Family - August 2007

my dad jsut died 2 weeks ago and all my mom duz is talk **** about him and when i cry she makes fun of me. my mom and sister gang up on me and fight me. yesturday my mom kicked me out so i was putting on some clothes and she took a steel bar from the vaccum and started beating me with it on my head. i tried to grab it and accidentally slapped her the nmy sister jumped in and held me down while my mother was punching me. i would never hit my mom EVER. i was jst trying to make her stop hitting me. Now i woke up this morning and my sister who looks JUST Like me withdrew me from all my college classes and transfered me to this Christian school all the way in the wodds of Alabama. they are sending me there on monday. i told my mom im not going and she sed well your sister also signed u up to meet with an army recruiter. i told her you cant force me to do either one b/c im 18 and she started hitting me in the head with a glass bottle, and that **** hurt! i mean my fingers was tingling and st

2007-08-24 10:48:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brothers are in foster homes, and I want to write them but don't know where they are or how. The case worker don't seem to be answering my messages.

2007-08-24 10:45:34 · 4 answers · asked by Tara Elaine 4

2007-08-24 10:42:50 · 22 answers · asked by notyochic 6

My father has had anger issues as long as i have known. Whenever something small happens, he will just go into a swearing fit, thenproceed to yell at my mother and myself. we tell him constantly that he has an anger problem, but it never stops him. i have asked my mom about a possible divorce but i don't know how much that would alleviate or complicate things for the future.

2007-08-24 10:38:31 · 14 answers · asked by >artifactsoftheblackrain< 6

2007-08-24 10:37:33 · 40 answers · asked by bet bet bet 3

I need help. ok so my mom wont let me go to projekt revolution cuz she thinks I'm too youngto go alone I'm 12 and a haf btw. I asked her to go with me but she HATES that sorta music. No1 else in my family wants to go so I'm in sorta a jam. How can I convince my mom to let me go?

2007-08-24 09:46:05 · 5 answers · asked by Lynn _ 1

ok so . My father's grandfather was born and raised in afghanistan. he then moved to Pakistan and met my Fathers grandmother. the two of them had MY grandfather in pakistan and then from there my dad was born..in pakistan . but technically my dad has afghan in him . so does that make me part afghan ? my mother is also pakistani . IM CONFUSEDD =\

2007-08-24 09:36:55 · 12 answers · asked by MariaQuadz 1

I am writing a book about parents, children, and other family. The stablilty of the family unit and like wise. can you truely talk to you parents? I personally Can't, whenever my parents know something about me they disapprove of they make fun of me, and never let it go. making it hard for me to be truely open with them. Theyre niether helpful or in ANYWAY encouraging. they may say they are, but they dont show it. So can you talk to your parents, why or why not?

2007-08-24 09:28:46 · 19 answers · asked by ahblazamayes001 2

Ok say the children were babies when their parents got divorced so they have allways known "2 homes". Plus both parents play a active/loving role rasing the kids and both parents get along with each other.Do the kids still wish thier parents were together?As they get older do they get jealous of thier freinds whos parents are married?

2007-08-24 09:26:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My in-laws are extremely wealthy, their 2 daughters chose not to be stay at home moms and work instead. All 3 of their children, including my husband, are career orientated. I on the other hand come from a family that puts family first, not money. As a child I always knew that I wanted to be a stay at home mom and would not change a thing NOW. However, as confident as I thought I was, they are starting to get at me. I can feel their resentment that I do not "bring home some bacon". I feel like they assume I am taking advantage of my situation which is, they helped us buy a house and my husband open his company. I appreciate all that they do for us but could also care less if I were living in a one bedroom apartment as long as I am the one raising my child. I have NEVER told them what I think but want to before I end up blowing up one day and using words I don't want to!! I would prefer to write a letter considering I am in Hawaii and they are in California. Thanks

2007-08-24 09:16:15 · 9 answers · asked by Aloha Dre 3

Ok well first I know that no one will know for sure if he will propose except for him. But I am just curious about the possibility of this happening. It seems as if everyone around me is getting married or proposed to. Now that is not the reason that I want to marry my boyfriend. I'm not or never have been the type to jump on the band wagon. But he is someone that I am willing to settle down with, have a family, and be completely faithful to for the rest of my days. We have become closer than ever over the past 4 1/2 months. Our communication boosted to about 100%. He has said things to me like "I have never been with someone in my life that I can share everything with, and tell all my emotions to"., and "I really see myself starting a family with you". We recently moved in together which was his idea, and he always tells me that one day we are getting married and that he wants me as his wife. But no freakin ring and he hasn't asked me yet :-( What is the deal?

