2006-07-20 05:04:55 · 30 answers · asked by m.girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!!! Not only are there risks involved, but emotions run hard and deep. You might not be able to forgive yourself for something you might not want to do, just to please him. Besides what could a prostitute do that you can't?? Sex is sex. Lovemaking is an art, with someone you truly care for.
2006-07-20 05:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by mamamickey1952 1 · 3⤊ 3⤋
The question is... is this something YOU are interested in doing, or are you just considering doing this for your husband??? If it's something you are interested in, then there's no problem (although I would suggest finding another source other than a prostitute!!! Maybe some "couples clubs" in your area...) If you're just considering it because it's something HE wants to do, it's not a good idea. You may end up resenting him for it and it will only cause problems. Morality aside, it can be a good way to "spice things up" if you are secure in your relationship with one another AND it's something you're interested in and/or curious about. Just make sure and think it thru. Also, be sure to talk about the logistics before you do anything... what are you comfortable with him doing and not doing to the other woman... Don't forget that if you do something like this, it's perfectly ok to ask for a man to join in at some point as well... fair's fair after all!!! :) Best of luck in your decision!
2006-07-20 05:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband want to have a threesome I wouldn't suggest hiring a prostitute! I'm sure you would use protection in every way possible but think about how many other people have been using this woman for their pleasures, to me that is sick. I would ask a friend if you have any friends that you are close enough to you that they might consider it! HAVE FUN!!!!
2006-07-20 05:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by ~Amanda~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to hire a prostitute for the experience...how many people has she been with?! But it could be a fun thing to try if you could find the right person to do it with....but...if you are really not comfortable with it, ask him about finding another man for the threesome instead, and see how he feels about that.
2006-07-20 05:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a good idea. If you are up to experimenting and feel comfortable its better to go to a bar and meet that person and get a feel if you are compatible. Why pay a prostitute?
If the couple here is comfortable with 3somes and maybe find swinging exciting there is nothing wrong with that.
Better maybe you can get lucky with a friend that's curious. :)
Good luck, keep safe.
2006-07-20 05:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by M . 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would throw my husband out with the bath water if he suggest such disrespectful acts out of me as his wife.
I would feel I am place on the same level as a prostitute for even considering I might be open to such.
Remember when you buy a dog don't be surprise if it brings you back fleas.
Hopefully, if you are open to such disrespect at least use a condom.
2006-07-20 05:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, im going to say this as nice as possible. NO!! why are you even thinking about it??? Do you realize (your husband already has issues) but this will bring on even more problems. do not fulfill his fanatasy unless you are fully confident in yourself and your marriage. But even at that, most of the times the outcome is divorce. I wouldn't do it girl, there are other things that can turn a man on that isn't necessary. it sounds like your husband is being selfish, sick and twisted.
2006-07-20 05:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by toni h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
noooo. a threesome is already questionable. think what it could do to your relationship. you don't want him all wanting other women do you? a prostitue is discusting. you are sleeping with all the people she has slept with and all the people they have slept with and so forth. you could end up getting ever disease in the book. don't do it. if you have to do it find someone you know who is up to it. i had a threesome with my girlfriend and now husband a couple times but not anymore. you are married. you shouldn't mess around in sh*t like that.
2006-07-20 05:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by kirkskitti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should only go ahead with it if it's something you want to do. I mean if your not comfortable with it you should do it otherwise you will resent your husband in the long run because you will feel pressured into it.
2006-07-20 05:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by instilleddistress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the fact that I think sex with anyone other than your spouse in wrong, and will lead to nothing but heart ache. Do you really think he wants to do this to share in a special experience with you? Probably something closer to a selfish indulgence of his fantasies.
2006-07-20 05:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by daisyk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