Family - July 2007

So I had a sleepover with one of my best freinds and she said she had a weird dream she got a phone call that I was mising and then the person on the phone said I wasnt mising but a guy named Alexander. Thats my Dads name and she doesnt even know that. And my dad (alexander) has been threatning tp leave us (my sisters,my mom and I) But what makes it also weird is that my middle name is Alexandra.

What Does that mean?

Dose it predict that my dads going to leave us or Am I going to run away in the near future?

2007-07-22 13:02:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son has turned 16. He has taken driver's ed, but here they require 6 months of driving on an instruction permit before he gets his license. That won't happen until December. It now looks like he has just been hired for his first job. It is kind of down the street but probably a good 1.5 miles if he needed to walk it. I work on the other side of town - so it becomes difficult for me to take him with any consistency. What resources have you used to fill this transportation gap?

2007-07-22 11:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by Ms. Gump 3

ok beenwith this boy for some time about a year now ilove i do we been to the bottom togrther we was even living together about to start a family and all that there was time i want to leave him but he alwayz kept me close with to him now we broke upbecause of family his family has his head all crazy they have himtlaking some crazy thing he told me to move on and that he no more see us in a realtionship but i no that not him talking it has family he is livining with a sister that don't like me soi no she is telling him things about me my heart is telling me we could work it out he even told me he not himself right now what sould ido?

2007-07-22 10:53:11 · 1 answers · asked by ikeem 2

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2007-07-22 10:51:53 · 2 answers · asked by ALANIS_MORISSETTE_FREAK 1

i'm from Canada, how about you?

2007-07-22 10:15:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 20yrs old and I live with my parents. I go to college. I was never a rebel girl. I've never been to a club, I've never come home drunk, smoked, or done drugs, and the latest I've come home is 12am and i was out with my boyfriend. I am happy living with my parents they are great. I am where I am because of them and i thank them...but my dad is extremely overprotective... i did not have a normal childhood because of this. yesterday i tried to take my cosuin to my grandmother's house at 9pm and my dad said that it was too late and too dangerous for me (its my own car) and he said he was going with me. I got tired of all that and i respectfully said "im going to take my cousin to the house ok, i'll be back in 10 mins" and he said "do whatever the f*uck you want!" ... things like this happen all the time. Im getting tired and I dont want to get married to escape this, its not right. he doesnt listen to anything, what should i do? i dont have money! this is too much. or is he right?

2007-07-22 08:56:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a college age step-daughter who lives in another state. She has always been very close to her father and me and visited frequently ( at our expense - not hers.) This last year she has visited only once, never calls, or returns our phone calls. Her excuse when we do get through to her is that she is busy. I do know it is perfectly normal for teenagers to go through a period of trying to separate from their parents and establish their own lives. However, I have raised my own college aged children and never had this problem with them. We send her a substantial amount of extra money each month to help with her expenses - even though her child support has ended. I don't mind doing this but my husband is leaning toward stopping these payments. Her behavior has made him feel like he is being treated like a "paycheck" rather than a dad. If you have ever been in a similar situation, how did you handle it?

2007-07-22 07:04:07 · 9 answers · asked by arkiemom 6

2007-07-22 06:58:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-22 06:48:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

college is the most important thing to her she has always wanted to teach. her grandma thinks her boyfriend is living with her but he is not. he has his own place and job and is going to college. he is a great guy! grandma and mom want her to live the college life. my daughter does not. my daughter and grandma haven't spoken for a month. she feels they are trying to live her life. she is very depressed. this is spliting our family apart. i don't know what to do.

2007-07-22 06:47:26 · 5 answers · asked by poor dad 1

2007-07-22 06:47:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If the polices come and find out a single father leaves his children home who are 12 and 10, what happen to him next? Put him in jail or what is his penalty? In CA.

2007-07-22 06:35:06 · 9 answers · asked by LL 1

My husband and me have been married 14 years and we have came close to divorcing 3 times. I never caught him with another woman his name is Scott Hall and works at TRF. He seem very distant to me.

2007-07-22 05:27:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My whole life my dad has been nasty, cruel, and abusive. Last year my dad, step mom, brother and I went on vacation. My dads got a screw loose, and made us go home really early. I was at his house (which is 82 miles from mine and my moms house) and he put a gun to our heads. I was scared to death, but my step mom, had a plan, and got us out. We jumped i nthe car, and went to her moms house. Then we called my g-ma, because my mom has no car, and told my g-ma what happened. She came to get me,and everyone got in her car. We all went to the police but they said it was in a different jericdiction and there was nothing they could do. So then everyone got back in my g-mas car and went back to the city my ddad lives in. When we told the police what happened they went to his house. At first his car was gone, and he didn't answer the door. So the police left and came back. For the second time they knocked, and he answered. He had his hat on and a beer in his hand and said he had been sleeping.

2007-07-22 04:36:17 · 16 answers · asked by young and broken 2

ok. long/short story! im 14 and i have a little sis, who is 4. shes REALLY annoying!!! she keeps asking me all these stupid questions like," y cant we have another dog? y cant we get 2 houses?" im like "because... we cant! so stop bugging me!" i tell my mom but she smiles and says that my mary (my sis) is only playing with me! so i keep telling mary 2 stop it and she doesnt! she says she wants a good answer! not "because... we cant!" help me! what should i say???!!

