My mom just told me that my dad left everything to me when he died 3 months ago, & he has a house, money & a car left for me back in the Dominican Republic, but I don't want it. I don't want anything from him because he has hurt me too badly. Can I pass it on to my sister when she turns 18 next year or can I sell it or what? I don't want anything from him, & I don't want anything to do with him. He's a child-molesting, pathetic sicko who deserves to die! He molested me all the time when I was younger, & he took advantage of my mentally handicapped mom-that's why she had me when she was 14, & he was in his 20's. He was molesting teens until the day he died. I hope this dude is rotting in bloody hell!
Sorry if I offended any of you, but he put many mental scars on me, & he ruined my life.
2007-07-20 17:04:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Of course he hurt you, and you will have to live with this for the rest of your life. But now you are his heir, this is the way God planned it. If you decide to sell everything donate the funds, maybe to help homeless children, or the abused. Maybe even set up a foundation in that country. Let it go and move on with life. God bless you.
2007-07-20 17:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Pia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it was left to you, you can do anything with it. You can sell everything and put the money away so your mom can be looked after if anything happened to you or your sister, or you can donate the proceeds from the sale of the items to a women's center or a center for abused children, or donate the money for children orphaned by aids...there's alot of options and alot of hurt women and children who could use the funding. Take your time and think and pray about it. I'm sure you'll make the right decision. Stay strong!!!!
2007-07-21 00:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by tweenki48 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, I am so sorry that happened to you. You know it doesn't hurt to take the things from him; it is the very least he can do for you. You can sell what you want and use the money for what you need. Don't feel bad about taking his money, he owes you a lot. You certainly can share any money or proceeds from sales with your sister. Or maybe you and your sister can take a trip when she turns 18.
Good luck in dealing with this situation.
2007-07-21 02:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could have a more articulated reaction, but i'm very very sorry, and no offense is taken (and really you shouldn't worry, after all you've gone through). under those circumstances i can understand why his belongings hold little value, however, consider the idea of giving it to your sister, or maybe hold on to the stuff just a bit longer. if it is something you have no doubt will come back to haunt you, i'd say get rid of it, seeing as it is obvious that those things could harbor terrible memories. but if there is absolutely any doubt, i would keep it. Think of it less like accepting charity from him, and more like "using" everything he was worth (which from his description, he doesn't seem worth a lot). good luck with that decision, and i hope i may have helped
2007-07-21 00:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
legally the money, house, and car are yours. You can do whatever you want with them. You can give them to your sister right now. (Not so much the house) but the car and money you can give to her. You can do anything you want with it. You can sell it, you can burn it! although I wouldn't recommend sitting the house on fire or car OR the MONEY!
You could donate the money that he left you to an organization that goes after People who moleste kids, or takes advantage of them in the way he did.
So the property is yours to do with as you please!
2007-07-21 00:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by harmycj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really dont want his belongings then by all means sell or give them away if the memories are that painful then just get rid of them. im so sorry that, that happened 2 u i mean a father supposed 2 be some1 that u can trust and FYI i doubt u offended any1. but i admire ur courage to tell such pain on yahoo brava and kudos 2 u!
2007-07-21 00:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire an attorney over there and sell everything. Pay them their fees and give the rest to a charity.
Or just ignore the whole thing.
2007-07-21 01:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by El Moco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above and maybe you can yuse some of the money to start a program for abused children
2007-07-21 00:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by ca803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should split it with your sister and sell everything,that way you have nothing to do him with all the other stuff,and you will make money off his porfits.
Im sorry to hear that.
2007-07-21 00:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by *Pink*Girl* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is too young to handle a windfall, so I would accept the money and then put it in the bank for her and help her use it wisely, for college or a down payment on a house when she is older.
2007-07-21 00:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by John M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