Family - July 2007

My wife and I are in the process of purchasing our own apartment... and to save money, we are planning to move in with her family until the apartment is built, which is not until July 2008. We are currently renting atm... So, one year I would have to stay with her family. Not sure how our living arrangment gonna be like, prolly like two rooms... one is her old bedroom and the other is the guest room, if lucky. but we have a lot of junk... i mean a lot... so i would have to get rid off a lot of them... every thing from dvds, to electronics, such as tvs, computer, etc... so, it's not that I don't like her family... they are great... but, not sure, if it is gonna be worth the cost of our privacy and doing what ever we want at what ever time.... you know? any good advices?

2007-07-21 03:25:02 · 5 answers · asked by Lover 2

WHAT DO I DO? I finally ask my new in-laws over for dinner last night, and half way through the dinner, my mother in law informs me that her other son is dropping her grandkids off at our house. Now, I have a 3 year old and a 2 year old in my living room and we're eating dinner in the kitchen. They were unsupervised, you can tell that my husband was upset about it, but we didn't say anything to my brother n law or my mother n law, we wanted to say that it was rude and inconsiderate of his brother and his mother. I made this effort to have a nice and quiet evening with my in laws to talk about the wedding....the honeymoon, but I seemed to be a day care drop off and the evening sucked. Now what do I do? Talk to her and him after the fact?????

2007-07-21 03:20:45 · 15 answers · asked by Caroline S 2

2007-07-21 03:12:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-21 03:02:36 · 21 answers · asked by Stella S 5

my nan died from cancer she was a lovely lady and i miss her so much when i was bullied she ws the only1 i could speek to i just turned 15 and i cant speek to my dad about it coz it as his mum and he breaks down when ever i want tpo speek to him about it.. i dotn want to upset any of the family as we all miss her loads she was a important part in all are lifes!.....
i miss her so mcuh and i cant stop speeekign about her i go to her grave 1nce a week every sunday and my grandad goes up there 2 times a day as she is buried in the church near him...
i cry everyngiht because i always want her back!
i hold all my feelings in becuase i dont like to let it out and when i speek about it at school to my friends i get so upset... i no your probabily sat there thinking " get a life little girl "but its not th easy for me and the fact that she suffered with it until the days he died and didnt tell any one make me want to cry i thought she was going to get bette ri fort it was just bug! :( :(

2007-07-21 02:52:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-21 02:08:24 · 14 answers · asked by rocky9281 1

am I suppose to accept that? I am 21 yrs old.

2007-07-21 02:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by fighter 1

First of all, I have to say that my dad is an alcoholic who was never a part of my life. While I was in college, he sent me a small amount of money the 15th of every month. He did this for my sister too. He continued to give her the money for 2 years after she graduated. I JUST graduated, and he told me about a month ago that he'd continue to send me the money until I told him I didn't need it anymore. I'm pretty broke right now and my new job doesn't pay awesome, so I'm going to let him send me the money until he says otherwise. Well... he never sent it this month. I don't want to call him and ask for it, but shouldn't he have told me he was stopping sending it? I was depending on it until I told him otherwise (maybe a few months... but he gave it to my sister for 2 years). What should I do? Forget it or call him? I can't hardly talk to him because he's usually drunk. After he stops sending me the money officially, I'm cutting all ties with him.

2007-07-21 01:36:24 · 9 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4

My mother in law is great but the rest of them SUCK!
How about you?

2007-07-21 00:56:43 · 21 answers · asked by Welshdragon 5

My ex-husband and I got married at 27 and at the time he was fully aware that I never intended to have children and he told me he was ok with that. I couldn’t find a doctor who’d let me get my tubes tied in my 20’s so I took every other precaution I had available to make sure I didn’t get pregnant. After 3 years of marriage I got pregnant and was determined to abort it but everyone around me especially my husband begged me to reconsider assuring me I’d feel different once she was born. I ended up having my daughter , signing away all parental rights and divorcing him because I didn’t see how we could make it work with a baby I never wanted in our lives. I see my daughter about four times a month when dropping off the 5 dogs we share custody over. My family has virtually disowned me for not having any contact with my daughter who turned 3 last week. Why can’t they just understand that I don’t want to be part of her life? Note: At the insistence of my mother who adores children, I went to several doctors who all confirmed that I’m not suffering from any type of depression and am in perfect health. I just recently got a promotion with a significant pay increase and have a wonderful boyfriend of a year and just couldn’t be happier. Why can’t they be happy for me?