2007-08-24 09:00:33 · 2 answers · asked by Applered24 3

ok well im going into 8th grade and there are these two different classes i could take. one of them is algerbra (which im REALLY good at. and the other one is called math 8) i really want to take algerbra but my mom wont let me. she is always screaming at me and i just cant stand it anymore. shes always mean to me and i dont know y. my mom and dad are divorsed and my life i REALLY REALLY hard on me. my mom wont even get me new school clothes. i have to wear the same stuff as last year. and she always thinks that i want to be like my friends but i dont. my sisters are constantly yelling at me and she doesnt even do anything about it. shes not a bad mom just a REALLY hard one to get along with. PLEASE answer it will help me a lot. thanx

2007-08-24 08:57:21 · 19 answers · asked by bxgfsbf 2

I am going to college in Septmeber and I will recieve extra loan money from what was leftover from other loans. My aunt, whom I am living with, would like to borrow a few hundred dollars to stock up on groceries for the family (including me). Should I ask her to pay it back? Some of it? It is my money but I am living with her and eating some of the food she'll buy... What should I do? I am having a hard time with this decision... Help!!

2007-08-24 08:55:53 · 5 answers · asked by Shelly 3

Recently my bf has been trying to convince me to move to Dallas because he says the commute he makes to and from work is stressing him out so much that he can't handle it. He works in downtown dallas and it takes him an hour and a half each way.
We just moved into a new house (we rent) a few months ago and I love the neighborhood and the house is affordable and overall awesome. We have a one year old that I take to an in home daycare that takes great care of her and treat her like she's family. I also work in Dallas, though not as far of a drive but I have no qualms with the commute.
I feel like I've put forth so much effort into finding a babysitter, a home, and a good job. i've done all of these things w/out his help. I feel like i've just gotten settled and now he wants to move just so he doesn't have to drive as far to work. all of our friends live in our town and it's cheaper than living in dallas.
should i stick to my guns and refuse to move for a 5th time in 3 years?

2007-08-24 08:38:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi i have a sister that is so ANNOYING AND STUPORN !!!! she takes my phones and never puts it back she makes a mess in my room she cares more of u boyfriend than her family shes on the phone 24\7 she takes stuff without asking and she waists all my minutes on my cell phone!!!! because she cant afford to buy her own minutes and at fact she FREAKIN 17 !!!!!!!!! WHAT DO I DO GUYS !!!!

2007-08-24 08:19:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not interested in my space or anything like that. I guess it would be more like a blog, but I don't like the idea of it being SO public. I'd like a space where I can keep track of doctor appointments, how I'm feeling and in general the process to even try and conceive. Any ideas of where I can record all of this and provide access to a select group of friends and family? Please advise. Thank you.

2007-08-24 08:06:48 · 2 answers · asked by anonymous 1

My daughter is very unhappy with me. She has just come to live with me after living with her Dad. She constantly compares me to her Dad who is more communicative and fun-loving.

She feels "stuck" with me and very caged in.

How can I alleviate this feelings. She is 15 and in her Junior year in high school. This year is critical for her.

2007-08-24 07:43:09 · 2 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

She's six years older than me, but all my life she's treated me meanly. When I was little she always used to taunt me for no reason, pick on me with her friends, never want to be around me ect. Compare that to my other sister who's ten years older than me and has always been the nicer one and the one I could confide in for anything. I actually feel like I love my sister more than I do her just because she's always been there. I don't actually have a hatred towards her, but I don't want to continue on the path I'm going down because it's not healthy to hate your own family. What can I do about this? And like I said, she's not the one I can just sit down and talk to, so I don't think she'd understand.

2007-08-24 07:40:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23 and I started going to a nice school outside my hometown that offered the program I was looking for. And I had to get an apartment because the school did not have dorms. I got a place to live and had a car to get to school. My first semester went very bad. I missed a lot due to bad female problems and I got bad grades. They got mad at me of course, but I got a new start and aced my next semester. Third semester arrived. I was doing really good.Then one day my car died. The engine had blown up because the oil pump broke and I didn't know it needed oil. My dad never tried to look at it when I asked him 2. My parents tried to make me come home and said that school was 2 much. I offered to help pay and get loans and they said no. Now they won't let me get a place and go to the school I want w/ my own $ and say that they need to watch me and want me home w/ them. I don't want to leave my boyfriend and go to a home that tortured me for all my young adult life. They're controlling me!

