My sister is 12 and pregnant.?

Question

My sister is 12 and pregnant. I call her a whore but is that wrong. I think any girl going out and doing what she does deserves it though. Ur thoughts?

Answer 1

calling her a whore might be a bit harsh, but i think that you should show her that you're her family and she shouldn't be doing those things for her own health and reputation

Answer 2

Let me start by making an honest point.....How would you feel if it were you pregnant? Would you agree your sister should be calling you a whore ? I don't know how old you are but lets stop and think about what you might feel if you were her. Lets start with scared...embarrassed...ashamed...and then to top it off her "sister" Kicks her while she is down. Man tell your sister that you love her, That's what she needs more then anything else.Someone to stand behind her. What do you got to be so angry about? Your not pregnant! Maybe you have just been lucky so far...I would be careful what you say..Karma can sneak up on you. Never know when you might be needing the same support.

Answer 3

I always assumed a whore was someone who slept with a lot of people. Do you know the facts? Was is her first time? Think if it's that situation! One time and now she is labeled a "whore." Maybe you should get the facts. By the way I think by treating her this way is making her believe everyone will feel this way about her and you could be leading her towards an abortion. How would you feel about that? Try to be a little compassionate since she is your sister after all. She is probably freaking out and need love, comfort and support. You need to apologize and tell her everything will work out and you are going to help as much as you can. That's what sisters do.

Answer 4

She is just a kid herself, you calling her whore is out of frustration and fear for her- the best you can do is stop the name calling, as this girl has a rough life ahead of her with great responsibility. She will need your help- and also think this baby will be your neice or nephew. Even if she does act like a little floozy, she will grow up fast when the child is born and realize she has to not only be responsible for another human being, but herself now too.
Hugs to both of you- hang in there, your upset and it is entirely understandable. Your parents must be taking this hard too, and with you name calling is only adding to the family stress- let it go. What's done is done, you can step up and be supportive to her now and as much as you disagree with her lifestyle imagine not having your sister anymore, imagine something happening where you lost her, and the last words you said to her was "your a whore"- go give her a hug and apologize. Please.

Answer 5

Regardless of whether or not your sister acts like a whore, she IS YOUR SISTER. I'm sure if she is twelve and pregnant she is scared out of her mind. People make mistakes and yes what she did was wrong, but you should be there for her and support her. I would hope if anyone else said that your sister was a whore you would stand up for her and not just agree with them. My dad has always said you can choose your friends but not your family, blood is thicker than water. Always stand up for family and even friends, don't try to bring put them down when they are going through hard times.

Answer 6

Wow you are kind of a bitchh huh?...That's really messed up to call your sister that, Maybe someday you will do something really stupid and she can laugh at you and call you names, I feel sorry for your sister not only cause she's pregnant at 12 but that she has you for a sister....And to the people saying that the 12!! year old is a whore...You should be ashamed..you don't know what's going on with that child...I blame the parents and other adults in her life...She was not born with low self estem...That was learned over time.

Answer 7

are you being serious?
and how do you know that she did anything willingly? I've never heard of a 12 year old consenting to sex, and it's not legal for her to do so.
you calling her names is shameful. there are a few names I would like to call you, if you really refer to your very own sister as a whore, but the censor here would "bleep" them out.
why don't you try to show her some sympathy and support? right now she's probably more frightened than she's ever been in her entire life, and she doesn't need you making her feel worse.
what if the shoe were on the other foot? how would you want her to treat you?
you've got major problems, little girl.

Answer 8

I think that girls that young having sex are out looking for something they are missing from at home. And another thing is why have the parents let her be out doing this at such a young age, parents these days are letting there kids do to much to soon. I am relieved in a way that we live out in the country my daughters will have a reason to be out and I will know what they are doing and how they are with. Plus I plan on talking to my girls about sex when they start there periods.

You shouldn't be calling her a whore, because she didn't get pregnant alone, what have you said to this boy. You need to be upset with your parents for letting her go out so young.
You need to be there for her and support her because her life will be tougher now because she will be such a young mother.

Answer 9

That was very mean for you to say that to your sister. Yes she is way to young to be havein sex but things happen. It also shows that your parents have sliped on doing their jobs, an i dont no if you are older but it seem that you was not there for her either. But whats done is done you really need to be there for support now more than ever an try to show her not to make this same mistake twice, let her no that she is loved no matter about the mistake she made an to be honest she is not the first an will not be the last. but if you continue to talk to her that way an make her feel like she's nothing she's going to go out to try to find that love that she wants from her family out in the streets.

Answer 10

if u are telling the truth u should realize that your sister is not a whore..she probably does not know what a whore even means....as far as her getting pregnant....she probably dont even know what is happening with her body...what are your parents thinking about this...12 years old..? how old was the father...old enough to be put in jail? god..this child should be playing on swing sets...not going through this...i am not for abortion but in this case i would really consider it if i were the parent....i kinda think this is just for getting responses too...who would call their sister a whore when she is a child......grow up...come up with another question?????

Answer 11

Well she is your sister and instead of being negative towards her you should be helping her through this hard time. I'm sure she is having a hard time dealing with the fact that she made a decision that is going to affect her for the rest of her life. Just be supportive and help her deal. You are obviously her big sister so I think if you are just there for her and show her that you love her it will help this situation go a lot smoother. Good Luck!