Family - April 2007

well, my dad is kinda jealous when he goes out to eat wit my mom, if there is a guy next 2 us he starts asking why my mom was staring at him when she was not! it is not really that bad becuz he does NOT hit my mom, if they argue they just dont talk, or my dad goes for a walk! but now it is worst, no he did not hit her, but he left, and my mom just had a baby for him about a month ago and he is leaving and taking the only ride we have! i have more brothers and sisters, and we all have to go through this and it is tough, especially on my mom, and last nite she packed his things because his sister called saying that he said my mom does not treat him right, but every day after work, there is a big meal waiting for him, she buys him stuff, his clothes are always clean, and he never notices it, when my mom gets ready for him he just say " who did u get ready for" and it hurts my mom, but she does not want to leave him, neither does me or my brothers and sisters! i need serious answers! Help!

2007-04-24 07:23:36 · 5 answers · asked by iluv_rock_n_roll2 2

when the child(ren) didn't ask to be here? I see parents do this all the time. I would NEVER make my son feel that way because me and his father wanted to "have a good time" LOL. What do you guys think about this??

2007-04-24 06:58:42 · 8 answers · asked by tantalizin1 5

Ive done the whole picture book thing a million times. We went to the spa....Ive blown up pics of my sister and I, we've took her shopping, we've went on nature walks. Im runnin outta things to do. I want to do something special though....any ideas??
Im 23, my sister is 11, my mom is 42....

2007-04-24 06:50:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well its like this and may be a bit confusing so bare with me. My mother-in-law used to take our son like every other weekend for the over night. Well I had a baby 2 months ago this friday and she hasn't taken him at all. He is five and starting to ask why she doesn't want him there. She is normaly a very sweet woman, but every weekend we call and ask her and all she does is make excuses. We don't ask her to take the baby, so its not a matter of it being to much for her, just the same as before. I am getting extremely mad over this because my son is starting to feel bad and that makes me offensive. If she doesn't ask this weekend (without us calling her this time) then I am just going to say the he*L with her and not let her take him anymore. I mean by that, if she EVER does ask then just tell her no. Iknow it may sound bad, but my son asks "why doesn't grandma want me there?" and "doesn't she like me anymore?" Its sad and it wrong. He is going to start to think that ever

2007-04-24 06:17:28 · 12 answers · asked by sweetpea <3 3

My foster family does'nt treat me like part of the family. they tell me to be a part and act like part if it but they go and leave me out and do things and don't invite me so what should i do?

2007-04-24 05:09:21 · 13 answers · asked by Tana c 1

I've been thinking about this for months, and I love my family but I hate them. I love each one as a person,but we are not happy together at all. Its like the whole vibe of this house is hateful, stressful and sooooo much more. I can not live with htem, its tearing me apart. I cry every single day about this, I try to do stuff for my parents, work around the house and things like that. But I feel like they don't appreciate me, I think I'm becoming depressed just from my family and I don't want to fall into suicidal thinking. Is there any way that I can legally move in with my aunt or another family member? If she will take me in that is. My parents are not abusive in any way, there is no alchohol or drugs in my home, but its still and extremely unhappy place to be. What can I do? I try to do things to keep my family happy but they are always unhappy which makes me unhappy. I can't handle it, its just to much.

2007-04-24 04:58:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My nephew passed after only 36 min of life 52 hours ago I need to write something for his Memorial gathering. I guess I also need to make something for the paper not sure what it is called to passed out at the gathering. However right now I am not thinking clearly and am asking for help. I am not sure what to write about him or the wording at all any ideas will be appreciated. P.S please refrain from the rude remarks if no ideas or think this was the wrong place to ask I apologize.

2007-04-24 04:56:39 · 7 answers · asked by ?asker 3

My brother and his wife are living in a different country .. then me and my husband moved to this other country .. The problem is that we are only 2 me and my brother .. and now both of us left our parents in our home country .. Although they come to visit us for 1 or 2 months per year and we go to them for about one month too .. but do you think that I should feel guilty about it?

