Family - July 2007

My cousins/aunt came over for two weeks this July and they left 1 hour ago. They live all the way in Tunisia Africa. I am crying my eyes out trying not to think of how things are going back to the way they were before they came. My house/lifestyle changed for the two weeks they were here. I loved it! Now they are gone and its only me, my bro, and my mom living the same life. They come to America every 4 or 5 years!!! I come to Tunisia every year or two. How do i get over it like i usually do?

2007-07-24 20:56:15 · 2 answers · asked by iMarty 4

I wish to disappear not into trouble just want to leave everything in the past with no contacts with family or friends. How can i do this? Changing names under registration is not an option because i could still be found

2007-07-24 19:45:31 · 8 answers · asked by noblueloo 2

2007-07-24 19:38:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-24 19:17:19 · 9 answers · asked by bacchus_blue 1

oh my gosh.
whts with them?!
do they not know that their parents work their butts off for them to shop at "hollister" & "abercrombie&fitch", and get a cell phone, and get your nose pierced?!
its been bothering the crap outta me.
daddy buys her everything, and she comes back around and treats him like dirt?
whats happening!
is paris hilton being a bad role model?
nicole richie?
please tell me :-(

2007-07-24 18:48:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have decided we don't want his parents in our lives or our kids lives any more because they are toxic, negative and hateful (especially towards me). Life is so much better in general except we live in a reasonably small coastal town and every time she sees me shopping with my kids she keeps hanging around until they see her. It's very complicated but we have very genuine reasons for not wanting her around our children. How do I get her to stop approaching us at the shops when we are not even on talking terms and I have already told her to stay out of our lives? The police said there is nothing I can do because she hasn't threatened violence or anything. Any advice on how to get her out of our face without upsetting the children?

2007-07-24 17:38:37 · 11 answers · asked by Kell 2

I've been dating my boyfriend now for about 4 years, most of his family I get along with well but they have a lot of problems. I worry about getting sucked into their drama when I just want a life with my boyfriend. His mother is an alcoholic and a gambling addict who has walked out on her family. If my boyfriend and I have kids one day I wouldn't want her to have any part in their lives. She's proven herself to be an extremely reckless, irresponsible and untrustworthy person. My boyfriend understands this and agrees with me but I worry that it will create problems down the road. Should your significant other's family play a role in whether you choose to take on a more serious relationship?

2007-07-24 15:57:08 · 7 answers · asked by dolce 6

My sister is 12 and pregnant. I call her a whore but is that wrong. I think any girl going out and doing what she does deserves it though. Ur thoughts?

2007-07-24 15:20:32 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

they though away all my underwear and make me put panties and bras under my cloth they tied me to a chair in bikini and made me over they surronded me with dolls and made me have a tea party and that i am no longer there brother i am there sister jenifer is it fair

2007-07-24 14:35:34 · 5 answers · asked by chicago21 1

i dont know why but lately my sis has been saying mean things to me. she is 19 and i am 14. yes she is very immature for her age she still throws tantrums lol. but a few weeks ago my family was going to the mall and i was like "i feel ugly in this outfit" and my sis said "who cares, you always look ugly anyways" and today she poked my eye and then she said "SORRRY!!! .....NOT!" and later on i was in my room like an hour ago playing my DS, and she said "your life sucks, no one cares about you" her life sucks cuz shes 19 and stays home all day and is not even in college and she has NO friends at all. and also she was wearing my PJ shirt today [it says "too cute" on it] i told her that was my shirt, and she said "not uhh i'm too cute, your too ugly!!!] wtf is she just being sarcastic or is she really meaning to hurt me emtionally she never use to give out rude comments like that before.

2007-07-24 14:27:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

She really liked those two - but I don't know which songs would be appropriate for her memorial slide show - I don't want anything too sad - If anyone knows Celine Dion and Cher songs could you give me some suggestions?

thanks!

2007-07-24 13:57:24 · 10 answers · asked by doubt133 2

I would like for me to look for my father and get a chance to meet and know him.

2007-07-24 13:57:24 · 4 answers · asked by wearbear 1

I know my father woudnt have want me to change the date but i just want to know if any of you guys think its ok for me to have it

what do you guys think?

2007-07-24 13:46:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay i got my AP scores back like 3 weeks ago but I'm such a pansy that I didn't look at them until today. And I've been stalling all this time telling my parents+bro that I didnt get them yet. But I looked at the score today and I got a 2 on AP Bio. Totally unexpected. I am in shock.

What is the best way to tell my family this without getting in trouble or for them to take it easier on me when I do? Please help, I'm so depressed =[

2007-07-24 13:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She won't listen to me, she's to stuburn... I try to compramise but she won't...

2007-07-24 12:48:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son just started his first serious job and we have him pay us a certain amount a week to reimburse us for the expenses we pay on his behalf. Part of the rent, his share of the cell phone plan, and his part of the car insurance. We were talking about it tonight and he asked how much of his money actually went towards paying bills. I said that he was reimbursing us, that the bills had already been paid, and that it didn't really matter what we did with it. Am I right, or does he have a right to be concerned?

2007-07-24 12:42:39 · 18 answers · asked by kitten lover3 7

I am trying to do my family tree and have been at it for almost a year. Some of it i can go back to the early 1700's which is great. Then there is my mothers side, which isn't so easy. Ive spent days trying to find her grandfather. He was born in the Netherlands and came to the US about 1934. Ive checked Ellis Island and there is no luck. I do have his dob, dod and ssn. I can not find anything about his parents or siblings though. Anyone know where I should look that might help more?

