Marriage & Divorce - 20 July 2006

My wife commented the othernight when I cooked a very nice dinner for her and I and then cleaned the kitchen that it turned her on. I told her that this wouldn't get me to do the cooking and cleaning all the time and she laughed and said it wasn't a hint, it was a true turn on to see a man take that initiative.

So ladies... is it hot or not for you?

2006-07-20 10:15:08 · 20 answers · asked by jim 2

it turns out she never signed the papers and she's still married to that guy, it's gonna cost us $2000 to finalize it, Should I help pay for it, or should it come out of her 401k?
;)

2006-07-20 10:13:08 · 16 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

We have 2 kids (very young) and I really want this to work. his announcement of his lack of feeling came as a shock although we have argued a fair bit recently. Am I making an idiot of myself waiting for him to love me again or should I do my utmost to win back his love?

2006-07-20 10:12:08 · 16 answers · asked by H 2

How did getting a divorce change you? Are you a better person now, or are you worse off, finacially and emotionally?

2006-07-20 10:12:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Fiance' and I had Ridiculous Sex the night I returned. The Next Morning, I Found a Prescription Bottle in the Medicine Cabinet with Her Name on It, It was a prescription to treat CHLYMIDIA...What Do I DO?????????????

2006-07-20 10:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

she wants a divorce she likes me but just can't be my wife she tells me
i am recently diagnosed sort of anyway as being bi polar ...i have lied and cheated trying to make myself better over the years .
Now i am getting therapy and medications I don't feel out of control anymore
However the last 15 years have destroyed her love for me and her trust in me ... must i just accept it as over or is tehre any way of getting her back ....i truly love her
she has sort of a boyfriend goin on ,,,,what do i do

2006-07-20 09:58:01 · 18 answers · asked by hooterwah00 1

There has been alot in the media lately about Christian Marriage sites that sell toys and other racy things for christian couples. (For example:http://www.floridatoday.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060626/LIFE02/607010306/1024/life02) Do you think great sex and Christian are oxymorons?

2006-07-20 09:54:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Over the past couple weeks I had been planning an outing with the H for our 10th year anniversary. I was to handle all details except the child care for which he was supposed to handle. He never got around to it and when the day came to celebrate he was upset because I never reminded him to make the arrangements for the child care and we ended up doing nothing. Am wrong for thinking that since a 10 anniversary year is a big deal for me it would be for him too? And that he would've made arrangements in a timely manner?

2006-07-20 09:53:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-20 09:48:50 · 6 answers · asked by Troy W 1

my wife says she's not going to play strip poker with me anymore. Do you think she's serious?

2006-07-20 09:48:40 · 25 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My husband and I have been married for 11 years. I love him very much, but he does not satisfy me any more. I am afraid that I will cheat on him and I don't want to hurt him. He cheated on me and it devistated me. HELP!!!

2006-07-20 09:38:04 · 12 answers · asked by greeneyes 2

I believe that my ex-husband is behind all this considering that I have put him in jail for domestic violence several times. I have had no contact with these people in over a year. She was not granted a emergency order against me. Do I need an attorney to represent me in this?

2006-07-20 09:37:46 · 18 answers · asked by JoJo 1

A booty is a Booty.

2006-07-20 09:33:22 · 13 answers · asked by RARE AIR 1

I've been married for more than 10 years and have cheated on her with about 30 different people. I'm addicted to it. I love my wife and have a decent sex life with her. I just like it on the side too.

2006-07-20 09:31:49 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-20 09:28:09 · 13 answers · asked by pinky05 1

do or how u would react.

2006-07-20 09:25:18 · 14 answers · asked by khalilah w 2

my parents have been married for almost 27 years and yesterday they had a huge arguement and are getting a divorce. i am 16 years old, and it really doesn't nother me because it has been going on for a while, but i have 2 younger brothers, both under 10 years of age, and i don't know what to tell them. how to explain to them what is going, and how to cope with it. any help or advice would be GREAT!!! thx

2006-07-20 09:15:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-20 08:48:40 · 15 answers · asked by sleepy j 1

I have recently realized that my husband has been verbally and emotionally abusing me for years and I am making plans to take the kids and get out, but it's taking longer than I want to go through the legalities, etc. and I can't tell him what's going on, obviously. He wants to talk tonight about how we feel things are going in the relationship and I don't want to. I don't know how to hide what I am feeling and doing. Don't know what to say to him. Do I pretend I am feeling that everything is fine?? Help!

2006-07-20 08:43:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband confessed to me that he had slept with another woman about 2 weeks ago when he was away on a business trip.

2006-07-20 08:43:25 · 22 answers · asked by mamiprincessa 1

2006-07-20 08:40:29 · 13 answers · asked by Puppylove 2

Not into the whole wedding fiasco scene. Looking to see if the Vegas wedding is a good choice.

2006-07-20 08:39:41 · 6 answers · asked by ceciliaarriaga 2

Is it some kind of a norm? or Is it because women do not have better sense of humour or they just take things too seriously in life?

Am a lil goofy and people think its strange for a girl to be like that ;).

2006-07-20 08:36:17 · 3 answers · asked by Someday 3

2006-07-20 08:33:36 · 20 answers · asked by Andy S 3

2006-07-20 08:32:18 · 8 answers · asked by Aura Girl 2

My husband seems to be a "good christian", he was raised holiness pentecostal and his parents even slept in seperate rooms. For the first year of our marriage I accepted everything he said as absolute truth. Then in March he was accused of buying alcohol for a minor and sexual harrasment at work against the same girl. He was fired and charges were pressed. He swore to me that he had done neither offence, but then after a lawyer contacted us about a video of him buying alcohol then he fessed up about that part but still denied the other. He is very good looking and I don't think I am enough, so I'm pretty insecure anyway. So a week ago he had gotten onto a few adultfriend finder sites and I asked him about it and he said it was nothing and he wouldn't do it again. I will say that I'm not totally innnocent for I have also chatted with men, but I always make it clear that nothing will come of it. So last night he had been chatting with a girl and looking at porn...

2006-07-20 08:29:46 · 16 answers · asked by colorist 6

I am consumed with guilt about this, but we've been working on things for a while, and I feel like I've hit a wall. I just don't want to anymore. I want out, but it's so tough. We have a two year old who I love and don't want to hurt.

2006-07-20 08:29:37 · 15 answers · asked by biffnow 1

are all men like that???

2006-07-20 08:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are military. We live in military housing. Our only bills are telephone , cable and car insurance which doesn't add up to $200 a month. We have a great military savings account,they've been taking $250 a months out of hubbys check for eight years. We haven't touched it so there is a pretty penny in that account is untouched Our savings account gets $500 a month, the checking is my problem. I spent $10,000 dollars in three months and the only thing I have to show for it is a sofa that only cost $700. Walmart loves me, I think I payed their employees salary for a month. I'm a compulsive shopper. My husband is no help, he thinks since I am such a good housekeeper and mom and take great care of him and the family I derserve it. I don't have an outside job. Maybe I need one to see how hard it is to make a dollar. Help?

2006-07-20 08:20:36 · 7 answers · asked by asoldierswife 7

I have been reading and talking to alot of people about getting a divorce and they all seemed shocked when I say that is what I want a divorce, and they say divorce is hard and you wont feel as free as you think you should be. Someone explain? What is so wrong with getting a divorce once you realize this marriage is not going to work.?

2006-07-20 08:19:32 · 10 answers · asked by dorleejohnson 2