2007-07-22 04:17:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

we'll be getting married in 2weeks time.but the way he's treating me is as if i've been out and about .he's also 14 yrs older than me.tell me if i am making amistake

2007-07-22 04:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by sai w 1

2007-07-22 04:01:39 · 5 answers · asked by Melisa G 1

My husband & I have a 1 year old daugther and we are quite happy with our family being just the 3 of us, however my husband thinks that our 1 year old will miss out later in life when she is grown up if she doesn't have any siblings. I disagree as so many people I know have relationship problems with their brothers/sisters (mainly jealousy) that I think she will be much better on her own, we can afford to give her a better start later in life, we can devote more time to just her etc. I am an only child and feel that my "special" friends that I have made in my life are closer to me and more likely to be there for me in life than his brother and sister are.

I would love to know if you have brothers or sisters and whether you get on with them or not to help me try and decide.

2007-07-22 01:47:55 · 41 answers · asked by Debs 3

i woke up today morning, and my dad asked me for black construction paper, i was half asleep but i got up and showed him all the paper i had. he got mad and said he wanted hard paper, not the soft junk. i insisted that i didn't have any- i used to but i was dead sure it was over. he insisted i open my art drawer and look i did, with him standing over me. didn't find any. he called me a liar and said i was hiding it and didn't trust me. so he went through my room opening all the cupboards and drawers- which included some of my personal stuff (like tampons, etc) i kept asking him to stop but he wouldn't.
later when i told him i didn't like the fact that he went through my things, i said there were some boundries i'd like to keep. (before we had this fight about no locking doors in the house) so i said that since i had stopped locking my door, i would really appreciate that he respect me and my space. he told me it was his hosue and he had his rules and he could do ... cont.

2007-07-21 20:35:48 · 15 answers · asked by XelchC 2

im deployed to japan just got here two weeks ago. my wife is back home with our six kids, my god daughter ( three months pregnant) and her boyfriend. i may fight in wars and defend our country, but my wife has a much harder job then i do keeping all those kids in line. my buddy who is also the god father to most of my kids steps in and shows is god father duties every time i am deployed. i love him to death for that. today i called home to talk to the family. it was nice to hear every ones voice. made me feel so good as i was on the phone my kids one by one got on to talk to me. four out of the six asked me if derek (my buddy their god father) could stay the night. i didn't know what to say. a part of me just froze. like i said im glad he is there but it kind of felt like i was pushed aside when they asked if he could stay. i dont like feeling like this. i dont know if its the fact that he is around my family so much. im happy and sad at the same time.

2007-07-21 18:58:47 · 10 answers · asked by adrik c 3

Assume this person is kind, a great friend and everyone loves her.

2007-07-21 17:49:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever been spanked by anyone besides your mom or dad, like a grandma or grandpa, aunt or uncle, babysitter, nanny, whoever?

2007-07-21 16:26:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in California and my mother and father are moving to Hawaii tomorrow. I will be moving there in about 3 months with them. I was off work all week and wanted to hang out with them and they said they were very busy with the move. I hung out at there house on Wednesday and called them Thursday and no one returned my calls, I called them friday and no one returned my calls and my mother called me this morning at 7:30 and asked what i was doing today and I told her I was free all day and she said great I will call you right back.. well 4 hours went by and no phone call from her.. i called her .. no answer. I got a call from a friend who needed me to babysit for 2 hours tonight an emergency and I said yes. I got a call from my mom(6:45) to come over and i told her i was babysitting and she got very upset and was like u knew we were leaving tomorrow. Then she said you just dont care. thanks a lot. I told her maybe i can come after.. Do you think she was wrong in what she did to me???

2007-07-21 16:20:55 · 14 answers · asked by Lindsay B 1

So my little brother is 12 and when he's around my parents or grandparents, or anyone that he wouldn't be immature in front of then he's standable. but when we're alone or with his friends he has a tendancy to call everyone stupid and retarded and ugly and he doesn't realize how much he is hurting others. this is just a mere reminder to you all that everyone has feelings and what you might say to someone else could do more harm then you expect

2007-07-21 15:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by shortmellophonegeek 2

Something really wrong you could never expect she'd do and let the family down. Lies, jealousy. You feel like crap as a parent. I know she's a good kid, something went wrong. What to do now? I must find a way to deal with this so that the girl fixes her mistake and we all get over this and everything is as before. When I was a teen something similar happened with the children of a couple friend of my parents. They gave him a harsh punishment. It worked but almost destroyed the boy emotionally. He never got over. Today, 25 years later, he's a great guy, great father, but hardly talks with his parents. A broken family. This would make me and my wife devastated.

2007-07-21 15:36:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin's name is Andrew (Andy) and he's 15. I'm Lauren and I'm 13. I really don't know how to greet him and I really missed him. (No I don't want to date him, gross!) I want to seem outgoing, funny, nice and athletic. How do I make myself more interesting when I greet him? Remember I want it to be exicting too!

Thank you so much for your time!
Please answer with the most advice you have.
Thanks!

2007-07-21 15:28:26 · 9 answers · asked by Lauren B 1

2007-07-21 15:26:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i get really angry sometimes and today i hurt my mom she was yelling at me and then i hit her in the face then i pushed her on floor im a idiot don't know how to talk to her now im scared of talking to her now im 15 she probably hates me

2007-07-21 15:13:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-21 15:10:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you call them niece and nephew?
or second cousins?

2007-07-21 15:02:27 · 22 answers · asked by andia 2