2007-08-24 07:37:37 · 8 answers · asked by michimama 2

my two boys(15 &13 ) just started back to school for the yr and for 2 days in a row now have run off school campus and away from authorities who try to detain them. They are both on juvi probation and do NOT seem to give a rats *** about getting into trouble.I feel I've done everything I can to make them see thier wrongs (and rights) but to no avail. I feel there is trouble coming my way because the "system" wont do anything to help. Not only do I feel like I have failed them but the judicial system has to, what solutions can you offer me so that I can help my boys see where thier lives are headed?

2007-08-24 07:29:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my step father do get along very well I would like to fix that.Because he always looking at me strang he nags me and I just plain don't like him very much. But I would like to help that just alittle bit please somebody help me :^(

2007-08-24 07:22:40 · 6 answers · asked by Korshie 1

i feel so depressed. i feel as if noone cares about me and everyone treats me like dirt. whenever family needs something i am there. but when i need noone is available. i am so tired of not getting attention from my own family. actually i am exhausted. time to change huh

2007-08-24 06:51:01 · 15 answers · asked by humble little lady 1

How do you tell your brother in law that his brother has just sent you a message telling you that you have to call and tell his brother that his 3 year old son is dead? how could i...can i...do that?

2007-08-24 06:35:08 · 3 answers · asked by datgirlsoclassy 1

I have wireless internet and just over the past few days I have had trouble watching videos off of YouTube. The videos don't stream or load fast and they often pause. Has anyone else been having this problem or know off a solution to the problem? Any help with be appreaciated.

2007-08-24 06:16:22 · 2 answers · asked by L 4

my MOM has full custody.
my DAD has visitation.

I grew up in Nashville. When my parents got divorced.my MOM moved to California.

Ive always tried to live with my dad, but my moms always told me i dont have a choice, i cant live with my dad.

My mom and i dont really get along, my dad and i are like bestfriends.

im 16 years old.
what do i do?? OR
What are the rules!?

2007-08-24 05:51:01 · 9 answers · asked by taylorbrinton14 1

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2007-08-24 05:43:58 · 7 answers · asked by babygirl23282003 1

when i was younger my mother tried to hurt herself and my mother to the extent of even attempting to kill all three of us (my sister,myself, and herself).she is mentally unstable and has taken a lot of my father's money. that is why i decided to live with my father. the problem with him is he has a temper and uses my brother and i for granted. he also is a slob, we have a dog and her cage hasn't been cleaned in a really long time, i can never clean it because he locks her up in the cellar. whenever my mom sends people to inspect the house my dad makes us clean day and night, even if i have a report due the next day. all he says it that i don't have to go to school and i can just turn it in late. he makes me eat unhealthy food and i can never exerscise because i always have to do work for him, the only free time i have is when i'm sleeping for my regular 4 hours or if i'm on the computer. right now i have to do some of his work. but he stepped outside so i was able to type this. help!?!

2007-08-24 05:33:11 · 2 answers · asked by czizzle 3

I am 21 and single My sibs r 13, 11, 3, and 7 months old. I also have a 17 yr old sis but i figure she can get imancpated. I cared for the 17,13 and 11 yr old for 4 yrs.

2007-08-24 05:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im afraid of having children that resent one another. I was actually a child that resented one of my siblings and I still do. I know my parents hated it but i just didn't want to have anything to do with her. At first I was mean to her but my parents wouldn't have that so I was punished. Then I ignored her all together and complained when I had to be around her. It made her absolutely miserable. Mom would try and take things away from me like TV, toys, and dessert. All I'd do is sit in the corner and play with my fingers for hours. I dunno why. I wouldn't play with her. Touch her. I wouldn't even eat around her. To this day I still won't associate with her. If I had to do it all over again I'd probably do it all over again. I'm afraid I'll somehow pass it down to my own children (when I have them). I could try and get them to like each other but that's what MY parents did before giving up and being miserable. All it did is make me dislike her even more. So what do I do?

2007-08-24 05:24:53 · 4 answers · asked by Skyy L 1

Back in Feb. I started planning a surprise party for my mother. I had relatives come in from out of town, rented a hall, order a cake, had it catered. arranged transporation. EVERYTHING.
My mother never said "Thank you", good job, I can't believe you did this.
I stressed myself out big time for her and I got nothing positive back.
Everyone else said I did a great job. Is it too much to ask for at least a small "thank you"

2007-08-24 05:17:49 · 17 answers · asked by Ohio Girl 1