Okay, so i've lived with my mom for since my parents got divorced at age 7. I got a new step dad last year, and a couple of times he scared me. First, he gave me a massage with lotion and made me take my bra strap off so he could work "better". Then one time my friend was over and my mom was on a buisness trip and we jumped in his bed. Well, he said "either scoot over and sleep on the other side or go sleep in your bed." Is it just me or is that kinda wierd? Or do you think i'm just overreacting. Also, do you think i should move in with my dad, who is in the army and is getting stationed to Texas? It would make my mom very sad, but i miss my dad.
2007-07-20 19:06:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it's not just you... it is weird.from the way you describe him he sounds like a perv.talk to your mom.if she's not the type who listens to you, then by all means move in with your dad.alternatively, you can just wait and see. he could be just a nice guy or something.if it's still weird, then you go talk to your mom
2007-07-20 19:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by .......!!......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too old to jump in bed with your step-dad. That's just tempting fate. Do not accept a massage from anyone you are not paying, and who works in a fancy spa.
None of us here knows your family well enough to judge if you should move in with your dad. But if you don't find better ways to get attention, you are going to have some serious problems -and not too far in the future.
2007-07-20 19:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only weird, imo, if he fondles you. A massage can be done at every spa by strangers, so what's the big deal, and they'll probably ask you to remove something?
2007-07-20 19:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it shouldn't be black and white with families I am 50 and never had the privilege of being shared by both parents i didn't know the words I want to be shared by both of you . but then again my father didn't consider me family anyway
2007-07-20 19:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