2007-07-21 00:42:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad used to walk around in boxers all the time. He's like 236 pounds, no shirt, no shoes, just boxers. It was a very disturbing scene. He would always... "hang out" if you know what I mean. I told my doctor how upsetting this was to me, so he went out and bought these ugly red shorts, which, to be honest, are like one inch longer then boxers. He wears them out of the house to, with shirts that are to small, and sandals. When he sits on the couch, it's basically a sideways version of the Lotus Position. When he eats, his legs are wide open, and he makes disgusting smacking noises with his mouth. Another problem is, ankles are a major turn-on for me, and he's always walking around barefoot or with sandals. It would be like if your mom walked around topless, that's what ankles are to me. I've already explained how gross his shorts are, but he thinks I'm being silly, and I can't tell him about my "foot" thing, he'll think I'm a freak. How do I get the message across if he wont listen?

2007-07-21 00:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by RainKid 2

She is minging honestly she sits at the table and does that hocking noise in the throat, she stinks of ****, she doesnt clean the house or herself. She really makes me cringe. And she's so thick but full of opinions her opinions are so stupid. I cant stand her but i have to live with her errgh!

2007-07-20 23:27:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

got you ! lol

2007-07-20 23:17:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

yes or no? tell it to me i need to hear from you guys

2007-07-20 23:00:35 · 19 answers · asked by Putra19 1

i go to tafe college(coz i didnt get enogh marks in the yr12 exams to go to uni) and my younger sis goes to yr12.

im the eldest in the family.

a few mins ago my father was telling my sis that she should really study hard and go to uni. he wants to suprise the family if she goes to uni. he specifically said that he doesnt want her to end up in tafe.

would that mean that he is shamefull that me, his eldest daughter, has "ended up" in tafe???

2007-07-20 23:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Parents aren't lisening my own Brother in putting me down conastantly smart talking me tell me he knows better and he thinks he can control everything i do my dad tells me he knows whats my life like he gos threw the same, NO! he deosn't he has no i dea what i go threw when i to try to talk to my parents they say to me well what do you want us to do we can't do anything about it my own mother is to buissy to even lisen for 2 seconds and most of the time they don't want to even talk to me i will try talking to my dad about anything and he goes and says Here he go's again! and walks away i feal alone! my older sister is never home so i can't never talk to her about anything my younger brother is always putting me down swearing at me and yelling for no reason everytime i get stuck with my mom or dad they always yell at me about each other! like its my falt! i just want to lock myself in my room and never come out not even talk to them but is there another way can someone help me plz?

2007-07-20 21:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

I've had such an issue with my dad for the past two years . We hardly ever talk, but my mom and me are very very close. But anyway, my mom started hanging out with this woman at work and going to this club. I understood that because my mom loves music and she loves her friend dearly and she just wanted to go cause of her. Immediately, my father started to accuse her of cheating. One night he slammed the door and nearly broke it and my mom yelled at him until she started crying. Another night he threatened to kick her *** and kill himself. I haven't been able to heal this because me and him never talk. On those nights, i just cried. I'm still trying to talk to him but i dont want to bring the past, and i know if i do i'll just snap and yell til I can't break because of me being so mad. I just want to be able to move on from this, but I'm so still mad. I just want to know if anybody has any advice and I hope i'm not the only one going through this, and I pray for ones who are.

