How do I go about finding "Mr. Right"?

Question

I have been divorced about 3 years. I hope to find a man before I turn 44 in April.

Answer 1

You don't,let him find you.

Answer 2

the more you look the harder it will be to find him... go out and have fun... when men see women having a great time they become instantly attracted... you won't have to work at all... if you actively seek them out, they become harder to come across... i'm sorry about the divorce... taking up an active hobby may put you in the path of single men... like hiking... you could join a hiking club...
but you really need to take care of yourself first... i don't know where you are emotionally or physically, but be healthy... believe that you don't NEED a man to be happy, but that you just WANT a man becasue it'll more fun...
you've already experienced marriage and a divorce, why not enjoy being who you are right now? You are still young and have plenty of time to meet Mr. Right... instead of wasting energy and time looking for him, live a fruitful and productive life and wait for him to find you...
good luck!!!

Answer 3

When you go looking make sure you get rid of any Mr. Wrong
you may find in your search because when you hope or wish for something by a certain time, you might get what you don't want.

I would rather wait until eternity to find Mr. right no matter how long it takes.

You have to look and look and look until you find someone who is comparison to your qualities. If you want a wealthy man don't date a poor one, if you want a tall man don't date a short one, and it goes on and on.

Place emphasis on his morals and values and qualities of respect and kindness for others. If he has kids make sure he
is taking care of them and the list goes on and on.

Last but not least, if your looking for Mr. Right make sure your
Ms. Right. (Make sure your in correct order in your life also).

Answer 4

Well not that I'm an expert or anything but...I suggest a few things. Clubs are always fun places to meet people. Just talk to some guys and get to know them more. Have a get together where you invite your friends and tell them to invite some of their friends (guys) that you don't know. That's always a great way to be social and meet guys. But if all else fails, online dating services tend to be straight to the point and easy to follow (but sometimes sketchy!) Best of luck to you!

Answer 5

Keep yourself out in public as much as you can. Maybe try some happy hours after work. Go with your friends or some people from work or go by yourself and eat an appetizer at the bar. Sometimes you just have to wait. It might seem like its been forever and your tired of waiting but then you just have to have Patience and wait some more.

Answer 6

You dont find Mr. right, Mr. right will find you, Live your life and have a blast with your firends and when you least expect it you will have the man of your dreams, I wasnt looking and now I have the man of my dreams we been together 4 years

Answer 7

I have always found that Mr. Right will fall into your lap when you least expect it. That's what happened with me at least. It's ironic because even when you LOOK REAL HARD and find nothing and stop looking for a bit...he'll be right there.

Answer 8

Its kinda hard but you shouldn't be out looking for him, let him come to you. If you are that concerned though about finding that special person, then I suggesest that you do try something like an online dating service.

Hope it helps

Answer 9

First of all, lighten up on the time table--sticking to that will almost certainly lead you to hook up with Mr. Wrong.

You will meet Mr. Right in the kinds of places a Mr. Right hangs out. (Not too many Mr. Rights hang out in bars looking to meet Ms. Right.) Churches, charitable/non-profit organizations, community theater, city government, different activities like softball, skiing, cooking, karate, etc. Look to join singles groups and clubs or to take classes related to these different interests or to join volunteer groups and work teams. (What you do and where you go will differ depending on your idea of Mr. Right.)

The best way to meet Mr. Right is to meet a lot of Misters to sort through. That takes time and effort. Working or learning side-by-side is a good way to begin to get to know other people, but you also need to be friendly. Smile and introduce yourself often (and don't ignore the women around you). Work to remember the names of the different people you meet. Think of a few simple questions that you can ask most anyone to get the conversation flowing, and if you can't think of anything to say, be willing to say, "I feel so stupid, but I can't think of anything to say."

Another good way to meet good men is through good families. Does one of your friends have a brother or cousin you could meet? This has the plus of being able to meet in a group--you can meet informally at a family gathering--instead of on a blind date.

In order to attract Mr. Right, you will have to be Ms. Right. You need to work to develop in your life the kind of character and values that will attract the kind of man you think of when you think of Mr. Right. I'm not talking about being fake. I'm talking about making the effort to affect positive changes in your life. For example, if you want a man who is kind and considerate, you need to be kind and considerate, and so on.

Answer 10

I say don't look for Mr. Right. It was when I stopped looking that I found my Mr. Right. However, I do think eharmony is a good idea!

Answer 11

stop looking for Mr. Right, and l have fun with the Mr. Right now's.....eventually the now will just fall off the end....things come when you least expect them!

good luck!