Family - March 2007

my kids have both mine and my fiances last name. But when me and him get married im not if im guna keep my last name and add his or just take his. If i just take his do we have to get the kids names changed so they just have his last name?

2007-03-15 03:46:29 · 6 answers · asked by Hooney 1

My brother has a minor learning disability. he left school at an early age and since then hasn't hung around with anyone, he expects me to hang around with him all the time, but i'm older now and have my own life to lead and i'm planning on moving away soon. i've introduced him to a number of my friends but he just doesn't click with them at all, my sister thinks i'm over-exaggerating but i'm not and he wouldn't even visit her all that often unless i suggested it. we have suggested every social activity but he always goes for the hard-to-reach options. i'm upset because i really don't want to leave my brother in the dust when i go off travelling to other places for who knows what amount of time. he may not be capable of running his own home which means he will have to live-in with someone (it'll end up being me) when we are much older because i can't leave him behind forever either.

can anyone give me good advice on how to make my brothers life a little bit better??

2007-03-15 03:41:27 · 4 answers · asked by dodge 1

My half sister was married shortly to her last husband and took on his last name. She in turn had the last name changed and given to her first daughter (she had by someone else) and the the daughter she had with my ex brother-in-law. They are divorced now and she was awarded custody of both kids. The thing is, she dropped the both of them off at my parents place right afterwards and now we're raising them (it's been over 9 1/2 years now). My parents aren't named as the legal guardiand, but she does not keep contact at all and did drop them off herself. There's no way to contact her; we don't even know where she is. Both of my nieces are now at the age where they're being questioned and teased by school mates on their last names because it's different from my parents. How do we go about changing it so that they have their grand parents last name? Is this even possible without my half sister doing it herself? Please help.

2007-03-15 03:30:44 · 2 answers · asked by Sunshine 3

IM 12yrsold and my dad hits me when he gets mad at me what should i do?

2007-03-15 03:27:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is really my sister-in-law's boyfriend. They have been together about 4 yrs. His name is Chris. Anyway, this past Christmas we were at my father-in-law's house. Chris was drinking some long island ice teas. He was fairly drunk. He went out to his car to move it further up into the driveway to make room for more people to park. He scraped his side mirror on the back side of my truck bed. It left a good size dent and lots of black marks. He came inside laughing and told me about it, but I thought he was joking. A week later, I noticed the damage! Now all this time has passed, and no one has brought it up again. I want to trade in my truck fairly soon for a newer one. This damage will likely lower the value. Should I ask him to take responsibility for this or just take care of it myself? Has too much time passed? We all go camping together a lot during the summer, and I consider us close.

2007-03-15 03:03:05 · 9 answers · asked by WhiteDove 2

he left us for another woman. it seems so strange bcoz it's apparent my dad doesn't love the lewd woman. but my real problem is, how to continue living without a father figure? i really miss my papa so much. pls help me with my dilemma.

2007-03-15 02:48:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother and father divorced when I was 7 years old. He beat his wife and 3 kids, could never hold a job, stole rent money, left his family from months without a single phone call, missed every birthday, christmas, and graduation. On top of all of this he has kids (my age: 23) with another woman. He was pretty much the perfect dead-beat dad with a few extras thrown in. I have'nt spoken with him (nevermind seen him) in about 13 or 14 years.
He's dying alone in a Florida hospital of lung cancer. He's contacted my mother and told her everything. He has apologized and begged forgiveness. She forgave him.

I consider myself a strong minded individual, and have realized the fact that my father never has and never will be there for me.
The man is dying in a hospital and i feel nothing. I feel absolutely nothing. My mother thinks I should call him or even visit him. I feel i should too, but i really don't have anything to say to him.
Maybe i do feel something?

2007-03-15 02:41:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

you can't help her , but you can't take it anymore , you don't want her to feel more pian , would you kill her ?

2007-03-15 02:36:30 · 6 answers · asked by Donets'k 5

do you let anyone else in the bathroom when your in there?

2007-03-15 02:35:24 · 16 answers · asked by imjustlookingok 1

Why do people think that all illegal aliens do not pay taxes?Many are not payed under the table and use a ss# to withold taxes.At the end of the year they file for a ITIN and attach the W-2 to the ITIN application. If the W-2 has the bad SS# on it thats fine. The IRS does not give info to SSA or Immigration. Then they have a new number so they can use it in the future for tax purposes instead of someone elses ss#.

2007-03-15 02:25:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i can't even take a shower , do teenagers feel the same , am i crazy ? whats going on with me ? should i tel my mama , nash shed probably ignore me .
please help me . what should i do to get rid of this feeling

2007-03-15 02:24:15 · 6 answers · asked by Donets'k 5

Seeing as someone just mentioned it, thought i'd ask... who gives the thumbs up or down when you answer a question. And how do you do it??

2007-03-15 02:10:09 · 21 answers · asked by jellybean55 3

I messed up pretty bad but they just keep hanging it over me and i cant take it i really already felt horrible it messed up a lot of thing but i think that if i stay i will do something really stupid im 17 and want to move out can they stop me?

