Family - July 2007

2007-07-26 02:17:37 · 19 answers · asked by jojo 1

I am a 22-year-old guy. Recently, I won my tribunal. My mom said I won because Buddha has looked after me. She said " I promise Buddha to take me to the temple if I win the tribunal. She asked me to worship Buddha with her in the temple next Sunday. I said I am not a Buddhist and not interested in it. Then she said I still need to go because I'm her son.She said no matter what religion a person practises, he/she needs to say " hi " to Buddha once they entered a temple. She also said I didn't respect her. She also threatened to cut off her financial aid to my undergraduate course fees . She lost her temper and said I will go to hell one day.

I feel offended because I think she tries to impose her religious view on me .Is it weird for me to feel offened ?


Also, what should I do now ? Any suggestions ?

2007-07-26 02:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. my sister is 14 right now, and hardly has no boobs. Were very close sisters because were 18 months apart. So she told me what she wanted for her graduation gift from me. She told me she wants a boob job. I told her she will not be getting this beacuse she doesnt meed it. She looks beautiful the way she is. Well she still wants one. What do i do. I really dont want her to get one, and i think it causes like breast infections or cancer or something like that. What do i do!!

2007-07-26 02:11:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you could do one thing for your mother what whould it be

2007-07-26 02:09:18 · 10 answers · asked by gclovespinkshoes 1

shes a freakin *** and a total *****

2007-07-26 02:09:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my family the most because every one loves their girlfriends or boyfriends....... So different from them /i love my family...

2007-07-26 01:59:29 · 7 answers · asked by Shifaa 1

We have a 19 yr old daughter, she has completed 1 year of college. This spring she broke up with her boyfriend and renewed a friendship with an old girfriend. This friend lives with her boyfriend and his brother. A huge argument with her father because she was spending 24/7 with these friends and he wanted her to spend time at home and she refused and then moved in with these other friends. None of these people including her have a job.She comes when we are not home and takes things and then leaves. She has taken money, food, took the radio out of a car (she had the radio installed and had paid for it herself), and recently the licence plate from that car to put on another car to use to go to a concert. We have always had a open door policy with our kids but she has strained that policy. What should we do?

2007-07-26 01:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by diane f 2

SOUNDS LIKE THE COURTS ARE DEFINING THE FAMILY STRUCTURE. EVEN THOUGH THIS FAMILY IS DIVORCED BOTH OF THE BIO PARENTS ARE ACTIVE IN THE CHILDS LIVE. BUT THE COURTS DECIDED THAT A LESBIAN PARENT IS NEEDED AS A LEGAL GUARDIAN? GOD FORBID

2007-07-26 01:54:27 · 7 answers · asked by john t 4

any one who has ever lost a parent or some one close to them want t mail me, i'm 19 and lost my mum 4 years ago, but need help gettin over it and non of my friends will talk about it with me. if u will mail me please

2007-07-26 01:40:20 · 15 answers · asked by confused!!! 1

Can a 15 year girl be jealous of her mother??

2007-07-26 01:32:44 · 8 answers · asked by Soft Heart 6

My little sister, now 18, used to be oh so sweet, always laughing at jokes, sitting on my dad's lap and helping my mother out. In the past year or so she has transformed into this shallow, attitude ridden young woman, pouting, rolling her eyes and raising her voice to a screech that could shatter plexiglass the moment something does not go her way. My dad gives in to her and most of the time my mom does as well. I, 8 years her elder, have taken it upon myself to discipline her. I've attempted to patiently talk to her, which only leads her to the "don't lecture me" response. I've blown up on her when I witness her walking all over my parents, which either makes her cringe or resent me. She can be so sweet sometimes but its very easy to see that she is only acting that way because she wants something. What can i do to help my parents out? I don't live at home but am here frequently for short periods of time.

2007-07-26 01:17:16 · 12 answers · asked by bruce_eel 4

I have stepdaughters staying with us at the moment. Not bad girls, but they seem to get away with a lot at home and me and my husband have totally different standards. They are using my razor to shave legs, perfume, creams, shower gel without asking. they never ask if i need any help, leave things laying around (cups on my table and my paperwork), are not interested in anything but shopping and swimming. i wanted to take them to my work, get them involved, wanted to take them to an art gallery (one of them says she wants to do art), they never asked me anything but where is the hairdryer or something like that. they have ruined a carpet and a towel already, my cat is having a panick attack every time they approach her. i know it is all teenage bla bla bla, but i they are not at home. they should appreciate the time, effort and tons of bloody money we spend on them. why cant show a little appreciation? should they get away with all this and we just shut up and hope they change later?

