Family - March 2007

Some people have no conscience. They do things and make decisions that effect others, but they don't care. They just say deal with it. Or they say they are not responsible for your feelings. And if you try to talk to them about it, they get mad at you for making them feel guilty. And then they turn it around like it is your fault. They don't want to deal with anything unpleasant. What do you think?

2007-03-14 16:11:42 · 11 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4

2007-03-14 15:54:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom kept my sis and i away from him since I was like 5. Im 19 now and I finally spoke to him again and my sis and I went to visit him in florida. I remember him beating my mom, cheating on her, he degraded her so badly and abused her. When I saw him again he seemed so normal, so loving and like a totally new person. Then a few months went by and he stopped calling me and my sister. Come to find out, he threatened my step mom, and is doing all these horrible things. like he used to do to my mom. I just want a dad who is a good person. I know he loves me but not enuf to stop hurting the people I care about. Are some people just not meant to have a dad? God its like I wanna adopt one, at least that way I know what its like to have one, but I cant do that. Its not real, I only have one and only father and I cant trade him in.

2007-03-14 15:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by jkeys00 3

but when they lose somthing they dot give it makes me mad >:(

2007-03-14 15:32:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, well my name is Charles Manson...........seriously. I want to change is because people are always associating me with the murder. I'm 17 and people have suggested that I change it when i'm 18 before I enter college.
I have a few questions. Will changing my name affect my scholorships and transcripts? How would I take care of this? And will employeers be able to know that I changed my name?

2007-03-14 15:29:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend, my ex boyfriend to be precise, and we both work in a pub. We broke up because I feel lke he's drinking way too much, he drinks every night and often stay in his bar (where drinks are cheap for staff) till 9 or 10 am (after starting drinking at 6pm). He hardly eats, has lost a lot of weight, is gaunt etc. He also becomes very aggressive after drinking. I'm very worried about him. Is he an alcoholic? If he is, which I'm scared of, how can I help him? He won't listen to me when I say that I think he's had enough and there's no chance of me stopping him from staying for a drink. What can I do?

2007-03-14 15:27:43 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 15:25:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love thrill parks not big on water parks I dont wear swimsuits but the kids enjoy it. i loved disney world but its to far away for us. Anyone been to Kentucky Kingdom?

2007-03-14 15:24:49 · 13 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1

For the people who still have a living mother (to the others, I'm sorry for your loss) how often do you communicate with her, either personal visits, e-mail, or by phone?
I have a daughter in college out-of-state who is much 'too busy' to talk to her mother, except for a quick e-mail sometimes to tell me she is "too busy talk", but will soon.
Do other people have this problem with grown children?

2007-03-14 15:14:48 · 34 answers · asked by Mama_Kat 5

My ex has just said i can only see my daughter once a month she is only 2mnths old and I want to form a bond. So why do women have children with people they don`t like do they not care about what it`s like for the farther.

2007-03-14 15:14:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just realize that I'm spoiled. The reason why my sister-in-law don't like me and the reason why my mom yells at me it's because I'm spoiled.

How can I change? How can I make them believe that I'm mature enough now and NOT anymore spoiled? Please, help me.

2007-03-14 15:12:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey!.. i was wondering where i go about finding information on a certan situation...my boyfriend takes care of his dad (60yr old man) is not able to move on his own without a powered whell chair,he suffered a stroke 2 years ago...and his health since then hasnt been good. He relies on my boyfriend (age 21) to take care of him, give him meals and cleans up unsanitary messes. My boyfriend lives with his dad,and is the only living family left. he cannot afford to live on his own.So my question is..If something were to happend to my boyfriends Father (God Forbid)... is there anything he can do now that can ensure that he is takin care of...housing wise and living? anything that he can sign up for?? if any1 can give me info. or refer me to a website..that would be so helpful!

2007-03-14 14:50:52 · 3 answers · asked by bostonzerosix 1

2007-03-14 14:48:18 · 5 answers · asked by pixiegurl96 1

me. If I'm sick she says she does not have time. Always uses me, and tells me i'v never done enough. i bought the parts for her dryer, and fixed it fixed, and bought parts for her frig. She will ignore me. When she has money she has no time for me. If she's broke she will tell me i need to feed my seven grand kids.

2007-03-14 14:45:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my friends was in the mall at L.A
He was with his little brother and his little brother said a bad word out loud.
My friend was laughing. Well my friend little brother came in front of another person on accident and that person pushed his little brother out of the way. His little brother was then beaten because this person was crazy. The person punched my friend's brother in the face and threw him against an arcade machine, tried to break his brother's leg but before he could. My friend stabbed the person with a knife and kept kicking the lowlife. I told my friend to stop and i said lets put the low life against the arcade machine and keep kicking the lowlife. My friend's little brother was bleeding and hurt and as for the low life was sent to the hospital then sent to jail. The low life had a concussion and was "brutally" beaten. My friend cannot parcipitate in school sports or extra cirricular activities.
Why did my friend get punished because he was standing up forsomeone

2007-03-14 14:44:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother ls missing he left at 7 and hes on probationvso he nows his curfew is 8-ovclock and he cant be anywhere here i called my grandmas and my aunts where he would be but hes not there and he has problems with his friends so he isnt hanging out with any of them and im soo worried hes 14 and its 9:42 here what should i do should ivwait an hour and call the police i dunno what to do???? give me some advice please

2007-03-14 14:43:02 · 4 answers · asked by daniel p 1

My fiance's inlaws are freakin nuts! I honestly don't know how to handle most of their comments or some of the situations i'm put in. I've always been the quiet type and not really speak my mind, but i'm getting to the point where I HAVE to with these weirdos. First of all, they're really nosey. They have to put their two cents into everything including my own personal family relations. They went behind my fiance's back and arranged everything with his ex to get his son for visitation and never consulted us about it. His 2 year old nephew still nurses off of his mother and it really bothers me because now i'm scared to nurse when i have my baby thinking it's sick. They also give their toddlers alcohol when they ask for it. The kids are allowed to have cigarettes in their mouth, run around with steak knifes, sharp objects, basically they run the house hold not the parents, but when we have structure with my fiance's 3 yr old, we're considered bad parents and mean! am i missing something

2007-03-14 14:32:29 · 10 answers · asked by Natalie's Mommy 3

2007-03-14 14:31:43 · 18 answers · asked by lauren s 1

Ok. here is the problem. My brother moved back to our home town yesterday. I still live here. My brother and I had a very rocky relationship and have hardly spoken in 8 years. In the past he has done some very cruel things to me, including sabotoging a past relationship with my son's father. He says he has changed and wants to start anew with the family. And were it seems he has changed a bit, I still see some of the old him. I am married now, and he has already bonded with my husband and my children. I have told my husband my feelings about this. I am afraid he may also sabotoge this relationship.

2007-03-14 14:26:11 · 12 answers · asked by victoria E. 4

My parents were too protective when I was growing up. They wouldn't let me hang out with friends, go out or anything. When I turned 16 they wouldn't even let me drive. I got my license and even after I turned 18, 20, 21 blah blah blah they still wouldn't let me drive. They made me go to college after high school and I begged them not to make me go cause I didn't know what I wanted to be...to this day I still don't know what I want to be. I can't find a job when I look and they give me the hardest time about getting a job. Now that I'm 24 they expect me to know all this stuff...they tease me why I'm not married and why I don't have a boyfriend and they make a big deal about me staying up late. They won't believe me when I tell them I suffer from depression...or that I stayed up late long before I had a computer...for some reason they think it's my only problem...and it's not. I feel like I'm trapped in my own home. I want to get away but I don't now how. I can't even reason with them.

2007-03-14 14:26:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is getting married by next month. He is a CPA by profession. Since it is my first time to have a daughter-in-law, I want to erase all negative notions against a mother. You see, we are a closely-knit family.

2007-03-14 14:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by september 2

i have been letting sister with four kids stay with me since november of 2006, i was going to let her stay until june but she is disrespectful to me and my place. i dont own this condo me andhusband renting,landlord does not know she is staying with us.how can i get her to move out when she says she does not have to. what rights do i have and how can i make her leave.

2007-03-14 14:14:43 · 6 answers · asked by lady 2

It is sometimes so hard to tell my mom somethings that I know i should, but it seems as if something just stops me or like i lost my voice or something. What should i do so i can tell my mom things more easily?

2007-03-14 13:37:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 15 year old step brother, Bobby (not his real name) was hospitalized last night for the second time in 1 month for threatning suicide. It happens everytime his mom calls him, which is about once everymonth. His mom abandoned him and won't tell him where she lives or even her phone number (she owes child support) and this has really messed him up emotionally. I do not live with them, I am married and in my own house, but I talk to my mom almost daily and she fills me in. My 7 year old brother, who is also Bobby's step sibling, lives in the house and I am concerned about how he deals with this. What can I do, as a step sister who cares about him? what can I do to help him get stable?

2007-03-14 13:25:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my boyfriends mom is always around. We live in our own place and she never takes the hint that she needs to leave. One night she came barging into are bedroom while we were doing it. What are suppose to do about her?

2007-03-14 12:57:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 12:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by beth l 2

My dad was not around growing up. He moved back around us a few months ago. He didn't help when we grew up and when he moved up here I helped him get a place and a part time cushy job. Now he is unemployed except the part time job I got him and one my friend got him. The problem is he is now being a d&4#head. I am stumped on how to deal with him. The problem is I am the manager of where we live and he is the maintenance man and now he is trying to get me fired from that. I am a single parent and that job is helping me alot. His current wife is now pregnant also. They are in their early 40's. Anytime I try to talk tohim he get upsets and starts overracting and yelling. Example is I went and got my extra key from his house yesterday and he got upset and said "fine as soon as I get a job I'll pay you back then I'm moving." I didn't ask about any money or nothing I just planned on writing it off. I am wishing he mves just so I don't have to deal with his temper tantrums. Help Please.

2007-03-14 12:46:47 · 7 answers · asked by breenibug 1

the adds on tv for R,S,P,C,C THEY ARE HEART breaking. i am sorry but if i was on that much i would have to give some to causes like this. Each time i see them adds i feel like bursting into tears. and the ones about cancer and the family left in bits. not just footie players but so called stars

2007-03-14 12:46:40 · 13 answers · asked by LISA uk 2

Hi, yeah Im 16 and um he complians and complians about everything most of the time. Complians about little things too and about my older siblings. But most of the time when I speak to him its negitive. My grades arent exactly ready for harvard but you know what I mean. Im just tired of him not listening and not being positive and complianing. It really makes me feel like im a child that has lots of problems, everyone does and I know im not that bad but still come on, it really wears down on you everyday. Ive tried talking to him about all the stuff above but it just ends in yelling, like he comes back at me with the crap I do wrong. Also at times, when we arent even talking about anything he brings up arugments that he knows is going to end in a way that we want to be at eachothers throats. I mean not every conversation is like that but most of the time. He complians to my teachers, anyone. Ive even used the saying "You get more with honey, then you get more with vinigor" Please help

2007-03-14 12:44:31 · 11 answers · asked by mfcm90 1

I went to my moms office today cause it was for a class project and all her friends at work kept treating me like a baby. I was like ummmmm hello I'm not a kid!!!!! weird huh?

2007-03-14 12:37:59 · 3 answers · asked by Amy Ashley 2