I need some real advice. I lived in Fl and the girl I lived with got pregnant (my child) my grandfather died so I came back home to Pa and managed to get a DUI. On top of that my girlfriend had lost the baby (probably becuase she didn't stop smoking or drinking). Now i'm up in Pa staying with my dad my step mom and my brother and sisters. They have a big house so me and my dog are sleeping in the basement. Nothing down there but it's a nice room has its own hot tub down there. Thing is my step mom hates me. My dad and step mom always go at it when I stay here. I can't drive my car anywhere for nearly 2 years now becuase of this DUI so I plan on selling it. My ex doesn't want me to come back to Fl. So my question is how can I resolve this family problem and see if I can stay in the basement you know pay rent so that I can sell my car and get a place of my own up here and find a job. I am sick of my step mother hating me and want to be around my brother and sisters and be with family.
2007-07-20 11:13:55 · 3 answers · asked by Robi A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to start with your Dad, sit him down and ask him HONESTL:Y what it is about you that your step-mother hates so much, then talk to her about it, ask her for HONEST answers and be ready for them, the answers may hurt.
If there are things you can change, then change them, if not, do the best you can to avoid those issues when she is around.
If there are other siblings around, and you are unemployed, living off them, with your dog, after a DUI, and eating their food, I bet I can guess one reason she is a little irate.
And for G** sake, lay off the booze.
2007-07-20 11:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear RobiA,
These is my advice, If your ex doesn't want ya back then that's old news. Start fresh,set some goals for yourself, and begin taking charge of your life. First, do what it takes get license
back. I wouldn't sell the car keep the car so you can move out of your living situation and get a good job. That way you depend on
nobody but yourself.
2007-07-20 11:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by nicholotteparker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sell your car you can get a hardship permit to drive for work purposes. then talk to your dad and try to come up with someway you can stay with them to save up the money to get your own place. good luck
2007-07-20 12:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by brianswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