Family - July 2007

She just preached to me about the Gospel and stuff. And nagged me some more on my attitude. She's a 24/7 chatterbox, I say!

How would YOU feel if you were in my shoes???

2007-07-20 17:49:29 · 5 answers · asked by Ms Ghost 6

I really need some help. I need to know who I would contact about a 7 year old that is being "home schooled". Her parents are divorced and she says her older sister teaches her. (older sister is 9). This little girl does not even know her birthday.
Let me be clear that I have NO problems with kids that are home schooled. I just know these 2 little girls are not being taught.
Can you locate a number that I contact to report this? They live part of the time in KY (with their Dad) and part of the time in IN (with their Mom).

2007-07-20 17:48:10 · 7 answers · asked by 2rugrats 3

I have a VERY busy mind. I have business ideas all the time. I am also a writer. When I express any ideas to my mom she always tells me why they wouldn't work and practically forces me to do something else to get my mind off of it. I am a single mom and am busy raising my kids so I dont talk to many other people about plans and ideas I have. I am really down about this. I have had a passion to start a business since I can remember but my mom talks me out of every idea I have. I have a good idea right now that other people are telling me I should do but she doesn't think I should. She is already trying to sway me away from it. I almost feel like not telling her anything anymore. I feel I always run in circles if I keep telling her my ideas. On the other hand, she is my mom and we have always been very close. Any advice?

2007-07-20 17:37:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older sister is probably the most beautiful person i know. She has everything. she has boys/modeling/athletic body. In fact she's goin to NY in a couple of days for a cover shoot for vouge. I try so hard to be happy for her, but there's a part of me that wishes i was her. What do i do to get over this?

2007-07-20 17:31:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-20 17:07:59 · 51 answers · asked by kystik83 3

My mom just told me that my dad left everything to me when he died 3 months ago, & he has a house, money & a car left for me back in the Dominican Republic, but I don't want it. I don't want anything from him because he has hurt me too badly. Can I pass it on to my sister when she turns 18 next year or can I sell it or what? I don't want anything from him, & I don't want anything to do with him. He's a child-molesting, pathetic sicko who deserves to die! He molested me all the time when I was younger, & he took advantage of my mentally handicapped mom-that's why she had me when she was 14, & he was in his 20's. He was molesting teens until the day he died. I hope this dude is rotting in bloody hell!

Sorry if I offended any of you, but he put many mental scars on me, & he ruined my life.

2007-07-20 17:04:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not know what to do about my step-dad caming out of jail for what he did. I think that am readdy to let go of wat he did to me and my sister. should I tell him I for gave him but iIwill not for get what he did to me? so what I do?

2007-07-20 16:47:32 · 28 answers · asked by preppygurl 1

2007-07-20 16:30:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are raising his teenage daughter, well we thought she was his daughter. As she got older my husband knew deep down she wasn't his, now she looks exactly like his ex-best friend. When I saw a picture of his friend I knew immediatly he was her father. We recently found my husbands ex-friend got together with the low down mother and decided to say my husband was the father. This all happened when he was 19 so he didn't have enough sense to get a blood test he just assumed responsibility. her biological father is in jail and can't do anything for her anyway. I really want to confront him and her mother about what they did. I planned to write a long letter to the sperm donor to get everything off my chest, I really just want to let him to know what I think of him for what for what they did.I want to confront her mom also, but I don't wnt to hurt my step daughter while doing this because she doesn't know about any of this. Should I just leave it alone?

2007-07-20 16:29:00 · 8 answers · asked by Vanessa 1

originally wanted to plan a party for one of my sisters for a sweet 16(I am her legal guardian;her twin lives with my cousin). Listening to family, I decided to include my cousin on the planning . I did most of the legwork(deposits,buying decorations,keeping contact with dj photographer venue)and my cousin just got the table decorations done.She is upset that I invited my GRANDMOTHER to the birthday party, called me, and decided to pull out the party. Not only is she not coming up with the money she intended to pay , but party isnt for the other sister anymore. Can she be sued for her half of the expenses that I now have to pay to keep the party plans rolling?($700) The party is next weekend.She pulled out on the party today . I am aware I wont see the money for a while. We are also not on speaking terms.Oh, her reason for not liking my grandmother is due to family RUMORS that my grandmother didnt know about. Now I have to face telling her why we wont be seeing her other granddaughter

