I have been with my bf for 2 years. Do you think he could be tired of sex?
2006-07-20 04:57:57 · 24 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He may continue with you only if you keep your sex life interesting enough for him... try something new and try giving him something new everytime...
2006-07-20 05:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by DrAgOn 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to answer your question with a question. Why do you think so?
Is he not as eager to be intimate as when you first met? Is he less affectionate all the time? Is he not coming home at night, (if you are living together)? So many unanswered questions...
I hope that men don't get tired of sex after 2 years with the same woman. I have noticed that things seem to have cooled down in my own relationship around that time. I didn't really feel the need for less activity, but it didn't seem to be the major priority for my hunny that it was when we first got together. I think it's a matter of becoming more comfortable with each other rather than (gasp) bored. The sense of urgency isn't there like when you first meet, and there is actually a chemical (hormonal) reaction that occurs in your body when love is new that only lasts about a year. The replacement hormones cause a different emotional response, one of security, contentment, and bonding, which ain't all that bad either if you think about it.
You want to spark it up a bit? Make certain that you haven't let things slide. Take charge of the romance a bit and arrange a date, even if it's in your home. There are lots of websites that address this very issue so you have many suggestions to choose from. Have fun, be fun...the rest will come naturally.
On the other hand, he could just be tired or stressed from something that just doesn't concern you at all...work, family, school... Can you talk about it?
Good luck.
2006-07-20 12:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by nighthawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think all guys are like this. If you two have a great sex life and a great relationship then you have nothing to worry about. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years going on 5 and he tells me that I am very adventurous in the bedroom. A man likes his woman to be open to new thngs and variety. I asked my boyfriend the same thing a few months ago and he said if a man is satisfied with you in the bedroom he won't go out looking for more. Some guys are dogs and some women are the same way even if they do have somebody that satisfies them at home, but a good man wouldn't have to do this. I personally think my boyfriend is the best lover I have ever had in the bedroom. I don't want to have sex with any other guys because I don't think they could make me feel the way he does. I am satisfied with him. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. True love should never get tired of having sex with the same partner. If it's good sex each and everytime, trust me this person will always want it no matter how many years go by.
2006-07-20 12:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many years have you been eating rice and yet when you are hungry, what do you want to eat? Rice, right? How could anyone be bored when there is variety as variety is the spice of life. Of course, if he is looking for fun only minus the responsibility, then it is a totally different story. So, sex is just like how you are preparing a meal. Don't prepare too much, don't eat the same dish everyday, don't eat when you don't want to eat. Btw, we are married for 20 years and still yearn for each other without fail. If you want to know more, email me at guoksim@gmail.com
2006-07-20 12:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by guok113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married to my wife for 32 years. I have not once been tempted to have sex with another woman and I have never wanted to have sex with another woman. Your term "sex" tells me you value the physical over the emotional. My wife and I do not "have sex" we make love. There is a huge difference between the two. People who have recreational sex are only participating in sophisticated masturbation. My wife and I were virgins when we got married and we have only been with each other. I have NEVER wanted someone new,
2006-07-20 12:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by JT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he could get tired of sex but a couple should change it up a bit once in a while. Make it fun and spontaneous.
2006-07-20 12:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Vira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its amazing how few people like to be honest. Few men (and a lot of women) want to have sex with one person all their life.
Theres no p like new p.
Men are afraid to tell women what they want.
We are all witnessing the feminization of contemporary society. Stop being afraid of women.
Alpha Male
2006-07-21 01:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Risingson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as u make it exciting and do not bore him. Just try new and fun things. Men are always interested in sex. Ask him what he wants
2006-07-20 12:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as long as you keep things interesting he should be just fine. Try some new positions, rent some videos, add some sex toys....anything to spice things up.
2006-07-20 12:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think MOST (maybe not all) guys eventually get sick of the effort involved with looking for sex.
Especially once they have been in a relationship for awhile and begin to get old and lazy.
Probably most cheating happens in un-planned circumstance.
2006-07-20 12:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by Skippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy tired of sex, as long as you keep it fun and try something different once in awhile he should keep coming, so to speak.
2006-07-20 12:00:12 · answer #11 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