Family - April 2007

Grandpa is very demanding, he wants my mom to go grocery shopping almost every day, drive him around town, etc. He will be able to drive in a month or 2, (hip surgery)He wants ONLY her to do this for him, and she has a very painful shoulder joint problem.Yesterday she told him she needed some time to herself, he got very upset and said he didint like the "things to be presented like that" He also said,"you can turn me down any time you want, just dont tell me you need time to yourself" He has been tested for Alzheimers and does not have it, but he is a little forgetful. He is going to call later today and ask her to bring him somewhere. How can she turn him down without upsetting him? SHe wants to go shopping today but does not want to bring him.Her shoulder will killing her early this morning and.Other people have offered to help out drive him but he wants only her.She says no to him when she has to, she is just looking for a new, very tactful diplomatic way to tell him no

2007-04-22 02:40:19 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa 2

Parents are in their 80's....mom has house, there is a will, I just want to make burial and afterward smooth for mom

2007-04-22 00:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by LACTAIDFREE 1

2007-04-21 23:05:59 · 19 answers · asked by mccannip 1

I`ve been telling her about the guy i like, but she already doesn`t like him, guess why-because he`s short.From that moment on she`s been trying to convince me i`d be better off without him and should stop being nice to hima and talking to him.....and he is a nice guy, things are gettin a bit more serious but i am reluctant to tell her. I know she`s gonna think i am stupid.She thinks there are all these super hot guys around who would like to be with her daughter and doesn`t seem to understand her daughter likes someone else, what do i do with this woman?
and there is also my best friend who gets angry if i don`t tell her all the details,what about her?

2007-04-21 22:35:43 · 11 answers · asked by Lanalee W 2

hello,

today is my birthday, i want the most stars abailable please :)

2007-04-21 20:26:40 · 27 answers · asked by Me + Me = BANG! 2

I am 21 years old. I have been holding in my feelings and emotions for a very long time. I have been suicidal and I wish I never told my mother Thursday night. She told me that only dumb white folks commit suicide (I'm half n half...). She also has a tendency to "sell my business". I'm 21 and I still get grounded. She grounded me because I have my own P.O. Box (that I rented with my own money) and she flushed my key, which I have to pay $10 to get another one. My sisters keep on tellin her that I still speak with psychic readers (which I did a year ago because I am into prophecy) and they're filling her head with more bs. Its taking a toll on me. I can barely work. I told her I'm gettin an apartment this summer and she said that I can't and they will take the car away from me. She took my cell phone and she tells people that I am an up and coming Hip Hop artist, but I am not allowed to record. True story. My friend's mom tells me I need to go and stay in a shelter. Should I leave??

2007-04-21 18:32:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was on a swim team all throughout high school and college. Then I got a great paying job, but I was getting fat because I didn't have enough to time to swim. Many people told me I was dumb and immature for quitting, but I quit. After a few months, I started my own business with NO help from my parents, and began making more money than at my old office job, AND I have a lot of free time now. I'm in really good shape now because of swimming, I have all my hair, so EVERYONE tells me I look younger, some people think I'm in high school. Even though I make a good living, my dad is always telling me to "grow up". He hates that I'm always swimming, or doing tricks on either my skateboard or rollerblades. I bought a trampoline, and began going to the gymnastics center again. I started doing le parkour, jumping from roofs, rock climbing, rappelling, and climbing trees. My dad says I act like a 16 year old, but I make good money.

Why is it such a problem for him what I do for fun?

2007-04-21 18:25:38 · 12 answers · asked by Document Guy 2

2007-04-21 17:58:07 · 6 answers · asked by amwid-u:) 2

He is going to live with him for about 3 months until I can save up to move to the same state. (my son has a disability and I need to work but no daycares will take him...plus I need a little break) So he is going to California to stay with my "still legal husband" but we are sperated. Then the husband is saying once I get there he wants my oldest son to continue to live with him...and I don't want that. He needs to be with me and his younger brother...you can't raise children seperately!! (both kids are with the same husband but my youngest is normal and can go to day care so I can work) Sorry this is so long/ I need to know if anyone has clues on what kind of court doc I need to obtain so that I won't have issues when I move to Cali etc...thanks

2007-04-21 17:28:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, she's 9 mos. pregnant with child # 3, but during child # 2, her husband hit her upside the head with a wrench, & she still won't drop him. She hasn't called in days, & I'm worried if she's dead or alive. Please pray for her.