2007-07-26 01:03:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here it is: i met this gurl on the net and shes like my age and everything and like shes really kool to talk to. we talk like every nite on the fone and like on the net also. well weve been friends for like 8weeks now and like at first i didnt no that my sis was getten jealous of her but then like one day she told my friend that she was and that she always cried herself to sleep. and like then i talked to her bout it and told her that if she had a prblm that she shoulda came and talked to me bout it. well then like for awhile i thought that she was kool with my friend cuz then they became friends and all. well i was TOTALLY wrong with that. i jus found out that my sis doesnt like my friend at all cuz she thinks that shes taken me away from her and all that. so rite now im jus so confused i dont no wat to do. i love my sis [btw im 14 and my sis is 12 ] but wen she does crap like this i dont wanna spend time with her. so yeah if u no wat to do or ne thang plzzzz help id appreciate it!

2007-07-25 23:42:22 · 6 answers · asked by baby_gurl_1567 1

My brother was eighteen when we lost our parents and with me and my younger twin sisters, we were only little, and he took on the responsibility and became our guardian, whenever we were at school, until recently, he worked every hour he could to support and look after us, he has a good job now and never expects anything, he does everything for us, from cooking to washing to taking us to and from school. He's really caring and has promised to always be there for us, our parents left us each some money, but he put ours into trustfunds which he also put some of his own money into each week to make sure were supported for when were older. He always has time to talk to us and explain whatever we do not understand. He pretty much gave his own life to look after us, he doens't drink or smoke or go out really, he doesn't want to leave us as were the only family he has and vice versa.

My question is what can me and my sisters get him as a special present to say thank you.

2007-07-25 23:38:14 · 8 answers · asked by jadealiesha 3

I don't know what to do. My dad is a chronic alcoholic. He has Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and basically wants to die. The doctors are surprised that he is still living and don't think that things will go too much longer. He is in constant need of medical attention and won't go to get it. I am with him all of the time, I shop, clean, pay his bills to name a few. I am at breaking point. I am sick of being treated like I have to do these things by the rest of the family when really, I don't have to do anything. I love him, I know that he will die soon but I can't do this forever. What should I do?

2007-07-25 22:57:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter in law is mad at me for not calling her in the week before my grandson's birthday party at the park. She planned it to be just cake and gifts. I had told her weeks before the party I would bring some food, and brought a lot of good things to eat. She is mad at me because I didn't call her in the week before the party. I called her the Monday before and she said she was just going out the door and would have to talk to me later. She didn't call me back all week either. Does anyone out there feel sorry for me to have my nice son married to a ***** or what? And should I send her a "i'm sorry" card so I will get to see my grandson.

2007-07-25 20:58:28 · 7 answers · asked by Dollydoright 2

read past questions. today my sisters dressed me up in a skirt and bra(by the way in school today i had to wear bra and panties under my colthes) took me downstairs and read past qeuestions before this.tied me to a chair and told me i have boys hair they cut it then died it blond then one of my sisters older beutition friends came and gave me hair extentsion then they curlsed it and put it in a pony tail and said i have one hour to diced a girls sport either cheerleading, tennis, ballet, soccer, gymnastics, basketball or track all girls in girls uniform what should i pick answer fast or they pick and they attact my avatar

2007-07-25 20:39:52 · 3 answers · asked by chicago21 1

read my past quesitons before this. tonight after the date they said my room was to boy like and me and my little sister have to switch rooms then they put me in britney spears pajama's nd said time to work on my women shape and made me do 20 push ups then they tied me to the bed post and put a CD player over my head and turned it on they made me listen to music for two hours. they made me listen to hannah montanha, britany spears, shikira, aviral livini (which they made me sing the) then they siad we will give you five minuetes then back for the night they say there going to leave me there what should i do

