i dont know why but lately my sis has been saying mean things to me. she is 19 and i am 14. yes she is very immature for her age she still throws tantrums lol. but a few weeks ago my family was going to the mall and i was like "i feel ugly in this outfit" and my sis said "who cares, you always look ugly anyways" and today she poked my eye and then she said "SORRRY!!! .....NOT!" and later on i was in my room like an hour ago playing my DS, and she said "your life sucks, no one cares about you" her life sucks cuz shes 19 and stays home all day and is not even in college and she has NO friends at all. and also she was wearing my PJ shirt today [it says "too cute" on it] i told her that was my shirt, and she said "not uhh i'm too cute, your too ugly!!!] wtf is she just being sarcastic or is she really meaning to hurt me emtionally she never use to give out rude comments like that before.
2007-07-24 14:27:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She is just angry because her life is going nowhere right now and she is immaturely taking it out on you. You just have the misfortune of being the handiest person to dump on. Hopefully she will be moving out soon and do something with her life. It will make her grow up and also have her out of your hair. How do your parents handle her treatment of you? Hopefully they see her need to do some growing up also. You sound very intelligent and express yourself well for a 14 yr. old. I hope you don't take your sister's nasty words to heart.
2007-07-24 14:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by I39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, the sister thing. I know what you mean. I had a hard time with that, but now that we're grown up my sister and I are friends. It will pass - you're both feeling the pressure of growing up and sometimes when the hormones are changing, going up and down, things like that happen. Give it time and wait it out. It will pass. Just don't fight back, then it's technically not a fight if she's the only one yelling. :-)
2007-07-24 21:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pineapple Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to "GROW UP." If that doesn't help, tell her what you told us, that she's 19 yr old & should be an adult by now. She's old enough that she should be in college or have a job.
2007-07-24 22:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