How did getting a divorce change you? Are you a better person now, or are you worse off, finacially and emotionally?
2006-07-20 10:12:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a better person now...I took my divorce pretty hard, it was a slap in the face that woke me up... and now it has allowed me to re-evaluate the rest of my life and its direction...its been refreshing to focus some time and effort toward making oneself a better person...It just being me, financially I do well for myself.
2006-07-20 10:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this question is supposed to be for a ex-married couple but I'd like to put this at a different point of view. My parent's divorced like 3 years ago. We used to have a nice house, nice cars, and nice things. Now me and my mom live in an apartment and my dad has a new wife and new daughter. It's depressing sometimes but you just have to keep your head up and thank God every day for the things that you have already have. I feel that in a way I am a stronger person because I've learned alot from it.
2006-07-20 10:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realized women have no heart. They are ruthless carnivores in the court system. I am better off now because I dont get my heart broken like I used to. But financially I had years of hardship. She got everything and I got the bills. Cant understand that part. We divorced because she cheated and still the judge gave her everything.
2006-07-20 10:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one million. It taught me reign in my impulsive reactions and be slightly more suitable tolerant. I discovered even as my husband's chuffed it makes me happier than if I were given my own way (lots of the time). 2. i'm particular it has, yet don't recognize how a lot. I snigger more suitable and likewise waste more suitable time than I used to! 3. He looks to have lost some self-coverage, which does decision from conceited despotism. As he jogs my memory of my brother, I problem about him and wish he's conscious he has a large style of friends rooting for him.
2016-12-10 12:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has given me a new perspective on life. I appreciate my new partner even more. Never take advantage of what you have. You will be bitter for a long time about marriage but then you find somebody that you were meant to be with and all of those doubts will change completely
2006-07-20 10:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am better off in every way possible! My ex was a total loser, lied, cheated, used money on women and drugs then lied about it, never got bills paid on time--if at all, abused and used me, etc. Ever since I left and moved on, I have been sooooooooooooooooo much happier and have had much more money as I know how to get things paid--on time--save money, etc.
2006-07-20 10:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worse financially but better in every other way. I am no longer under the thumb of my ex wife, sleeping on the cough or having sex used as a weapon.
2006-07-20 10:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not divorced yet but almost. Im stronger. Dont trust men as easily. know now that Im free to go for what I want. wont ever marry again.
2006-07-20 11:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm emotionally stronger now. I realized that I didn't have to stay in a situation that was no good for me.
2006-07-20 11:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