2007-07-20 20:29:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-20 19:16:24 · 16 answers · asked by rani l 1

Okay, so i've lived with my mom for since my parents got divorced at age 7. I got a new step dad last year, and a couple of times he scared me. First, he gave me a massage with lotion and made me take my bra strap off so he could work "better". Then one time my friend was over and my mom was on a buisness trip and we jumped in his bed. Well, he said "either scoot over and sleep on the other side or go sleep in your bed." Is it just me or is that kinda wierd? Or do you think i'm just overreacting. Also, do you think i should move in with my dad, who is in the army and is getting stationed to Texas? It would make my mom very sad, but i miss my dad.

2007-07-20 19:06:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a divorced family at what age does the child have a choice about his custodian. We have been told 12 and other cases are 14 and up.

2007-07-20 18:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by Janey 1

Our 13 year old grandson wants to live with us since his parents divorced.
at what age will the court let me deside?

2007-07-20 18:31:39 · 5 answers · asked by Janey 1

ok. my mum and dad split up and now have different familys... with 2 brothers on each side. but before i fould out that this guy was my step brother i liked him and now that he is we seem to be getting closer and i am starting to like him WAY WAY more but i cant and i dont know what too do anymore.... he also likes my best friend do i tell him? or try and get on with life and find a guy to get over him? HELP ME

2007-07-20 18:28:19 · 9 answers · asked by chloe b 1

Well, im 14, and my best friends are planning on going to warped tour on august 5th and they really want me to go, and obviously i want to go as well. how can i convince my parents into letting me go?
PLEASE HELP ME YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW BADLY I REALLY WANT TO GO TO WARPED TOUR!!!!!!!

2007-07-20 18:26:09 · 3 answers · asked by romina 1

it makes me feel so weird when i go out and have guys in there 20's checking me out when i am only 15 but i have been told i look like im 18 which i know i do. I do not wear any tight fitting or slutty clothes. When i go out with my family they are always telling me that some one has just checked me out....and the guys r cute and all but are over 20! Any Advice?!

2007-07-20 18:23:13 · 13 answers · asked by marina_703 1

OK so im a 16 year old boy and basically i kinda think i need some new clothes cuz ive had all these for a while, and its definitely times for some new shirts, pants, shoes....

my moms kinda annoying about this though, idk its not even like i buy a bunch of clothes, but i do like to look nice and clean, and the last time we bought some clothes was like last september, so almost a year now...

my shirts are kinda starting to look old/ jeans are getting wierd/ my shoes are pretty old...

my moms just super annoying about spending money, even though were pretty well-off....

how do i convince her that its time to get some new freakin clothes!?!?

2007-07-20 18:17:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm finding it hard to balance my time for work, my teenage kids, household chores. I'm studying at the same time (masteral), and chuch obligations (bible sharing group, church service). My husband isn't living with us anymore.

2007-07-20 18:14:41 · 8 answers · asked by T'cher D 2

2007-07-20 18:14:36 · 6 answers · asked by leyenda_asturias 3

How do you deal with a teen who's lying, driving too far away and too late, yelling, being sarcastic, disrespectful, and cussing at his parents?
Ways besides counseling(already doing) and spankings(too old for that)
mature answers please - preferably parents/adults

2007-07-20 18:14:17 · 5 answers · asked by Crystal 2

My dad and mom got divorced a year ago. THe worst part of the divorce is that it happened on my birthday. My mom got re-married to Charlie.My dad is dating again and he has a girlfriend named Della. She keeps on trying to step in and be my mom. I have no idea what to do. I hate her to she is the fakest thing on the planet. We even had to change churchs so we could go to hers. WHatever Della wants she gets at a blink of an eye. I just can't take it anymore and neither can my siblings (13,11,). I need advice. Please help me.

2007-07-20 18:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by mnm16685 2

my sister and i normally get along great(we're identical twins)and even when we dont we can normally agree to disagree and get over it soon...........but its been 3days and its like shes still mad and she tries to get me in trouble with mom.Im over it,but will she ever be???

2007-07-20 17:55:42 · 5 answers · asked by Susanna 4