2007-07-20 15:53:04 · 5 answers · asked by ebbeysweets 2

I have a family member who is a liar and two-faced. I thought she was my friend and confidant, to find out that she goes behind my back twisting everything I say to make me seem like a bad person when those are her thoughts, she has spread lies and is just having too much fun causing drama.....I am truely tired of biting my tounge and turning the other cheek and looking like an idiot or as if I do have something to hide by not saying anything. I have tried to lay low, but I have had enough and I need tips on how to call her out on her lies and put her in her place tactfully, not sure that can even be done. I am no longer interested in conserving a friendship with her....any ideas?

2007-07-20 15:21:15 · 10 answers · asked by Jen 3

We've decided to move in together. My child is 2 1/2 years old. My boyfriend is not his biologicial father. His biological father is not and never will be in the picture. (I was widowed while pregnant with him) He feels that my boyfriend is his dad. I told my parents and they told me I am going to hell (I'm Catholic) & that God will punish my son for what I have chosen to do and that is what will disgrace our family. I need some input on how to deal with them. I don't want them to not be in our lives but they need to just accept I am an adult and that talking about the situation over and over isn't going to change anyone's opinion. They feel that my boyfriend not wanting to discuss it with them means he is scared of them and won't "man up" to what we've decided. We feel that they are my parents and as an adult he doesn't need to be grilled and insulted by them. I am their daughter so I feel that I am obligated to at least listen to them. He doesn't need to do that. Any input?

2007-07-20 15:00:34 · 21 answers · asked by Every_day_is_precious. 1

My lil brother wont stop sayin the n word. its so annying when he says it. he not black he hispanic and he 5 years old. i say but i know how and when to say it.he says let roll ni**as. it pisses me off and if says it in front of the wrong people when he get older hes ganna get beat up

2007-07-20 14:53:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an only child.I made sure to have 2 kids so they would have someone...

2007-07-20 14:32:42 · 19 answers · asked by snozzberries 4

my parents are both alcoholics
right now there both passed out.
they dont seem to understand they claim well were not doing anything wrong its not like we hit you when were drunk and were fine during the day but every signle night they get pissed drunk and pass out or can barely talk or walk i literally have to get there food and serve it to them because there so drunk they cant even eat it or talk without slurry so bad you cant understand.
ive dealt with this for to long and i cant handle it anymorei feel like im going to have a nervous breakdown or something.
what do i do?

2007-07-20 14:15:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-20 13:40:01 · 7 answers · asked by STORMY K 3

you and your life. Has caused you much heartache, depression, anxiety, and stress to the point of physical illness. Would you cut them out of your life? If they had physically and emotionally abusive to you your entire life, manipulative etc. would you be better off cutting ties and trying to get away, even though it's difficult. Or would that be wrong because they are your parent and the Bible says to Honour Thy Father and Thy Mother??? And what about the other parent? Are they just as much to blame for not protecting you as a child from this type of abuse? What would you do?

2007-07-20 12:38:46 · 7 answers · asked by cuteness 4

When you answer please tell me how old you are, the sex and ages of your siblings, and how often you see them.

2007-07-20 12:34:40 · 8 answers · asked by DeborahDel 6

my mums begining to drive me crazy! she lives with me and wont leave. i might tie hear to the bed and set the house on fire. wat do u think?

2007-07-20 12:25:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some real advice. I lived in Fl and the girl I lived with got pregnant (my child) my grandfather died so I came back home to Pa and managed to get a DUI. On top of that my girlfriend had lost the baby (probably becuase she didn't stop smoking or drinking). Now i'm up in Pa staying with my dad my step mom and my brother and sisters. They have a big house so me and my dog are sleeping in the basement. Nothing down there but it's a nice room has its own hot tub down there. Thing is my step mom hates me. My dad and step mom always go at it when I stay here. I can't drive my car anywhere for nearly 2 years now becuase of this DUI so I plan on selling it. My ex doesn't want me to come back to Fl. So my question is how can I resolve this family problem and see if I can stay in the basement you know pay rent so that I can sell my car and get a place of my own up here and find a job. I am sick of my step mother hating me and want to be around my brother and sisters and be with family.

