I am still living with my mother, yes, and the basement is the only space available. My father is living in the kitchen.
2007-04-21 12:11:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i just turned 35
2007-04-23 14:38:27 · update #1
I also hav 2 older brothers living with me.
I also do not know how to drive or have any money. HELP!!!!!!
2007-04-23 14:40:37 · update #2
OMFG MY MOM JUST TURNED PREGNANT!!!!!!!!! plz help any1!!!!!
2007-04-23 17:03:28 · update #3
bless your insane heart, :)
2007-04-29 00:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is so much Mum dislikes you as much as she wants some peace and quiet. And like Rage asked "your Dad lives in the kitchen"? It sounds like your family Unit is not operating within the normal realm of things. Do you speak to your Mum at all? Or has the relationship deteriorated beyond discussion.
Perhaps you and your Dad should move out together and leave your Mum to herself.
If you can move out I think that is a far better solution than living under the stress of 'waiting' to be kicked out.
If you are a person in their teens seek assistance from your family and community services in your area they may be able to find you a refuge to go to.
Your Mum may also be saying these things to make you do what she wants, keep basement clean, help around the place etc. If you tell her you will move out as soon as you have the money and find a place she may alter her behaviour towards you.
Your home living arrangements are quite bizzare actually. And your Mum sounds like she has major issues as what she is saying to you is actually abusive.
Still wondering about Dad and the kitchen????????
2007-04-21 12:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by sag_kat2chat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that your mom dislikes you it is more of a case that she dislikes the way you are acting! First off you say that you are still living with her so that leads me to believe that you are over 18. If so then you do need to get some responsibility and get a job and place of your own. It sounds like you mother and father are having a hard time in their marriage, the additional strain of having you freeload off of them, if you are over 18, is causing more problems then they need right now and they are bound to say stuff that they don't mean and would never say anyway. If your under 18 then you still need to grow up and think of other people rather then yourself and try to find ways to help ease the strain between your parents.
2007-04-21 13:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 35. It's time to take responsibility for yourself. You sound like you blame your mom for not having a job and not knowing how to drive. At one point it may have been her fault, but there comes a time to grow up. Get a job and take drivers ed. rent a room if you have to. Don't be miserable anymore. Life is short enough. Good Luck!
2007-04-29 09:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off I'm a mom of a 25 yr old son. He just moved out on his own you are 35? Grow your butt up and be a man your mom needs to have her space too. you will never find a decent partner living with your mom. no- one wants a mommas boy. as long as you live with momma your a mommas boy.
2007-04-29 09:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Malibu Kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets thin kabout this for a second, what are you doing in her basement? what are ou doing ofr hte house? what are you contributing to the house and to help your mom? what have you done for your mom in the last week to let her know you appreicate her for allowing you to sta there? when was the last time you made dinner or offered her to go to dinner with you? when was the last time you bought your mom a gift of apprecuattion? not including her birthday or mothers day or even christmas? what have ou dont to make her life easier? ask yourself all those questions and you will find the answer to your question of why she dislikes you and what you should do.
2007-04-21 12:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....Why dont you try moving to the looney bin and giving dad the basement so he can stop washing his socks in the dishwasher already then he will be movin on up to the.....er bottom lol
2007-04-29 11:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY WORD!!! I am speechless, and that doesn't happen very often! Just do something with your life, get up, dust yourself off and do something. If I had to judge by your avatars expression I would say you need some counselling. Go and get some, its free.
2007-04-29 06:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by Venice Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well their 2 side to every story,, now you said she trying to kick you out,,,,Why?,, are you paying your part on the bills?,,too why your dad liveing in the kicten ?,, honest their to much not told,,,so how can any one help you ,with out knowing the whole story
2007-04-22 03:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a handicap problem and should get some help.
2007-04-28 03:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and be responsible. I dont fully understand the situation.
2007-04-21 13:00:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