I think i have a jealousy problem?

Question

My older sister is probably the most beautiful person i know. She has everything. she has boys/modeling/athletic body. In fact she's goin to NY in a couple of days for a cover shoot for vouge. I try so hard to be happy for her, but there's a part of me that wishes i was her. What do i do to get over this?

Answer 1

this is actually very normal.

find your own interests, things you do well at, and you'll find yourself no longer envying her.

She may even start wishing she was you!

Answer 2

Hello Dear,
Life is a puzzle , we are all part of the puzzle. Each one of us only has one spot where we fit in perfectly. When you were born, you were given a specific mission, only you could accomplish. The Most High gave you a key to open the door of your life. You have the key in your hand , the door is right in front of you, all you have to do is to pause and ask the Most High to guide you to the door. Once you open that door , you will see what your mission on earth is. Trust me , once you find why you are here, you will feel complete. Envy , jealousy will end up hating you , because they would not be part of your life. Remember we are all here to serve each other. We all have a different mission. no two pieces of the puzzle could fit on the same spot. It would not feel or look right. Love your sister for who she is , not what she is or has. Be her sister. Before you go to sleep talk to the Creator of this Universe ask him, " what is my role on earth? show me the way to the door of my life, so that I could find my mission.

I hope this help. You have the answers to all your questions. Ask loudly and you will hear , see or dream of the answer. All you have to do is to pay attention.


Ginette

Answer 3

No, no longer particularly! while i became youthful I did, yet that became consequently of what I discovered from others. As I grew older, I stated the heck with all that and why be jealous for the main section? If a guy is flirting with my female, it particularly is a compliment, if he needs a dance along with her, i might tell her to pass forward. i'm Taurus, won't be able to undergo in innovations my growing to be, solar and moon to any extent further, yet i will parent it out sometime and assist you to comprehend. i do no longer difficulty putting any faith interior the effect of the planets on me, I make my own judgements and pass my own strategies. even in spite of the undeniable fact that i'm a Christian, often times I even pass off of what God desires to have a sprint version and notice what issues are like. often times, I merely be conscious others. i think of i'm gemini growing to be in spite of the undeniable fact that, no longer undemanding to undergo in innovations.

Answer 4

i have that problem to, my sister is the best at every single sport in the world, and has great looks and gets all the guys

1. find the things that are good about you
ex. i know i am a very likeable person

2. tell someone about it it make you feel better

3. don't try to be her, it just make it worse. Be who you really are. not a poser

Answer 5

well i have a jealousy problem too, but with my boyfriend. i get really jealous when he's with his friends and he's havin a good time with them. i dont have any friends at all that i can hang out with it or talk to or anything like that. but the only thing i can do is just deal with it. maybe u could tell her how u feel and maybe she could involve ya some in it. but all i do with my jealousy is deal with it, there is nothing i can do about it.

Answer 6

When you love someone then you are happy for their successes. Your life will be different than hers most likely but it doesnt mean you wont succeed in something. Someday she will be proud of you for your successes and I know you wont want her to be jealous of you. Jealousy is a horrible feeling not a good one.

Answer 7

Look at your good aspects. She could be jealous of you in some way!

Or seek counseling. Esteem issues could start with someone around you, like your sister.

Answer 8

Change your mind, make her your idol, so you do everything to be like her, then no longer are you jelaous, you are now just looking up to her....


Curiosity may have killed the cat, but there Canadian Idol now, shes your, she may not be on the show, but shes allowed to be yours.

Answer 9

This is what some one has sent to me:Well I just got through praying and not to long after the word JEALOUSY came to my mind . So I want to talk about it while I'm in my zone. First of all let me define it. Jealous means when it comes to mankind to feel resentment against someone because of that person's success or advantages or feelings inclined to suspicions of unfaithfulness or etc... God's jealous basically means intolerant of unfaithfulness.

How many times have we inwardly became jealous because something good happened for someone we know or don't know. I've learned that men and women can be jealous. Jealousy comes from fear and it also comes from insecurity. Ladies, have you ever seen a beautiful woman come in the room that you don't know and you don't see her flaws at all and you hear yourself or someone say "look at her, she think she all that", or "she stuck up". How can you say that about a person when you don't even know them. Jealousy, because somewhere you've compared her looks to yours due to your low self-esteem and felt the need to create a flaw in her to put her on your level.

What about people who do evil things to their closest friend and family due to jealousy and insecurity. Females and males will sleep with their closest friends man or woman because they had something they deeply longed for, and instead of finding someone for themselves or appreciating what they have, they'll sleep with their friends woman or man to put their "so called "friend" in the misery they are in. Jealousy will make a man stalk his woman . Jealousy and insecurity will make a woman look through her man's wallet or phone while he's gone or asleep in a fear that she's been replaced. Jealousy will make you kill someone. Jealousy will keep you from being happy for someone when they get that new car or house. Jealousy will make you hate on your own family. It'll make you stab your supposed to be friend in the back. Jealousy, envy and covetousness are all similar. Jealousy is when you are painfully desirous of another's advantages or you have a fear of being replaced in a relationship . Covet is to long jealously for what someone has and envy is a longing to possess something awarded to or achieved by another.

The bible says in Prov 14:30 that a heart of peace gives life to the body but envy rots the bones. When your bones rot that means they start to decay, go bad and perish. Well that's what happens when you envy. It eats up your kindness and compassion. The message is take your eyes off of what God is doing for others and see the overwhelming goodness he has shown and is showing to you. I definately know that there are moments when God's goodness is difficult to see, especially in times of sorrow, tradegy, loss, disappointment, betrayal and delays of God not moving when we want him to can really blind us to his tender mercies. But we must know that God loves us and he gives his love to us on a daily basis whether we receive his love or not. So choose to focus your attention on appreciating the goodness of God and that bone-rotting envy will be replaced with love and peace and patience.
,Shei Atkins

Answer 10

find what you do best, and do it.

i bet you are a beautiful one too, but don't try to go the same path as your sis.

what are you good at that you like to do, you do that, show the world what you are good at.