2007-07-24 12:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley S 1

Lets suppose Daniel had a grandfather called Peter
Peter has a cousin called Bush
so Bush is Daniel's granduncle
If Bush has a grandson called Jones is he blood
related to Daniel?

2007-07-24 12:19:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to the 9th grade. They say too really do good on this year.I'm about to enter high school. I'm trying to get a acamdemic scholarship, at my school it's really hard. I want to go to NYU to study law.Ok then my daddy told me " something going to happen in August" right when school starts. I thought he was going to get laid off or something. But my daddy is going to bring it up in August. I don't want to cry because that's really going to jack me up. I want be able to concenstrate at school i will have too much family problems. They act like little kids. It's mostly just my mama side of the family because they have so many kids like 8 or 9.My worse Aunt Nessie she comes in everyone home and eat there food.It's like school w/ no education but drama..
I cannot handle it. Then my daddy said "he might move out if he have too". i don't know what's going to happen.. No-one here to support me, it's like i have to handle my own emotions.

2007-07-24 11:48:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Teenagers are you aware of the dangers of using chat rooms?
Parents are you keeping you're children safe?

2007-07-24 11:02:52 · 11 answers · asked by flip 6

I have a female relative who has invited herself to come visit me on Labor Day weekend. I do not want her staying with me as I don't trust her. She thinks because we're family and that she can barge in and stay as long as she wants. She never asked me - just bought her airfare and informed me that she's coming. Someone please help me - I do NOT want her staying with me. Any great ideas or excuses?

2007-07-24 11:02:07 · 11 answers · asked by KeysGirl 2

I feel the whole world today is unhappy, people are suffering, hows your life at present

2007-07-24 10:51:06 · 31 answers · asked by Answer Freak 3

how can i get rid of my mom and live with my grandmother. Try not to say its not right to treat your mother like that. Because you have no idea how mean she is. Thanks.

2007-07-24 10:37:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it considered insulting to be a Mama's boy, but being a Daddy's girl is a term of endearment?

2007-07-24 09:44:17 · 15 answers · asked by posttk421 3

My husband is vietnamise and pakistain. I am american. I never imagined I would marry out of my race, but I did and I see absolutely nothing wrong with this, nor does my family. I however can't say I feel the same way about his family. Mostly the pakistain side. My husband gets upset because I never try to get to know his side of the family very well, nor do I involve them in our sons life very much. He wants me to let his mother watch our son during the day while I work (which my mother does now) my major problem with it is 1. she doesn't speak english and never tried to learn although all her children speak fluently 2. they treat me like im an idiot around my child, always telling me he's too hot he shouldn't be wearing this or that, or i should be giving him this or that. Which honestly I don't appreciate. My family has done so much for me, my husband and our son...and his family has done nothing. They didn't even show up for the baby showers.

2007-07-24 08:28:14 · 13 answers · asked by Leigh08 4

Okay, so heres the situation.....I have custody of my 4 yr old child through a restraining order that is against her father. He has a violent temper. In the order it states that he may have visitation with her every wed. and every other weekend. Now, recently me and my current boyfriend have had some financial problems and our only option is to leave the state we are in now for a better paying job ( ALOT better ) Legally if i dissolve the restraining order i can leave the state and there is nothing her father can do to stop me unless he hires an attorney and goes to court. Now i was planning on not telling him until i was already gone, for the reason of him being violent and being afraid of what he will do to me. He hasn't paid is childsupport in months and has caused us nothing but problems. My current bf is the one supporting HIS child, so I believe it is in the best interest of her to go where the money is. And set up some kind of visitation when i get to the where i am going

2007-07-24 07:44:09 · 18 answers · asked by cari210kel 3

My dad mentally abuses me, he always has to be numder one, he always has to be correct, there is so getting past it. I use to live with my sis and i guess just for the fun, my dad would move me back and fourth from florida to alabama.I cant take it anymore,he makes me cry everyday, my sister has told me to tell him what i feel, but she doesnt get that all he is going to do is blow me off.I cant take it anymore, i have thaught very hard about taking him to court but i dont have money for a lawyer and neither does my sister. I realy need help any information will be good.

2007-07-24 07:30:22 · 6 answers · asked by megan 1

for the first time in my life i want to stay in school for a very long time, cuz once i get home i have to clean the living room, my sister's room ,and my brother's after that, it's the bathroom ,then the living room, and wash the dishes, sweep and clean the table .now my family thinks its fair for me to do all this and for them to do whatever they want but my freinds think otherwise , so the question still stands fair or unfair?

2007-07-24 07:06:18 · 16 answers · asked by Braveheart83 1

he has hit me thrown me agianst a wall and a garage door hes gavin me a bloody nose from whipping a ball at me and he yells at me all the time i just wish he would leave.

2007-07-24 07:01:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

So...the details:
My in-laws are great people, they support my wife & I very well (physically being there, and emotionally for her). They recently both are in the process of losing their jobs, unfortunately. My wife has already thrown out the idea of supporting them financially (this is after recent arguments about our finances within our house - we have no budget, and have been slowly eating up our savings/retirement money over the last few months from everything from extra medical care to frivolous spending). Her parents also spend money on a lot of hobbies, lot's of extra stuff for their house, and literally have a garage full of stuff, and 4-5 outdoor storage sheds full of stuff as well - a lot of which could help if we sold some of it on eBay). I don't have a big problem with giving them money (to help them survive), but I'd like it to fix some problems instead of just going to more "stuff" in their house (Disney tapes, collections, Pro sports collectibles, etc

2007-07-24 06:42:59 · 10 answers · asked by A concerned worker 1