2007-07-25 20:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by chicago21 1

read my past questions before this. today after my mom left my sisters forced me into a blue dress and makeup and said a girl has to look good for her date then they took me down stairs and at the kitchen table was 12 year old boy from a block away they said play along or we will make you a real girl. then they sat me down and said they read what i wrote and this was my first date they made me act girl and told me to say things like i like your eyes and at the end of dinner they made me kiss him. then they told me that i was one step closer to being a real girl and i couldn't wear my real clothes for the rest of my life

2007-07-25 20:21:37 · 4 answers · asked by chicago21 1

read my other stories for background. i listened to you and stood up for myself. so they made a website gave the pictures to my friend. my mom is about to leave for two weeks and they said they want a sister know and made me kisss a picture of justin timberlink fifty times they pushed a golfball up my but and i'm still in a dress now everyone calls me jenifer

2007-07-25 19:36:09 · 5 answers · asked by chicago21 1

i want to tell her how i feel and confide in her about things, but i know that, even though she'll be cool with it with me, she'll start talking behind and in front of me and making fun of me because of the guy im inlove with. How do i deal with her? do i just ignore her or do i just not confide in her for anything?

2007-07-25 19:30:50 · 11 answers · asked by k9pup316 2

I'M TAKING MY DAUGHTER TO SEE HER DAD WHO UNFORTUANTLEY IS IN PRISION. I'M NOT SURE WHAT TO SAY WHEN I SEE HIM. SEE HIM IN HIS SUIT SITTING ACROSS FROM US. TALKING LIKE HE CAN'T WAIT TO COME HOME. IT'S NOT MY FIRST TIME LIVING WITH SOMEONE BEHIND BARS MY DAD WAS BEHIND BARS FOR A YEAR AND 6 MONTHS. I'M NOT SURE IF HER DAD WANTS TO BE WITH ME WHEN HE FINALLY GETS OUT. SHE HAS MET HIM & SHE LOVES HIM ALOT & CAN'T WAIT FOR HIM TO COME HOME. ME NEITHER I'M JUST WAITING FOR HIM. WHAT DO I SAY DO I SAY BABY I LOVE & MISS YOU. HIS BEST FRIEND IS TAKING ME & MY ALMOST 3 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER SINCE I'M ONLY 15 & CAN'T DRIVE.

I NEED ADVICE PLEASE & THANK-YOU
P.S. DON'T JUDGE ME

2007-07-25 19:18:33 · 12 answers · asked by єנg (ѕσмєвσdу тσ lσνє] 6

my mom is 53 years old, and for the past couple years, she has been addicted to the internet. She plays online spades and most days, as soon as she gets home, she gets on and stays on all day. me and my family never get to spend time with her unless we have a gathering at home. But if we go somewhere, most of the time she'll just stay home. I really dont noe what to do

help????!

2007-07-25 19:14:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I remember those times. When I wasn't so stressed out. When there wasn't hate, racism, violence. When I would just randomly go to neighbors houses to play with other kids despite the creepy dad that always watching me

2007-07-25 19:10:33 · 21 answers · asked by Lynn 4

2007-07-25 19:08:12 · 2 answers · asked by krystinah 2

Yes, I am going through this pain.
:'(
She feels that the entire family hates her, her husband hates her, and her children hates her (everything listed is true except the children hating her).
Can anybody please help me? T_T

2007-07-25 19:04:48 · 25 answers · asked by The Girl with Love ♥ 1

I have A SIN number and stuff but my dad claims hes gonna make me put some of it in the bank and i tell him its not his money its mine if i work for it? Is it legaly his money im pritty sure its mine because i will work hard for it!

2007-07-25 18:53:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 18:51:38 · 5 answers · asked by QUEEN 2

Every day I think about how terrible I would feel if I lost one of them right now, when im married, and have kids, will it ease some of the pain?

My grandpas are both dead, and my parents dont seem to like talk about them unless I bring it up.

When im out of the house, and have my own life, will I still feel like I do now?

I know this is a confusing question, but its kind of hard to word it.

2007-07-25 18:49:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

really need help my sisters have real blackmail on me if you read my other qustions and today i was going to tell but they grabed me first and put in a gerta, bra, panties a pink mini skirt and a tangtop. then they did my makeup and hair. they tied me to the bed face down and said if i ever tell they will chop of my you know what and i will really be a girl. then they made me say my name is jenifer and want to be a girl. then they said alright and they won't stop calling me jenifer and won't let me get undressed what should i do

2007-07-25 18:45:03 · 4 answers · asked by chicago21 1