2007-07-20 11:13:55 · 3 answers · asked by Robi A 1

My poor boyfriend has to put up with my "evil" mother and it's driving me nuts. His family loves me and treats me awesome, hello hugs and goodbye hugs, while my mom will not even acknowledge his presence when we're at her house. I finally confronted her, she apologized, saying she was wrong. But.... why are mother's like this?

My boyfriend makes nearly $60k for his job that he learned while serving in the US Marine Corps and he takes great care of me. But, it's not enough. She doesn't like it that I'm on my own (I'll be 23 next month) and don't rely on her anymore. I just don't get some parents.

2007-07-20 11:02:34 · 11 answers · asked by gratitude monster 2

One thing!! DO NOT SAY THAT I AM CRAZY!!! ok. My sister is 13 and I am 18 and she is always telling me she is psychic and I never believed her until she told me not to let my friend Jennifer borrow my game because she is going to lose it and I told my sister to leave me alone. I let Jennifer borrow it and she lost it at her aunt's house. (crazy) whoo! thats not all. My sister told my mom not to mess with some guy because he was going to try to sell her some drugs and we started laughing at her. My mom went on a date with him and he had weed that he tried to sell to her. She turned it down. My sister was right again? What is up? Is my sister psychic?

2007-07-20 10:56:32 · 12 answers · asked by Vanessa 1

2007-07-20 10:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by tokimo t 2

or do i just go with it and do it........

my mom says that before i move out i have to take care of all my belongings even the stuff that i plan on leaving behind.....

my brothers that have moved out didn't have to do that....they just uped and left and left things all a mess and all over and she sorted them out....why do i have to make sure all my stuff is all in order and sorted out

2007-07-20 10:06:06 · 30 answers · asked by Poosocks 6

with my father for 6 years. She fell pregnant, and gave birth to a baby boy (my brother whom I have also just found out about, and we have met and are getting on great). Sadly her family made my mother put her baby up for adoption, and only now has he found her again. My mother got back together with my father and 2 years later fell pregnant with me. Unfortunately my father decided he didnt want the responsibility and they split up. Because of the problems with my brother she didnt want anyone taking me from her so registered the father as unknown on when she registered my birth. When I was 5 years old she met and eventually married the father I grew up with. She tells me that he never legally adopted me but declared himself as been my father and the birth certificate was then re-issued with his name next to the father. Is this possible without having to provide medical evidence. It would have been in the late 60's or early 70's.

2007-07-20 09:45:23 · 11 answers · asked by DANN EYE 1

I don't have lots of money, but want to give them something they will like/use.

2007-07-20 09:31:15 · 13 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

ok so i'm 16, i'm gonna turn 17 in like a month, there's this 19yr old girl who lives right across the street from me and we both kind of like eachother, so i've been thinking about dating her.

However my mom doesn't want me to, she says that shes too old for me. But here's the thing, my mom divorced a few years ago and she remarried to a guy whos 12 years older than her(shes 43, the guy is 55), that doesn't make any sense to me it seems like she is just being a hypocrite. So what should i do?

2007-07-20 09:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by stlouisramfan2003 3

I live with her in her apartment, my husband passed away. We get along, God couldn't have given me a better daughter. She's graduated in Biology, has a job and still studies. But though she's a wonderful girl, at 23 she's still a bit naive, in certain points she acts like a teen. She frequently comes late, get little sleep, I get really scared. She works hard and studies, needs sleep, rest, she can't party as much as she likes or hang out so much with her friends.
She's good to me, loves me, respects. Suppose tomorrow I tell her, "hun, today you're grounded, you'll stay home"? Does she have to obey me? After all I'm still her mom, want her best, love her searly and I'm more experienced. She's still my lovely and a bit immature girl. You see, a sweetheart, a bit naive, somewhat innocent, a brilliant professional with a good job - a dangerous mix, isnt it? As a mom, I have to protect her.

2007-07-20 09:27:45 · 77 answers · asked by Melissa 1

2007-07-20 09:16:36 · 21 answers · asked by happy_girl 2

i wash her clothes etc she earns 4 hundred a month but her dad says she can keep it she spends her time around b/f s but only sleeps here

2007-07-20 08:40:47 · 65 answers · asked by astra 5