i wanna go to the beach with my best friend her boyfriend and my boyfriend just for the weekend! my mom is really overprotective nd she wants to have a family dinner with me her and my grandparents WTF!!!
2007-04-24 03:50:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
A bummer. Overprotective patents are so common these days that the term overprotective might even lose the *over* part. :-(
Why don't you do this: invite your friends to the dinner. Tell them your friends are as important to you as your family. If they argue, you ask them who do *they* think makes you more happy, parents that force you to have their dinner on your own birthday or friends that would do fun stuff that you like doing. If it all fails, you could either sit through the dull evening at the dinner table, or you could put up a big fight.
Or... Invite them to the beach. Tell them you want dinner on the beach. ;-)
Either way, if you let them get used to your submissiveness, they will push harder and harder (all 'in the interest of your own happiness').
Remember this, as well. Don't let them get at you before your birthday. If you get to go to the beach, don't let them give you any crap about it and spoil the evening. If they do, tell your friends and BF about it, so they won't feel awkward.
2007-04-24 04:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise, have the family dinner the day before, or come back from the beach at night to have the family dinner. I don't know how far you are from the beach, but there has to be some kind of compromise that you both can live with, the key is to give a little and then get a little.
2007-04-24 03:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you, if you are not the appropriate age for staying a whole week at the beach then you should try to consider going for just the day. but if not, try to work it out, maybe be you can do both. set a date for the dinner just to make your mom happy, and after that, go have your fun with your friends. if baby sitting is the issue, ask your grandparents to watch the baby, they can never say no .
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2016-05-19 08:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if u can go to the beach a week before ur birthday or a couple of days before..and tell her that u will still have dinner but also say that i can go to the beach in the morning and still be here for dinner and if she says what she says then that is good....GOOD LUCK
2007-04-24 06:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to ur grandparents place just for the day and the next day u could celebrate ur birthfay. Just be adult about it. I remember my mom did it and i just made dont know. In the end u will end up getting more respect ftom her than u know. Try it and if tou dont like it then the next time when the occassion rises, u know what to do
2007-04-24 05:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by mis-teeq-lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the beach during the day and have dinner at night...or ask the family to have an early lunch and leave later
2007-04-24 03:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the beach in the morning with ur friends and when u come back u can have dinner with ur family
2007-04-24 03:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, stay home and have the dinner. You can go to the beach after the baby is born. You shouldn't be out in the sun anyway.
2007-04-24 03:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