2007-04-21 16:44:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-21 16:04:45 · 8 answers · asked by burchgirl1508 1

What really gets on your nerves out there in y/a land!

2007-04-21 16:01:53 · 6 answers · asked by Andrew1968 5

my dad CANNOT hear anything and whenever i suggest a hearing aid he ignores me what should i do?

2007-04-21 14:06:49 · 16 answers · asked by BLONDI 1

He has owed me this money for months, almost $1000 and keeps telling me he will get the money to me when his student loan comes in, but this has been going on for months now, and he has since moved out. Currently he won't respond to me no matter how i get into touch with him. He has been spending thousands of dollars supposedly on credit cars and his parents just bought him and expensive sports car. His parents live in the neighborhood, and I think he will never give me my money so I think my last option is to call his parents and tell him the situation. Should I contact his parents or will this just make an even worse situation where I will still never see my money.

2007-04-21 12:50:54 · 11 answers · asked by E W 1

2007-04-21 12:37:28 · 4 answers · asked by Jason L 1

Hi, Im erica and im Emo, I dress preppish cause of my Charents (childlike parents). How can I show my emo with my charents without my Charents Bickering with me?

2007-04-21 12:24:29 · 8 answers · asked by lil_princess342000 1

I am still living with my mother, yes, and the basement is the only space available. My father is living in the kitchen.

2007-04-21 12:11:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year in october my dad went to prison. when he turned himself in- he asked me to sublease his apartment so his stuff would not have to go inot storage while he was away. I did it. I have been paying all the bills in time, and keepingthe place nice. I had to have a roomate move in. My stuff with his stuff and her stuff is mkaing this place look like hell. My dad had some old furniture that I hate, and its taking up so much space. I want to through it out- to make room for the furniture that i bought/want to buy. By the way, he gets out in oct, and the building was bbought by someone else- who will not lease to him once i sign the new contract. What should i do?

2007-04-21 11:39:42 · 9 answers · asked by cocokutie 3

Well I am facing a problem with my mom.Whenever she sees me watching televisyen at midnight during the weekend and she knows that i don't work on weekends and I usually stay up late to watch my favorite programme but she always nags at me like switch off and sleep but when during the day I sit and watch televisyen she will come and change the channel and would see her favorite programme but when turn the channel she will yell or nags at me is iti wrong of me watching the televisyen during the midnight or the morning day on weekends? Please tell me when is the suitable time. She usually watch durin g the day till night at 10.00 p.m. her favorite programme what is the best way to solve this...... thanks and regards

2007-04-21 10:36:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is helping my grandfather while he is temporarily unable to drive, etc. She has a VERY painful shoulder condition and he is quite demanding. She told him she needs one day a week to herself to relax, and/or get her own stuff done. He told her "I am not happy that you want a day a week to yourself where I cant call you" She said of course she would be available if there was an emergency but she does need some down time. He said "thats fine, any time you cant do something is ok, if I call you and you cant do something its ok to say no, but I dont want to be told ahead of time that you wont be available at all on a particular day." He wants ONLY her to help him. She has plans all day tomorow. She thought it would be more considerate to let him know ahead of time, but he says no, I dont like it presented like that. So, now tomorow, he is going to ask her to grocery shop, etc, and she will unable to do it. He alos likes to throw things back in her face that he did for her before.