2007-04-24 04:52:01 · 33 answers · asked by Mammy Chris Manu 2

I am going to go broke. I cannot find a job in the extremely rural town I live in and cannot find child care AT ALL that I can afford. I am 19 and have a 19 month old son. My son's grandma has offered me a place to live with her. I currently live with my mom. I am not with the father. My mother charges me rent even though I have no job and am going broke. I want to live with my son's grandma 30 miles away. I can live there for FREE and there are plenty of jobs I qualify for. She will watch my son! I like her and trust her but I will have to live with my ex all summer while he is home from college. however I can save money to get my own place. My Curent boyfriend who I have been with for a LONG time does not want me to go. He was upset when I suggested it. I will not break up with him but I need to do what is best for my future. I am scared he will want to break up. I cannot go broke with my son and this is a good oppurtunity. Im confused and going nowhere fast! WHAT 2 DO???

2007-04-24 04:45:17 · 3 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4

My grandparents got me a laptop for my 17th bday, after they learned I was going to college the next fall. They were really excited and they worked really hard to get me my laptop(over $1000).
My mom always asks to use it. Sometimes she just takes it and leaves it in dangerous situations(on the edge of a rickity table, in full sun in a parked car, etc). We have two computers that do the same exact thing and work much faster, so wouldn't you want to use the faster, more efficient computer? I dont let her use it because she is very irresponsible and has broken things of mine in the past and hidden them from me until I found them.
This laptop means a lot to me and since it is *mine* and there are *TWO* other computers in the house, I am the only one allowed to use it. This is my college laptop! But everyone is always mad when they cant use it and we get in fights all the time. Why? What is so important that they have to use it? I know I sound selfish but this is my 'baby' so to speak.

2007-04-24 04:19:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 5 now and his "dad" left when I was pregnant. Since then, he's been visiting his grandparents instead of him. Now that I'm happily married w/ more children, the grandparents have pushed his dad back into the picture! He hasn't wanted anything to do with him since he was born and now he's wanting full custody! Is there a way I can fight to get him to leave again? Maybe terminate his rights somehow? I don't know where to start. My son is getting mixed signals and is acting out terribly. There are lies being thrown in his face when he goes over there, then he comes home and takes it out on all of us here. I just want what's best for him. His step-dad would LOVE to adopt him. Please help!

2007-04-24 04:19:31 · 11 answers · asked by Lil Sinny 2

did I scare you?

2007-04-24 03:55:40 · 19 answers · asked by livia 1

i wanna go to the beach with my best friend her boyfriend and my boyfriend just for the weekend! my mom is really overprotective nd she wants to have a family dinner with me her and my grandparents WTF!!!

2007-04-24 03:50:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-24 03:40:30 · 7 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5

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2007-04-24 02:40:32 · 22 answers · asked by ©smegma 1

It has been 16 years since I'v seen my father and his family and Sunday my step-sister contacted me through myspace but then shut the door right back in my face. I have always wondered about my father but never planned on finding him until she made contact with me. Now that she opened the door, I want to knock it down. Thanks to a friend, I now have his information and even though my step-sister has asked me not to contact him, I feel that I need to try because I don't want to be the one with regrets in the end. I have his home address but it's the same as his business address so I don't know what the best way to contact him is to be sure I talk to him and not his wife. Any suggesstions? Also, the business is Pioneer Builders in Independence Virginia, if anyone knows any information about this company it would be appreciated. I need all the help I can get here. Thanks in advance.

2007-04-24 02:09:15 · 12 answers · asked by purpleama456 4

As soon as I get home from school, they are right on me about getting on my chores!! Now, I know that they have to work, but don't you think they should at least try to help us a little bit?? AND...for some reason, they think I'm jumping out of my window at night to go see a boy!! =[ I have a b/f, but he lives way to far for me to even think about going out to find him. I am 14, but they are treating me like I'm a full blown and grown adult!! They are always saying "I'm tired of paying for you, you need a job" I HAVE APPLIED EVERYWHERE I POSSIBLY CAN!! I am 14, not 16!! They won't take me....I am constantly getting grounded for the lamest reasons!! Like if they tell me to be home at 8, and I get home at 8:01, they ground me for two weeks!!! That's a little much don't you think?? Well, I could go on FOREVER with this, and I'm pretty sure you are tired of reading, so, Do you think they might be a little too hard on me...?? There is WAY more to this story but I don't feel like typing it.

