Family&School.. How can i handle it.?

Question

I'm going to the 9th grade. They say too really do good on this year.I'm about to enter high school. I'm trying to get a acamdemic scholarship, at my school it's really hard. I want to go to NYU to study law.Ok then my daddy told me " something going to happen in August" right when school starts. I thought he was going to get laid off or something. But my daddy is going to bring it up in August. I don't want to cry because that's really going to jack me up. I want be able to concenstrate at school i will have too much family problems. They act like little kids. It's mostly just my mama side of the family because they have so many kids like 8 or 9.My worse Aunt Nessie she comes in everyone home and eat there food.It's like school w/ no education but drama..
I cannot handle it. Then my daddy said "he might move out if he have too". i don't know what's going to happen.. No-one here to support me, it's like i have to handle my own emotions.

What do i do to not let this situation interfere with my education?

Answer 1

Your dealing with a much bigger delima. Whats more important I ask you or individual lives, or the lives of our family? In our society, it is the individual, and if you want to do what are society says then everything you can to help youself, thats all that matters! Are you can accept the unfornunte fact that in the end, family is all we've got, and they are our identy, and nothing for them is to much. O such is life, but to suffer, but to thrive youngin you most find meaning in that suffering. Whats more meaningful education, hence money? Or family, hence love? Just understand your priorities I'm not here to sway you but its your life, this is why they say it gets hard, because life choices become harder and harder to see the right way. Take some time to reflect on what would be more helpful, you helping yourself, or helping them, keep in mind to you can always come back... sometimes.... yea this stuff is hard hunnie....