2007-04-21 10:25:53 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa 2

I'm 16, i live with my grandparents. But i stay at my girlfreind's house most of the time. Her mom doesn't midn. because she likes me and i help out with things..I come over and spend the daytime at my (grandparents) house and sleep and spend nights at my girlfreind's house...I only come over to my (grandparents) house because they complain if i dont... but whenever i do they cant wait to get me out of the house, and complain because i'm here, i make noise... i eat...i use the computer...my grandpa wants to move just to get away from me :( but i guess, he's never liked me anyway... what do i do, do i just stop comming here, or just leave everyone alone? am i really that much of a drain on everyone? :(

2007-04-21 10:23:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am pregnant. i am 17 and even thought it is legal my mum and dad will kill me. My brother got his girlfriend pregnant when he had just turned 18 and my dad hasnt spoken to him since and that was 3 years ago!!! he says he does not want anything to do with a 'scum' child as he called it... my mother regularly talks to my brother although she does frown upon his relationship with my nephews mother. but she loves my nephew stephen. now im pregnant and the worst part is the father is a boy my dad has banned me from seeing because hes 'not our type'... my family are quite well off but my boyfriend is from the rougher part of town... i dont want to have an abortion becuase i dont like it! i am sooooooo confused please help me... i dont want this baby but i also dont want to get rid of it i cant tell my father!

2007-04-21 10:03:25 · 22 answers · asked by rachael g 2

Its not hard whooping your kids or pinching them a tad bit to get them to quiet down. There are so many white children that does drugs, cut, runaway, and feel peer pressured into things!!!

2007-04-21 10:02:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom has a real problem. ever since i was little from 5 years old and up, she always wouldn't let me listen to music. i hate rap so i wouldn't listen to that. but she won't let me listen to other songs that are popular now. she won't let me listen to music period. she thinks all songs are evil. is this some kind of disorder? HELP.

2007-04-21 09:49:00 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3

I live in the middle of the uk with family in rented house. Wife prefers to stay in London(south side of uk). However i may be offered a 6 months contract earning good money for the family.

Wife says she cannot live on her own but I cannot find a job locally yet.

Wife says she could live near parents place but does not want to live with them as the is not room to accomodate wife and two kids.

We do not own a house and I want to buy soon. House is cheaper to buy where we are now and the schooling is better but wife is bored and feels this is not the place for her.

I could tell them to follow me to the new location where i work but we may sThe kids school year does not finish till July.

There is knowone who can look after wife and kids and she does not have any friends as we have not been living in this area too long.

We have been talking for a long time and my hair is falling out, well most have already.

Please can someone provide some wordly advice....

2007-04-21 09:36:46 · 4 answers · asked by prabo 1

she was so mad in the morning cause somebody took her 2 cookies in the
refrigerator
almost in tears she's 17 years
she's not fat either

2007-04-21 09:32:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do

2007-04-21 09:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by Lekkis 1

you see i am ten my sister is thirteen ans she treats me like garbage ans she always disagree's with me try telling my parents they give her a little bit of a lecture and my sister still goes on with being weirdo this may be stupid but its not today on the trampoline she grabbed my hands and was being really wierd i really dont know what too do do you thnk she is getting out of hand? do you think i should do somthing about it? if you think i should do something about it then tell me what too do i reallly love my sister its just around her friends she wants too show off and she gets too be a really big big jerk she is also rough with with me and says mean things about me right in front of me! please only serious answers!

2007-04-21 07:51:14 · 1 answers · asked by missy <3 ( : 2

2007-04-21 07:33:51 · 5 answers · asked by ilonaforever95 2

All of us are of Asian origin & immigrated here to the U.S. I was raised up here & been here for 22 yrs. Husband & his family been here 17 yrs. We married when I was 19 & have been together 10yrs.
At the beginning of 2006, MIL said she wanted to stop working & could no longer afford her mortgage. Husband wanted MIL, FIL, and little SIL to come live with us. I was hugely against this but promised to give it a try becuz husband really wanted it. Before my baby, everyone was busy working and we got along only civilly in the same house.
MIL quit her job after my baby was born and set her heart on babysitting. The problem is I plan to be a SAHM. Soon I had issues with her hogging my newborn baby, taking him to her room and closing the door, napping with him, trying to act like a 3rd parent, giving unsolicited advice, invading my privacy. We got into a fight & MIL returned to work and moved out. SIL called me out on this & that I was unfit to be DH's wife and a bad mother. WWYD?

2007-04-21 06:48:49 · 19 answers · asked by lemontree 1