2007-04-24 01:45:51 · 7 answers · asked by l1zzyxc0re 2

The only reason that keeps me from doing this favor to myself is my family because I don’t wana hurt them, but it is getting harder and harder to take the pain anymore. Pain of living in a f Islamic country while I’m not a Moslem anymore, pain of seeing the women and girls of my country being treated like slaves while I deeply believe in their equal rights, pain of watching the savage governments of my country destroying every thing that has left; every one in this country is desperate and sad, and I guess my biggest problem is that I lost the god in the middle of the way, so now I have nothing or no one to give me hope or willing to live. My father and mother are both conservative Moslems and they always blame me for protecting my sisters rights. I’m really sick and tired of foolish argues with my parents about my sister, and I’m really sick and tired of this life.

2007-04-24 01:39:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife past away a year after my 8th kid; I am currently on sick leave from the doctor and mentally depressed since my wife past away. I am happy with the house but council is not giving me enough money as they say British citizens are not paying enough towards taxes. I currently get £600 a week; rent and tax paid for by the council.

Also when I moved in here; these white kids next door left pork at my door step, maybe they did not know we are vegetarians; shall I chop off their little peckers to teach them a lesson?

2007-04-24 01:19:00 · 42 answers · asked by NAZI NO 1 1

I was born in 1976 Sydney, I was given up for adoption only 1 month after I was born, I have found my biological mother who confirmed my father worked as a Nurse at Concord Hospital
If anyone can help?? or knows of anyone who has worked at Concord Hospital between 1973-1976, All I have is a name and he does not know I exsist - I would like to just let him know he is a grandfather to Twin Boys

2007-04-24 01:16:37 · 11 answers · asked by Shell 1

I'm in the 6th grade and my reading teacher gives me homework every day and that homework is to read. After we read we have to get the reading log signed by a parent to show that we realy did read. On Saturday I read but I forgot to get the reading log signed so when I got to school I realized it wasn't signed and so I signed it in my mom's handwriting, so I committed forgery. Personaly i think you can tell that I was the one who signed it and if the teacher can tell that it was me then she is going to give me detention and 20 hours of community service for it! What should I do?!

2007-04-24 00:58:43 · 9 answers · asked by Joanna G. 1

is there anyone who is atound 23 with 4 or 5 kids.

2007-04-23 23:49:55 · 8 answers · asked by crissy_d_4 2

i life in Africa and have the opportunity to go on holiday for 1 month. family has friends there and will pay for everything, but I'm a bit scared. help talk me into it please.

2007-04-23 23:31:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i m a disable vet and im having a hard time living alone but dont want to move to a vet home im also having trouble with dauther and son who is also in the navy all my friends are dead or moved im very sad tonight could use some help

2007-04-23 19:59:50 · 11 answers · asked by patrick g 1

My father re-married, so is my stepmother now my legal parent?

2007-04-23 18:15:55 · 10 answers · asked by Bobby A 1

2007-04-23 17:53:59 · 9 answers · asked by beaglebaker 2

Hello I'm nearly 15 now and Ive been having a lot of problems and I don't know how to ask to get help..... I'm a football player at a major football school and i dont want my friends to know that im getting help because i would feel like a wack job...... i seem to hide my problems from everyone and party and try to drink my problems away sence about a year ago when my parents sepirated and sence then me and my dad have had major problems and my mother and i are moving back in with him now and i dont know what to say. i just need someone to talk to and i dont know how to ask..... PLEASE HELP.... ive built up so many friends... i had a huge temper in Jr.High and sence then i have learned how to control that and i feel that im going to lose it a lot now but insted of just yelling i could get violent and out of control. i feel like my life has changed so much and i miss the old days when i dident have to think of how things would go on my cred.... god just help.... please help

2007-04-23 17:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i smoke "herbs" and i want to tell my mom but i'm afraid she will flip out, i know my aunt did, but my mom said she never drank and never smoked and shes like overprotective, allot of my friends moms don't mind them smoking and everything but i don't like to keep secrets from her, my best friend died from inhalants and hes the one that got me smoking but i know i would never do anything else, i know "green" is not as bad as cigs and i never smoked a cig, before i started smoking i did my research and i only smoke on weekends but i want my mom to know but some how i have the "perfect" mom that never did anything wrong.... she doesnt even really know i cuss.

2007-04-23 15:09:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

his ex wants to get his girl Sibling visitations. Has anyone heard of this??? any way i would not care except that he ex is crazy.

2007-04-23 15:02:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-23 15:00:31 · 7 answers · asked by KJE 1