2006-07-20 05:04:52 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you really believe you are mature enough to accept the responsibilites of marriage then yes... getting married at a young age is better than waiting until your're 30... BUT, have the right reasons... don't marry becasue you want to move out of your parents house, life is boring, you have nothing else planned for your own future, etc... do it because you really love the person and you know FOR SURE he will always love you... do it because you know that you will be able to accept all of his flaws and will still love him... imagine laundry, dirty dishes, babies, vacuuming, grocery shopping, bill paying, etc, and imagine if you will still be happy... then make the decision... i'm 25 and i know i'm still not mature enough to marry yet... but my friend married right after high school and she's happier than ever about her relationship... don't take people's advice lightly... it will take a LOT of work...
good luck to you...
2006-07-20 05:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by constanze_mylove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!! I got married when I was 19. I thought I was so mature and knew what I was doing. It only lasted 6 years. So I was 25 with 2 little kids. You don't know who you are until you are older. You change so much in your twenties and thirties and the person you may love at 19 most likely will not be the same person in a few years. Take time to learn who you are. There is so much to do out there when you are young and without children. Good luck.
2006-07-20 06:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so...I married at 19...of course we were only married for 4 months because he was having an affair, but my 2nd marriage followed the next year and we've been married a little over 6 years. I would suggest that you live together first, though. A lot of people don't agree with this for religious reasons, or whatever, but you can love someone all you want and not be able to live with their bad habits....
2006-07-20 05:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would live with your parents until you finish college, and then move out. Freedom at your age comes at too high of a price. You need to focus on school right now. It is a lot of work, but when you have your degree, you can do anything you want, and will be so far ahead in life compared to most people.
Marraige is DEFINITELY out of the question! You need to focus on school, and life, and getting experience - marraige would drag you down and hold you back. You don't need to be commited so early.
I'm 30, and EVERY (and I mean EVERY) girl I have talked to who has married so young ALWAYS (and I mean ALWAYS) regrets it.
You might be tempted to be married because it's something all girls fantasize about, and you think you need that aspect of your life taken care of - but you have PLENTY of time to get married later.
2006-07-20 05:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never to young to commit yourself to another perosn. You should discuss it with them. Sometimes people only think of marriage and not realize that there is a committment behind it. That you have to sacrifice some aspects of your life. Just as with anything you have to be really sure that you know what you are getting into. Also, realize that I 19 you are now finding yourself and that self will change and the marriage would have to withstand that.
2006-07-20 05:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving out, may be okay, but marriage, definately not!! You're way too young. Go out and have fun for a couple of years. There are a lot of married people who regret that they didn't do that before they got married. Most of them are divorced now.
2006-07-20 05:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what you want and are sure you have the right, and good guy for a life partner. Don't have too many children that when something bad happens to your marriage you find difficulty leaving him and supporting your kids. Think and plan ahead for all unforseen negative situations.
2006-07-20 05:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my wife at 19yo. I was 22 yo. That was 22+ years and 9 children ago.
2006-07-20 05:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by gentlemanfarmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moving out sure, but marrage...im 19 and i cant even think about it!! im way too young, have to much life to live, and am totally not ready to settle down yet...i need to figure out who i am first!
2006-07-20 05:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....Well when you start to turn 25 or so You want be the same person as you were... things change and you change I would wait until you where at last 25 or older...
2006-07-20 05:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