2006-07-20 02:56:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's nothing wrong with that! So long as you are willing to take good care of them, it's fine. All the best!
2006-07-20 03:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by pn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My partner is a divorcee and a father of 2.
We are getting married next year.
The biggest thing about getting involved with a divorcee with children is
The children will always come first,which is obvious
The x will always be in you lives for as long as the children are here
You will never have a final say when it comes to the kids,any problems have to be sorted beween the x and your partner.
Aside from this
You have a ready made family and you can have some great laughs.
My partners kids are 17 and 14 ,we have a great relationship.
We go shopping together,we often take them out for meals and take them on holiday with us.
Enjoy your time with the kids and your partner but always remember,it will always be you,him,his x,and the kids in your lives
2006-07-20 03:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. Please do some step parent research - read some books on blended families. they are always more challenging than starting a marriage from scratch (with no kids).
Not only will you be marrying into your spouse's family, but you will also be dealing a LOT with the EX-spouse and their family. Take it slowly before committing to a marriage.
2006-07-20 03:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's correct. It's nobody's fault that the previous partner was a bad one and marriage didn't work. And a baby is a blessing, no matter if it's yours or not.
2006-07-20 03:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make sure your partner has their priorities straight..each knowing their place in the relationship. What is the others parent place going to be in the childs life? Don't let the ex interfere in your current marriage. Otherwise It will probably be great!!
2006-07-20 03:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the question is here. Are you asking if it
is OK to marry someone who already has children?
People do it all the time. Some adopt the children
if that is possible (i.e. the other parent is dead).
2006-07-20 03:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am dating a guy now who has two kids. His kids are really great and very well behaved. It's also nice because now you can see how he is as a father without having kids with him already yourself
2006-07-20 03:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with that? I did that and my step daughter and i have a great relationship. Why do you say correct? What's not correct about it? Stupid question.
2006-07-20 03:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were to fall in love with such a women and she had a child...I'd accept the child as my own...even if their real Dad is a good father...so would I be...love has no boundaries.
2006-07-20 03:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
according 2 the bible, it is never correct to marry after you have divorced, you must stay divorced until, your husband or wife has died, then u may marry again.
2006-07-20 03:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by dre 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