what do u think about a 29 year old man still living with mom n dad rent free just because he can?

Question

NO i am not his mom!! he is a guy that i work with who is constantly brags about his $300.00 jeans n he is lives with his parents n doesnt pay nothing!! his father works here also n it is true he doesnt pay rent he doesnt pay anything!! i told his dad that it is really sick and that he is keeping his son from growing up!! he blames his wife!LOL

Answer 1

LOSER!!!!!

Answer 2

I don't know what I would do if I was with a person who was 29 years old and still lives with his parents. I have a friend who's 30 and who still lives with his parents. His girlfriend is having a hard time with him because he's too dependent on his parents. He can't survive without them even if he's already earning his own money. He just spends it on himself or on his girl, but in my opinion, he should've started saving years ago. By now he could've had a house, or maybe, since he lives with his parents, start chipping in on the bills, but nope. He's fully dependent on them.

So there goes my answer. That guy should've moved out eleven years ago and got himself a job so he can earn a living. If it was a woman, maybe it would be okay, but when you're a guy?! I don't think so..

Answer 3

Does he have a job???? Does his parents have money or are they in need of him helping them??? If he's a 29 year old employed man whom lives with his parents because they let him and are able to support him being there without paying rent then maybe he's just being smart and saving money...if he is a 29 year old loser not paying rent and his parents are barely able to pay their bills...then the only thing to describe him is loser!!!!

Answer 4

I am tempted to call him a loser as previous posters, but you really have to consider his situation.

Is he trying to save to buy a house?

Is rent expensive where he lives, and does he have a low paying job?

Is he unemployed?

If any of the 3, it makes sense to do what he's doing, so that he can be on his feet more stably, than trying to barely make it month to month.

also, consider his character. if he's always been a lazy freeloader, then yeah, he's a loser. But if he's usually wise and makes good choices, then he's not.

Answer 5

Well I think he should have some responsibility and at least offer to pay some rent. But the parents need to also make him either help out, or make him get out on his own.

Answer 6

In our culture (chinese) it's perfectly fine. Instead the parents would practically plead their children not to leave. My father lived with my grandparents even after he married my mum. We only moved after my grandparents passed away. But I guess the western culture is very different. Everyone wants to be independant and live on their own. Our culture teaches us that we should always take care of our parents in their old age, so I guess my answer would contradict with what you want to hear.

Answer 7

That don't mean jack- I moved out at 18 and still consider myself in many respects to be a 26 year old boy- we live in a world of ready to cook (or ready to eat) food, a world where you can throw money at just about anything to get it done- people that think they're 'adult' because they work and live in their own place that they keep tidy make me laugh almost as much as the ones that think procreating automatically makes them adult.

Answer 8

He is immature and needs to grow up. I'm 28 and couldn't fathom living with my parents

Answer 9

If you are his mom then you are the problem for not kicking him out and making him grow up.

If you are dating him or considering dating him DON'T. He is still a boy. You can do better.

Good luck!

Answer 10

HEY! I didn't know you knew Wesley!!!!
Oh. Wait. He's not 29...yet...but he plans on living with his mom and dad even AFTER he marries...assuming he can get some female stupid enough to agree to that....

Answer 11

I think it signals a lack of ambition. Kick him to the curb!