I live in the middle of the uk with family in rented house. Wife prefers to stay in London(south side of uk). However i may be offered a 6 months contract earning good money for the family.
Wife says she cannot live on her own but I cannot find a job locally yet.
Wife says she could live near parents place but does not want to live with them as the is not room to accomodate wife and two kids.
We do not own a house and I want to buy soon. House is cheaper to buy where we are now and the schooling is better but wife is bored and feels this is not the place for her.
I could tell them to follow me to the new location where i work but we may sThe kids school year does not finish till July.
There is knowone who can look after wife and kids and she does not have any friends as we have not been living in this area too long.
We have been talking for a long time and my hair is falling out, well most have already.
Please can someone provide some wordly advice....
2007-04-21 09:36:46 · 4 answers · asked by prabo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is something you will have to work out and decide with your wife. Try a counselor or minister to help you work it out.
2007-04-21 09:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can finish the school year! She is a mother and adult and priorities are important here. Compromise, she will move to you as soon as school is out. Buy a lap top and check in as often as you can. Provide for her financially, check in with all daily details of her life, make kids talkto you on line also, even if she keys. Tell her you will get the housing rental there where your going and the sacrifice will be minimal. Tell her your in charge. Other than that its a weak possibly very dependent woman that may well need you or other to guide her. Listen to her harder about this fear.
2007-04-21 16:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this myself since my husband is gone a lot and we move bases a lot. Does she like any to do anything? How about her kids friends parents? Neighbors? She can take a class on learning to do something fun, like dance, yoga, foreign lang. Get a part time job at a coffee shop. She has to go out of the house to meet people. What about Mom's clubs. She can live on her own. I do it everyday my hubby goes on trips. Buy her the nancy drew games and she can stimulate her mind on the computer.
Hope this helps....
2007-04-21 16:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Courtkanee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello
lets just get down to busyness okay
first all your wife needs to understand that you are doing
this for you all family and if she doesn't understand that then
she doesn't want better for the kids nor her self
you shouldn't have to stop doing something that you want to
do not just for you but for them also so you all can get in a better place where there will be things to do i and in into your own place
in mine how I'm Reading what you have written to me
your wife seems to be very spoiled and likes to get her way
but please don't take this the wrong way
she needs to realize sometimes in order to get better and to have better you have to do thing that you don't want to believe me that's life
and if you and her family is that important to her
then she suck up her pride and do whats best for you all and not for her self
things stop being about her when she started a family believe u know
you are not doing anything so please stop stressing
pray about things and if your love is strong then know chain can hold you all down
2007-04-21 17:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by maria j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