OK people instead of hearing so many "I dont love him, He cheated" blah blah blah how about this:

What is a really funny story that you have about you and your husband ( or wife )?

2006-07-20 03:27:57 · 9 answers · asked by Nikki B 2

2006-07-20 03:11:57 · 29 answers · asked by joke oh 1

I am just wondering what it fels like to be suckered in to pay for and support another man's kids. Thanks!!

2006-07-20 03:04:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know the correct ANS of means of LOVE,What is This ....?, Pls Dont give any sly ANS, i want correct.......one
i think girls can give the CORRECT ANS of that question.......

Pls Tell me.....................

2006-07-20 03:03:34 · 3 answers · asked by amit s 1

I''m a recovering alcoholic and and have no social life anymore. I don't think I will ever get over my ex-girlfriend unless I start dating someone else.

I've been going to meetings for 3 years but I have still yet to find a single close friend. Lots of people know my name, but I've never been invited to a party or asked out for coffee.

I've tried MATCH.COM and another site, but I always get the same answer, sometimes immediately. Either women:

1. Just don't want to date anyone that's a recovering addict/alcoholic.

2. Don't want to date anyone that doesn't drink.

I was just hoping someone could tell me why?

I'm 45, single, live alone and a pretty nice guy. Women in recovery generally don't date men in recovery. I don't think i'll ever find a wife.

It's been a few years now, and I find myself so lonely that I think of suicide alot.

My question is, since I can't seem to meet anyone by telling the truth, should I just lie about my alcoholism?

2006-07-20 03:03:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-20 02:56:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

He satisfies me, but it is so hard to satisfy him. He tries to tell me how to do it, but I still can't do it right. I'm refering to going down on him. The sex is always the bomb

2006-07-20 02:53:02 · 19 answers · asked by Mocha Choco Latte 5