2007-03-15 02:05:52 · 4 answers · asked by Cutiepieblueeyes 2

Hi, my mom recently moved the computer out of my sister's room and put it into mine. She moved it because my sister went to a counselor about how my mom would always stay up till 1 am almost every night surfing the web. Me and my sister are both college students. We need to sleep. My sister is 24 years old. My mother is a very unreasonable person. She has a lot of issues from when she was young. You cannot reason with her no matter how hard you try. In her mind, she is always right. When I ask her to get off the computer and let me sleep, she treatens to kick me out of the house. When I ask her how long it will be, she screams, "I don't have to answer to you!" Then she continues to tell me that I'm a waste of space and that she wishes she never had me. I tried to set up a schedule so she can write in when she wants to be in my room, but instead of writing on the paper, she tore it up. Then I asked her if she can be out of my room at a certain time every night, she refuses to answer me.

2007-03-15 02:04:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad has a new job in indiana and hes moving tomorrow. my mom and me are going to move in may whhen school gets out. the thing is my father and my sisters are going to miss my birthday which is the 22nd so should i just act like it doesnt bother me that they are going to miss my birthday or tell him and make him feel bad abou it. i know they love me so what should i do?

2007-03-15 01:57:05 · 6 answers · asked by jumpy j 1

just curious how many of you have seen your parents drunk (or at least one of them)..

where they are obviously drunk.. like tippy.. slurry and all that good stuff.. and if you have seen them that drunk.. how often have you seen it..

just curious about how "normal" my childhood was :)

2007-03-15 01:54:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is the father of my child and i'm living with him, but my father who the only way i contacted him was email scince i was bornwants me to stay with him..............what should I do?

2007-03-15 01:16:34 · 15 answers · asked by jessica y 1

and then went to rochell ill----she was going to be a teacher--she was my friend--we lost touch when i moved to iowa---i want her to know I AM ALIVE---if you know her please tell her to contact me billie rogers

2007-03-15 00:38:20 · 1 answers · asked by Billie R 4

My grandson had his phone stolen at a party 3 weeks ago & my niece in law has just offered it to me in part payment of a kitten i'm selling. I want to get the phone back to my grandson without him knowing how i got it. how can i do that? I dont want to cause trouble for my nephew who had nothing to do with having the phone in the first place. it was my niece-in-law who was given it by a member of her family. my grandson would go mad if he knew & probably do someone damage & end up getting nicked. I dont want that to happen.

2007-03-15 00:31:37 · 11 answers · asked by Angel Eyes 2

anybody got an birth date and time like mine , i was born at 12.34am on the 5th june 1978,
look at the numbers 12.34 5th june 78 ,
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 , anybody elses dates and times run like mine .

2007-03-15 00:30:01 · 18 answers · asked by fafandloo 5

I need advice about my mum.We have totally different ideas when it comes to life.Im 18 and going to be leaving soon, she wants me to stay in the town im in, get a job preferably in a bank or as a teacher, not go to college, get a husband and a house close to where she is (we recently moved and now live 6 houses away from my older brother!!). Im planning on going to florida (i live in ireland) to be with my bf in september and be with him a year, i have already applied to my colleges and when i come back, im going to go to a college 300 miles away, i dont have any other plans apart from that because i dont think i could predict these things. The problem is she doesnt take me seriously, laughs when i tell her, saying i wont/cant do it, refuses to discuss me going away.How can i get her to listen to me and take me seriously and get her out of the denial she is in about me growing up and being able to do this and stop treating me like a child with grandiose ideas?? Thanks =)

2007-03-15 00:25:34 · 13 answers · asked by Chyme 6

2007-03-15 00:20:56 · 13 answers · asked by primadonna 1

2007-03-15 00:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by alya r 1

2007-03-14 23:32:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sis passed having a brain tumour & my bro-in-law has a new girlfriend right after her demise. I was very pissed with him at first but i forgave him because he was there for my sis till the day she passed. He & my family are still in good terms but it is very arkward when we see his girlfriend around. I hated this girl. To me, she is just a gold digger. How do I overcome this hatred over her?

2007-03-14 22:16:39 · 9 answers · asked by Piper 1

Choose just one of them and plz let me know what makes you say so?

2007-03-14 21:55:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 21:33:40 · 2 answers · asked by dana j 1

Is there something that reminds you of a great time in your childhood? Example. I am 14 but through my whole life, the glamour of it was going to Argentina to visit my mom's family (which includes my cousins, which were sooo special to me.) My twin sister has the same feelings and the memories of the Argentinian family are triggered by smells such as newly cut grass, mate, or other smells that come out of nowhere but remind so well of our time(s) in Argentina with the family.

Anyone here have such a memory? If so, write down what things trigger the memory of it and exactly of what it reminds you of...

Thanks,
Chau!

2007-03-14 21:04:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

According to my husband, my brother in law hates me. He hates me because I left my husband a while back, took the kids and packed my things and walked out the door. I warned my husband that I was not going to be spoken to the way he has and I would leave him if he continued. So I did. I put an order of protection against him because he threatened to hit me and I wasn't going to deal with it. I didn't know that the order would put my husband out of the house and allow me to come back to it. His brother hates me because of it. He only knows his brothers side of it so in a way he has reason to. Should I write him to let him see my side to let him judge for himself on who to believe, or let it go? Its hard to let it go and have him around when he comes and sees the kids or at family functions. Hes nice to me yet I was told by others its just an act of kindness. I can't live with the fact of someone hating me and faking niceness to be near my kids. My husband and I are back together and...

2007-03-14 20:57:33 · 6 answers · asked by Koozie 5

2007-03-14 20:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous