Will a man be more likely to cheat if he isn't fully satisfied in bed?

Question

He satisfies me, but it is so hard to satisfy him. He tries to tell me how to do it, but I still can't do it right. I'm refering to going down on him. The sex is always the bomb

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

It ok.....If he loves U he WILL NOT cheat, whether U R giving him the oral satisfaction or not.
Now what U need to do is go to Ur local book store and buy a book by Lou Pagett. It is 101 Ways 2 Satisfy A Man And Keep Him Coming Back 4 More.
Read it, then tell Ur man that U wanna try a few things out on him, TRUST ME he will not turn that opportunity down.
Lou Pagett has SEVERAL books out there with VERY descriptive
ways to satify a man. One thing U need to remember is that this is SUPPOSED to be fun for U also. The more U enjoy what U R doing the more pleased U will be to obligue him and the more U learn the happier he will be and U as well.
I have learned ALOT from her books and I have NEVER had any complaints, but like I said, U have enjoy what U R doing, I LOVE it, it's a power trip for me to have a man at the mercy of my hands, my tongue, my lips....U get the picture.

Good Luck!!!! Go by a Pagett book, U WONT regret that U did...

Answer 3

I had to same thing happen in my relationship. So let me ask why do you really think you're having a problem fulfilling him when going down? Is there a mental block? Are you already thinking defeat? Do you get tired? Do you feel pressure to please him? It could be an issue of needing to learn him after you're used to pleasing someone else that way. There are a million things but don't put the unnecessary pressure on yourself.

To answer your question directly, NO. If you cannot please him in that way there are 10 million more important things you can do and if he is a good guy these other things are the reason he stays. That one should not be why he shouldn't stay.

I have met great success with my g/f after a few short lessons. It's a matter of retraining...being patient with you...loving you...and no pressure you will be fine!

But wait, if he does leave or cheat because of that...good let him go he isn't worth it. Love and please someone more deserving. BIG UPs for all of your efforts.

Best wishes to you both.

Answer 4

I wouldn't worry about him cheating on you. It would take a lot more than not being pleased by oral for a man to cheat on a woman; like, not having any morals, or being a lying, no good jerk. If your husband is not like that, don't worry. There are other things you can do to satisfy him beside the traditional oral method you describe. Try incorporating hand techniques into your routine. My wife likes to lube me up, and then use both hands on my going up and down, while twisting her hands in opposite directions at the same time. It makes me go crazy. I love it. If you tease him with oral first, flicking your tongue and tickling his scrotum with your tongue, and then give him and amazing hand j*b, he would ask you to do it again and again. I know I do. Good luck.

Answer 5

all men are not the same but a good majority will cheat.They will even cheat have sex is the best in the world just to have there variety.hopefully hes not the cheating kind and he will help you satisfy him

Answer 6

my husband and i been married 7 years...he said when we got married i sucked at sucking...but now he sais its awesome...give it time...

i have had 2 durrations of pelvic rest(no sex) and wanted to please him in some way...so i made it a point to try something that i thought would blow his mind....do not fail to use hands as well, let yourself relax, i notice a big difference in his enjoyment, when i get into it...7 years ago i did not like it at all, had NO desire toi do it, now, when it get realy hot, oh man!...we will censor the rest....


good luck, relax, and give it time...

olmost everyone has good advice on ways to help(i think)

as for the cheating...that is always a thing for me too, i think if the sex is good, and you are making an effort(without trying too hard, it can make you aukward a clumsy)to learn what he like and always trying something new, or excersising things you already know he likes, then he would have no physical reason for him to try to justify cheating. if your mans not the cheatin kind i think your ok...good luck...it will get better...for both of you

Answer 7

depends on the individual man, its not fair to say yes all men would do that because some men will be ok with not receiving a good bj but if the actual sex is good then I don't think you have anything to worry about anyhow.

Answer 8

You should go out to an adult bookstore and practice on other men. It wouldn't be cheating because you are doing it to please him. By having a wide variety of different penises in your mouth, you will quickly develop the skills that are absolutely required to keep him from cheating.

Just learn to relax your throat muscles and good things will come. I suggest an adult bookstore with those little booths in the back as a good place to start learning.

Answer 9

If you two have a good emotional friendship besides your physical relationship, he shouldn't cheat. Some men have very high sex drives and that's scary if you don't equal his. However, if he cares enough about you, he won't think twice about hurting you.

Answer 10

like other neccesities in life sex is one of the most common of them . if a person he/she is not satisfy he/she will surely find a place else . there r many other ways of learning about sex . i mean many knowlegebale books.

Answer 11

Yes, but some will cheat anyway just for the lure of strange stuff.